Why so some SP's not like DFK or its restriction?

[Toto beefcake]

One of the biggest reasons as to why people refer to it as the “OG GFE”.

Things changed and ladies decided they didn’t need to push their own boundaries and fake kiss others. Because trust me there are many that do it only for the job and when they text their friends about it after it’s about how gross it was.

But hey… whatever floats everyone’s boat.

Haha at the texting part Id say majority do it for the job. The venting is funny after the fact. Given the fact that so many dont know how to kiss and reinact a hentai video and assume its top lol . ( To quote a favorite line from a famous movie “ ARE YOU NOT ENTERTAINED “

 

[Valentina]

It seems like common sense to me. If someone has bad breath or whatever they reserve the right to refuse certain things. I love when I hear about dudes getting turned away at the door for something (being unclean or intoxicated for example). It means the SP has standards. I've been non monog for over a decade and I'm sex positive, but I wouldn't want to kiss or be intimate with any person that steps up. I prefer when things are ymmv or at thier discretion, as much as I prefer low volume providers.

Sorry I don’t share your common sense..

My common sense is more like: I wouldn’t put out and play favourites to please people / play favourites.

What you’re describing is not YMMV. It’s just basic standards to me.
YMMV is when an SP gives extras that she wouldn’t do in the first place.

Why would an SP treat a client like a project who can “do better?” It’s odd. It’s like taking them by the hand and giving them a golden star sticker in kindergarten. Lmao. “Good job here’s your reward” type of thing.

Extras are extras - I wouldn’t sell myself short hahaha literally.

And if he’s gross then I’ll never see him again.

 

[Valentina]

the I Love Lucy episode where she is trying to pack chocolates coming on a conveyor belt into a box and it keeps speeding up until there are chocolates flying everywhere. Don’t want to be one of the chocolates.

ROFL

 

[Toto beefcake]

It seems like common sense to me. If someone has bad breath or whatever they reserve the right to refuse certain things. I love when I hear about dudes getting turned away at the door for something (being unclean or intoxicated for example). It means the SP has standards. I've been non monog for over a decade and I'm sex positive, but I wouldn't want to kiss or be intimate with any person that steps up. I prefer when things are ymmv or at thier discretion, as much as I prefer low volume providers.

I dont know man, that seems like basic hygiene to me. Not ymmv

 

[Valentina]

I dont know man, that seems like basic hygiene to me. Not ymmv

Yeah I’m not about to mommy people about hygiene.
“Here’s a free rimjob for your clean dick”

 

[Fradi]

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“Here’s a free rimjob for your clean dick”

That sounds like a winning advertisement to me.
Be careful though they will start to clean other parts also.

 

[Valentina]

That sounds like a winning advertisement to me.
Be careful though they will start to clean other parts also.

It was in reference to an automechanical service. Get your mind out of the gutter.

 

[DouMan]

It was in reference to an automechanical service. Get your mind out of the gutter.

Oh, you meant like an exhaust probe?

Imagine that clamped to our nuts and, 1,2,3, bloooow

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

What you’re describing is not YMMV. It’s just basic standards to me.
YMMV is when an SP gives extras that she wouldn’t do in the first place.

Totally wrong, thats just another example of reinventing the meanings of acronyms. Acronyms were widely accepted on boards of this kind, i.e. Hobbyist for hobbyist to simplfly the exchange of infos. Strangely the variations(sometimes very misleading), seems to always come from providers.

 

[Valentina]

Totally wrong, thats just another example of reinventing the meanings of acronyms. Acronyms were widely accepted on boards of this kind, i.e. Hobbyist for hobbyist to simplfly the exchange of infos. Strangely the variations(sometimes very misleading), seems to always come from providers.

I’m not trying to reinvent anything. I believe this is its meaning. I’d like to be corrected if I’m wrong!

It’s only normal that Bob won’t get the same service as Tom.

They’re different people = function differently.

It’s kinda like when guys ask me “do you squirt?”
Yes, I do but maybe Bob got the squirt that day because it happened naturally and didn’t with Tom.

Doesn’t mean I favour Bob. I probably favour Tom actually because I wouldn’t have to clean up and pass the mop afterwards.

 

[Valentina]

Oh, you meant like an exhaust probe?

Imagine that clamped to our nuts and, 1,2,3, bloooow

DouMan that looks like torture. It was a play on words. Meaning: I’ll clean your car rims with the pushpush.

