Why so some SP's not like DFK or its restriction?

[Valentina]

Alot of bodybuilders who are juiced up like this type of stuff. And trannies. The roids play with their mind .

Also open relationships are bogus. At that point just be single . Lol

LMAO. I didn’t witness those side effects from my SO at the time. I got the other, “good side effect” if you know what I mean. So that was nice…

I agree with you as well. When I’m in a relationship it’s “closed” lol. However, if I do ever get into one in the near future, he needs to be okay with my job currently. (Which many aren’t and that’s understandable).

Because I ain’t sharing him muhahaha *pisses on him for territorial purposes*

 

[Valentina]

Nah.
Rules are simple, I wouldn’t fuck around if I had a significant other/wife, and I would leave her if she did.
I don’t share people I love and I don’t expect them to either.

Same.
Outside of my “job” I’m very much the same as a person. But my job causes contradictions.

 

[NFLMEL]

Can you describe "no restrictions"? This is so vague, everybody has restrictions. "No restrictions" implies you're ok with being pegged, or you might expect anal or fetishes for a GFE - who knows lol. There is no such thing as "no restrictions" you should ask the provider if she offers what you want specifically to avoid misunderstandings.

GFE basic, DFK, BBBJ, DATY, not PSE. Figured most people understood this.

 

[Valentina]

GFE basic, DFK, BBBJ, DATY, not PSE. Figured most people understood this.

I’m FE. Friend experience HAHAHA

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

I prefer being asked “do you have any restrictions?”

Even asking if the girl has any restrictions is weird imho. I prefer asking "what are your restrictions".

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

GFE basic, DFK, BBBJ, DATY, not PSE. Figured most people understood this.

Not anymore, it seems.

 

[NFLMEL]

Not anymore, it seems.

They are out there.

 

[CLOUD 500]

Even asking if the girl has any restrictions is weird imho. I prefer asking "what are your restrictions".

I just get directly to the point. I will almost always ask if booking an Indy if DFK is offered. With agencies it does not quiet work because you are dealing with a middle man, I will read reviews of the girl I am interested to book.

 

[CLOUD 500]

Not anymore, it seems.

True say. Seems true especially with Indys, GFE has become more YMMV. I find the Indys who are YMMV are usually the ones that dislike reviews being posted and/or have NRP. But at those prices, I think being more clear and not using GFE as a marketing tool to get customers is important.

 

[NFLMEL]

I’m FE. Friend experience HAHAHA

A good friend is expected to go above and beyond

 

[Workingman]

I’m FE. Friend experience HAHAHA

Jfc "friend zone experience" gawd no

 

[Workingman]

The thing is kissing and intimacy of really nice slow sensual kissing is as good as, if not better than the sex. It's what makes it feel less transactional. Imo it's what gfe is all about. Not feeling rushed or feeling like a client for the course of the session. There's such emphasis on the service including xyz, but it's the pace and energy.

 

[Doc Holliday]

From my experience i’d say that 80% of the ladies i met in the business told me that they weren’t very fond of the kissing/dfk part although they all offered it. This included very popular sps whose dfk skills people raved about in their reviews. When i inquired why they still did it the usual response was that they felt they didn’t have much of a choice since most girls did it & agencies they worked for demanded it. Sometimes they’d mention it was very difficult to do with clients who either had bad breath or didn’t believe in brushing their teeth or any dental hygiene. I knew exactly how they felt since i’ve went out with girls who had bad breath or smoked so yeah…kissing ain’t fun in those cases! Lol. A few girls even told me the kissing part was the hardest part of their job & this included with regulars they’d seen several times.

 

[Valentina]

Jfc "friend zone experience" gawd no

Well.

Apparently I dont fit the GFE criteria since I don't offer DFK. But I do other things that others dont offer…….

So. I just end up sending my “menu” lmao. And everything is clear, concise and explained..

 

[Sylar]

As a client POV, I personally wouldn’t kiss an SP - knowing I may not be her first client of the day.

Fair point, and even if he was the first client, it doesn't mean that the SP doesn't have a BF / partner. Then again, you also don't know if you were the client's first SP and who knows which Y or O he dined at before.

 

[Valentina]

From my experience i’d say that 80% of the ladies i met in the business told me that they weren’t very fond of the kissing/dfk part although they all offered it. This included very popular sps whose dfk skills people raved about in their reviews. When i inquired why they still did it the usual response was that they felt they didn’t have much of a choice since most girls did it & agencies they worked for demanded it. Sometimes they’d mention it was very difficult to do with clients who either had bad breath or didn’t believe in brushing their teeth or any dental hygiene. I knew exactly how they felt since i’ve went out with girls who had bad breath or smoked so yeah…kissing ain’t fun in those cases! Lol. A few girls even told me the kissing part was the hardest part of their job & this included with regulars they’d seen several times.

One of the biggest reasons as to why people refer to it as the “OG GFE”.

Things changed and ladies decided they didn’t need to push their own boundaries and fake kiss others. Because trust me there are many that do it only for the job and when they text their friends about it after it’s about how gross it was.

But hey… whatever floats everyone’s boats.

 

[Valentina]

Fair point, and even if he was the first client, it doesn't mean that the SP doesn't have a BF / partner. Then again, you also don't know if you were the client's first SP and who knows which Y or O he dined at before.

E x a c t l y
I’ve had clients tell me about how they just got back from seeing XYZ in a day - in a smug, bragging kinda way.. (didn’t accept further bookings)

So… being told that while you’re laying in bed and getting the visual about his tongue going in and out of coochie and booty holes is not a turn on… ESPECIALLY after he just did the very same to me. Lol. How do I know the guy cleaned up proper in between. Issa no for me.

I totally respect people who seek DFK though, it’s a personal choice! I DFK cock n balls. Not mouths.

 

[Valentina]

True say. Seems true especially with Indys, GFE has become more YMMV. I find the Indys who are YMMV are usually the ones that dislike reviews being posted and/or have NRP. But at those prices, I think being more clear and not using GFE as a marketing tool to get customers is important.

Am I the only one that thinks YMMV is bizarre? Why would I wanna play favourites and push my own boundaries to people please? Idk. Never understood that.

 

[Fradi]

So… being told that while you’re laying in bed and getting the visual about his tongue going in and out of coochie and booty holes is not a turn on… ESPECIALLY after he just did the very same to me. Lol.

Agreed, now can you imagine how much of a turn on it must be to be #5 or #6 or more when you book a favourite agency lady.
Yes there is such a thing as mouth wash and showers but still not exactly a turn on.
When I think of agencies I always see the I Love Lucy episode where she is trying to pack chocolates coming on a conveyor belt into a box and it keeps speeding up until there are chocolates flying everywhere. Don’t want to be one of the chocolates.
This is one of the reasons I don’t use agencies.
DFK or LFK that is always debatable and to me what ever fits the occasion I am fine with, but no kissing at all will result in that one single visit.

 

[Workingman]

Am I the only one that thinks YMMV is bizarre? Why would I wanna play favourites and push my own boundaries to people please? Idk. Never understood that.

It seems like common sense to me. If someone has bad breath or whatever they reserve the right to refuse certain things. I love when I hear about dudes getting turned away at the door for something (being unclean or intoxicated for example). It means the SP has standards. I've been non monog for over a decade and I'm sex positive, but I wouldn't want to kiss or be intimate with any person that steps up. I prefer when things are ymmv or at thier discretion, as much as I prefer low volume providers.