Which do you prefer.

[Fradi]

I am kind of torn on which I prefer.

Do you like a web page full of flowery comments about making a sensual connection, chemistry I will take you on an emotional journey that you will treasure or memories for a lifetime

Or the simplistic approach of I will fuck the shit out of you if you pay me enough.

The first approach certainly says that she is very capable of role play and can give an Oscar winning performance while the second shows confidence and honesty.
I am still torn between the two lol.

 

[Doc Holliday]

Do you like a web page full of flowery comments about making a sensual connection, chemistry I will take you on an emotional journey that you will treasure or memories for a lifetime

Or the simplistic approach of I will fuck the shit out of you if you pay me enough.

Option #2. Whenever i see option #1 i prefer to skip the bullshit & go directly to the pictures. Keep it simple.

 

[DetectiveDavidMills]

Option #2. Whenever i see option #1 i prefer to skip the bullshit & go directly to the pictures. Keep it simple.

Ditto

Option #1 makes me want to go sleep

 

[Seven007]

Honestly, I’ve always wanted to write a similar post. God those flowery ads are sooooooo annoying because they’re trying to sophisticate the John and prostitute relationship. I roll my eyes every time I see those ads.

 

[Johnny test]

I don't know if those are the only 2 options .
But if (as an SP) you only want to promote option 2 you don't need a website, an add will be enough, less costly and more efficient in terms of traffic.
If you decide to build a website, i think it's smart to make it different than the competition, basically use it as a tool to show how different you are from the rest.
Could be the "flowery comment" you described or specific needs like BDSM services for example.
As an indy it should be something that reflects who you are and what you offer, hopefully there's a market for that (that's the main issue)

 

[Fradi]

I kind of marvel at some of the adds they have.
Especially when you see someone who looks like a goth queen or a hells angels biker chick and then you get paragraphs of flowery poetry of the unforgettable journey and the memories you will treasure for a life time etc…..
I always wonder if it is actually that person who thought up that stuff or a web designer or that she has an artistic friend helping her.

 

[ChloeCoeur]

This is a really interesting thread, from the SP perspective I have often wondered the same.

I tried having Chat GPT write some copy for me at the beginning because I couldn't burp up enough floweriness, but it was sort of disastrous. Ended up trying to be more straightforward which I've had a few folks comment on positively when reaching out. Definitely a balance to strike.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Honestly, I’ve always wanted to write a similar post. God those flowery ads are sooooooo annoying because they’re trying to sophisticate the John and prostitute relationship. I roll my eyes every time I see those ads.

My thoughs, exactly!

 

[Lunaseraphim]

You know, it's not because we talk about our interests and personality on our website and ads that we are ''acting''. We want to attract people who are like minded and have points in common with us.

 

[Anong]

We want to attract people who are like minded and have points in common with us.

Agreed. But common interest for both sides to get together and have good time with sex. Not much time to explore common interest except sex. lol

 

[Johnny test]

A website is a marketing tool, it should reflect who you are and what you are offering and, as @Lunaseraphim mentioned, who you want to attract.
If you invest in a website instead of a simple add it's often because you feel you have something specific to offer (flowery stuff, Kinky experience, wrestling in the mud etc.) and, if there's a market for that you will be successful.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Less, less words are my preference.

Agreed. But common interest for both sides to get together and have good time with sex. Not much time to explore common interest except sex. lol

It's your opinion. But when someone decides to spend 24 hours or more with me, they researched, it's not random and certainly not just for sex.

 

[Johnny test]

Less, less words are my preference.
It's your opinion. But when someone decides to spend 24 hours or more with me, they researched, it's not random and certainly not just for sex.

Your website seems pretty effective and reflects who you are (i think), it's also easy to find on Google which is not always easy especially in this industry.
That's what i meant when i asked if those were the only 2 options (flowery comments or i'll fuck the shit out of you), you don't use unecessary sentences so that helps finding relevant informations but the design is classy to reflect an "elite" standard (elite may be a bit too much, couldn't find the right word)

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Your website seems pretty effective and reflects who you are (i think), it's also easy to find on Google which is not always easy especially in this industry.
That's what i meant when i asked if those were the only 2 options (flowery comments or i'll fuck the shit out of you), you don't use unecessary sentences so that helps finding relevant informations but the design is classy to reflect an "elite" standard (elite may be a bit too much, couldn't find the right word)

So yes I guess, there is the straight-to-the-point kind of website but with more stylish sentences :- )

 

[Fradi]

There is no second guessing as to who wrote the words when it is straight forward and to the point.
Sometimes it actually is true, the two ladies I see most often with one of their adds it was saying that she is the ultimate companion stylish and immaculately dressed for the occasion gorgeous from head to toe and it was completely true.
The other young lady basically said I will fuck the shit out of you and very few actually like sex the way I do and I am really good at it.
Both these ladies were true to their word and I have been seeing them ever since.
So for me both work but I do spend more time on the flowery ones wondering how much or all of it is BS.

 

[Johnny test]

You're right that there is such thing as too many words, we often hear that people don't read on the internet which isn't exactly right, "people read differently on the internet", so clearly going straight to the point on your website can make a difference.
A lifetime ago i use to advise small businesses on their web presence and i often said that your homepage should answer the most common questions.
For example, if you're a plumber, the emergency phone number should be the first thing you see.
I don't have the statistics for sex workers but i would assume that pictures and rates are the most common infos people are looking for.

That being said it's also a competitive business, so going straight to the point yes, but if you can find something that makes you slightly different than the rest, it could make a difference.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Agreed. But common interest for both sides to get together and have good time with sex. Not much time to explore common interest except sex. lol

Speak for yourself. A lot of clients book sessions that are 90 minutes, 2 hours, 3 hours. A lot of clients book dinner dates. Even in an hour there is often time to talk. Not everyone just books half hours or wants to have sex for an entire hour, a lot of people are seeking companionship. Even if I just see someone for a half hour or 45 minutes, I'd rather not see someone who has a disagreeable personality and acts disrespectful.

I agree that too much text can seem a bit pompous sometimes which is why I keep my descriptions short and sweet but I just want clients to know who I am

 

[Anong]

I'd rather not see someone who has a disagreeable personality and acts disrespectful.

No one like to see such people. Me neither.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

No one like to see such people. Me neither.

What I'm saying is that by describing a bit who I am it often attracts clients who are on the softer side and have similar personality types as me.

It's also nice to have things in common because sex unless someone books me for a half hour it's rare that we are having sex during the whole booking. That's not so hard to understand