 

[Valentina]

Totally wrong, thats just another example of reinventing the meanings of acronyms. Acronyms were widely accepted on boards of this kind, i.e. Hobbyist for hobbyist to simplfly the exchange of infos. Strangely the variations(sometimes very misleading), seems to always come from providers.

I just reviewed my shenanigans.
I can see where I went wrong - by implying extras were given. Which is not necessarily true.

YMMV is just a given off the bat - logical that it’s a different experience for everyone.

I can also see why the term can get lost in translation.

Strangely the variations(sometimes very misleading), seems to always come from providers.

(and I understand why you gave me those eyes haha)

However, I also think that some clients have given the term YMMV their own kind of spin on it. It’s given a different connotation / they EXPECT certain things from a SP regarding their experience. Especially after having read reviews on them. I see lots of that. They then get disappointed that they didn’t get the same “results” that someone else got. (My prior example to Bob and Tom)

So. @Workingman and @Cap'tain Fantastic I apologize for being a dumb bitch tonight. (It may happen again some other time, sorry in advance)

 

[NFLMEL]

I’m not trying to reinvent anything. I believe this is its meaning. I’d like to be corrected if I’m wrong!

It’s only normal that Bob won’t get the same service as Tom.

They’re different people = function differently.

It’s kinda like when guys ask me “do you squirt?”
Yes, I do but maybe Bob got the squirt that day because it happened naturally and didn’t with Tom.

Doesn’t mean I favour Bob. I probably favour Tom actually because I wouldn’t have to clean up and pass the mop afterwards.

There used to be a time not long ago when you booked a SP from one of the top MERB agencies and you were clean and polite GFE: BBBJ, DFK, DATY & DIGITS was the norm, one did not have to ask as it was a given. For me LFK was good enough and have issues with having short fingernails so DIGITS was out but my choice.
As I stated earlier, these ladies are still out there.

 

[DouMan]

DouMan that looks like torture. It was a play on words. Meaning: I’ll clean your car rims with the pushpush.

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Naw, not torture, but does give a "hole" new picture of "blowing smoke up someone's ass"

 

[Valentina]

There used to be a time not long ago when you booked a SP from one of the top MERB agencies and you were clean and polite GFE: BBBJ, DFK, DATY & DIGITS was the norm, one did not have to ask as it was a given. For me LFK was good enough and have issues with having short fingernails so DIGITS was out but my choice.
As I stated earlier, these ladies are still out there.

Yes I don’t doubt that at all! And that’s pretty cool! As a client perspective:
Less headaches / research. Simplicity. Haha.

I’m also the type to not read the menu at a restaurant and go for the same meal/ combination I know I will enjoy! (food analogies make me lol)

But yes. I guess it’s changed and girls complicated it. When in reality they just won’t force themselves to do XYZ if they don’t want to / have boundaries.

I get you guys’ POV.

 

[Fradi]

I’m not trying to reinvent anything. I believe this is its meaning. I’d like to be corrected if I’m wrong!

It’s only normal that Bob won’t get the same service as Tom.

They’re different people = function differently.

It’s kinda like when guys ask me “do you squirt?”
Yes, I do but maybe Bob got the squirt that day because it happened naturally and didn’t with Tom.

Doesn’t mean I favour Bob. I probably favour Tom actually because I wouldn’t have to clean up and pass the mop afterwards.

Am I ever glad I am not named Bob or Tom.
The free rim job for the dick sounds far more enticing.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

YMMV is just a given off the bat - logical that it’s a different experience for everyone.

Bingo! Most of the time, the different experiences would be based on hygiene, rude client, awkward personality/lack of social communication skills and less frequently, appearance or age gap.

 

[CLOUD 500]

Am I the only one that thinks YMMV is bizarre? Why would I wanna play favourites and push my own boundaries to people please? Idk. Never understood that.

I never wrote that it was bizarre? I only said that it should be disclosed upfront in the ad if not then to not to use GFE because it is misleading.

 

[Valentina]

I never wrote that it was bizarre? I only said that it should be disclosed upfront in the ad if not then to not to use GFE because it is misleading.

Oh I know, I personally just thought it was bizarre. Then I went off on a wild tangent lmao. (Someone take my phone away when I can’t work / recovering from strep hahah)

Back to DFK.

 

[Fradi]

or age gap.

I have zero problem with the SP being slightly younger than me.
Will never hold it against them.