Why so some SP's not like DFK or its restriction?
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I get what your saying. But everyone has their own ways of seeing this.
Relationships with SPs are often something else. It isn't acceptable to have that kind of mindset.
We do this for work. It isn't just about satisfying our own pleasures. And like anyone else's relationships it is targeted between the 2 parties within the relationship. Anything that is done that isn't agreed on by both in the relationship is concidered cheating. If I slept with anyone without being paid for the time, in our relationship that counts as cheating. And if he slept with anyone without my knowledge and inclusion that would be him cheating. And for either of us if cheating is involved we end the relationship. Once trust is lost, there is no relationship.
And since he isn't paying me when I am with him. It would be insulting, and an absolute betrayal if he was paying someone else to sleep with them. But that's me, he can then be a client like any other, and doesn't deserve my heart, respect, or trust any longer. While another SP might not mind, but general concensus is we want partners we can trust, and if that trust is betrayed, there's no reason to remain in that relationship. Same as anyone who dates an SP and throws that at them in a fight, doesn't deserve them as a partner either.
Everybody has their own set of rules and values to live by and their reasons.They can do whatever works for them.
Mine are what they are, it worked well for me and I am way too old to change nor do I want to change.
I am quite comfortable with who I am, and how I live my life.
For me it is pretty much all about family. SP are a welcome addition and for me it keeps me happy, alive, and I am lucky to have the ladies I see regularly in my life, they are amazing and gorgeous and I consider them as friends.
But in all honesty I am the one who can get weird sometimes, when the girl is, in my opinion, too young for me. But, like everything in life, there is always exceptions to the rules.
Oui.
This is why I ask 25+
I’m so freaked out and not well in the moment even after seeing proof of ID.
But yes there are exceptions!!
I totally agree and feel the same.
I try to avoid using the expression ymmv because it leads to confusion.. except for a few things. But in a way it should be a given. Appearance and age gap should not be an issue to me at all, but other things such as poor hygiene, lack of communication, different needs, rudeness, etc can change the experience. I'm going to say that most clients get the same treatment from me, but even if I say I offer certain acronyms it doesn't mean all these activities will happen during a single booking (and that's normal!), and often clients don't ask for everything I offer, they want an organic and tender experience because it's a gfe session.
I do agree that definitions like GFE and PSE should be standardized sometimes because they can lead to confusion, and maybe sometimes in the moment something will happen that's beyond what I usually offer as someone who advertises herself as a GFE provider, but I don't want to feel pressured to offer it all the time. I added things to "the menu" in the past year that are typically not part of gfe, and most people don't ask for them. I'm wondering if it was the right choice now. I understand why DFK is a need for a lot of clients who want a feeling of romance and passion to the session, but like I said, I feel like a lot of people don't know the difference between LFK and DFK. (even I am not so sure... but i suspect that dfk is a lot more aggressive)
Yep, a lot of the time people want LFK but identify it as DFK because it's not just a peck on the mouth lol
Feel bad for an SP who feels creeped out by a client who expects DFK as thats an uncomfortable situation to be In!
What an interesting way to share how you got strep throat
Looking forward to the deep throat explanations.
That totally reasonable. Like I said in an other thread. Even if an SP advertise offering DFK, to expect her/him to offer it when the client's mouth and breath looks and smells like Guantanamo Bay in a hot Summer is quite insane. It should always be at the discretion of the provider.
That’s why I always had the Bad breath SOS kit.
Toothpaste, mouthwash and JD honey straight from the bottle - tequila Heineken, pas l’temps d’niaiser.
And yet even after all that you stopped . Somethings off then lol
Yup.
That’s why I stopped it.
Kept getting sick too often and was too personal.
It sucks because, people can be so sweet… but be sour all at the same time. If you know what I mean
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