Which SP would be a good mother?
- Thread starter Skym
- Start date
Maybe a new thread could be named WHICH SP WOULD BE A BAD MOTHER. It would probably be the most controversial thread on this board & would likely be shut down after a few hours! I can just imagine people posting their choices & explaining why. Sps would also get involved & put in their two cents & start naming names themselves of colleagues they’d qualify as potentially terrible mothers or even terrible current mothers. I can just imagine the nightmare this would cause for the moderators & possibly be threatened with legal action by the targetted females! Lol
What’s the point? Why always so negative. I like this thread, that’s sweet and inoffensive for once
What the fuckity fuck
Why on earth would you even be wondering this
Why on earth would you even be wondering this
I guess it’s the logical next step after “don’t fall in love with your ATF”
Maybe he wants someone to look after his kids?
p.s. I used to know an sp who retired to become a nanny. But i doubt she’s still available. Lol
Peach the Indy might ask the baby to send a pic before giving birth to see what IT would look like. JK
What a ridiculous thread.
I know I will get a lot of flack for this but bringing up a child while being a sex worker is not exactly the best environment for that child.
Mommy going off to fuck different men all the time is not what a child needs to remember or her friends to know about.
Unfortunately the child also will have to live with the stigma attached to this profession it is sad but that is the reality of life still today.
I know I will get a lot of flack for this but bringing up a child while being a sex worker is not exactly the best environment for that child.
Mommy going off to fuck different men all the time is not what a child needs to remember or her friends to know about.
Unfortunately the child also will have to live with the stigma attached to this profession it is sad but that is the reality of life still today.
It actually happens more often than you think & actually happening right now. I have tremendous respect for the ladies who are in this profession in order to support a child. Over the years i’ve met several that were single mothers. It’s not easy work.
Tremendous respect yes, but is it fair to that child to be brought into that environment.
No it is is not easy work but they chose it , the child did not.
You say that like the child is waiting by the side of the bed while mommy makes money, which is ridiculous.
That’s not for us to judge their choices. Personally i’d rather they spend their money on their children instead of on drugs, partying, travelling all the time, dining in expensive restaurants with their girlfriends all the time or give their money to their pimps. But again it’s not for me to judge them or how they spend their money. But when it’s to help a child? I’m cool with that.
And you say that as if the child will never know that mommy is going off to fuck men everyday.
I assume you are not a parent.
It is not about where they spend their money or what they do with their money.
Yes they love their children like any other mother and want the best for them there is no question, and it is not about judging them.
It is about reality of life and the stigma attached even today to this profession and the ridicule that child will be subjected to in school and all their life.
It is not an environment that is good for that child and yet they have no say in it.
I am cool with what anybody wants to do with their life it is their choosing but that child did not choose that life style.
So you’re fine with a parent wasting money on escorts? Money that could be given to his children instead? Ok. You’re entitled to your choices & opinions. And i’m fine with whatever a woman choses to do with her body & how she spends her earnings.
Basically what i’m saying is that it’s not for us to force our personal beliefs onto others. We have to learn to respect one another’s choices & that our beliefs & opinions may not necessarily be the correct ones. We are all different.
Stating what your opinion is is not forcing your beliefs on anybody they can take it or leave it. Yes we are all different.
So you think wasting money on SP is bad and it should be given to children instead.
On that note wasting money for a single guy can be the same I am sure there is a worthy charity he can give it to instead.
I couldn’t care less what anybody does with their life or their money it is their choice their life but I do have an opinion like everyone else and mine is that it is not a great environment for a child to grow up with a parent being a sex worker. If it was then every sex worker would be proudly telling every one they know their families friends and putting it front and center on their resume when they apply for a civi job.
Reality of life is very different than what we would like it to be.
You are perpetuating the stigma we face, and you are talking about it like you are not part of the problem, worst, you are blaming us for facing said stigma by being parents and wanting to build a regular life for ourselves. The stigma does not come from others, it comes from you when you say we should not have children, it comes from our own clients who think we don't deserve what everybody has because we are sex workers, it comes from each of you in this society who thinks we do not deserve to have regular lives.
Breaking the stigma starts with you, by believing that we deserve to be parents, by believing that we can be integral parts of this society, and educating people around you and spreading the word that we deserve respect. If everyone would observe and question their prejudices against us (i.e. it starts by realizing that statements such as sex workers shouldn't be parents ARE stigmatizing us), we would be able to raise children normally, without facing the stigma you so beautifully acknowledge, and yet, perpetuate.
Similar threads
