Would you / Could you?

[heliragedeleted]

Understood patron,

"So I think the guy who is married to a good earning sex worker might not have it as bad as some would think, particularly if she uses her skills at home."

Is probably unrealistic and he will get the usual response from his loved one. That is: the more he puts in the more she shells out. That's my experience anyways. Then again if she spent the whole day with clients, don't expect much at all.

 

[jalimon]

Love chicken Marsala, go ahead and make my weekend!

Ok this is one of my favorite feel good food

In a big casserole heat olive oil and 2-3 coriander grain, just for taste remove them once well heated. Pitch in 1 or 2 sliced onions, a sliced thumb size of ginger, 1 full sliced red pepper (I put 2, I love pepper in this) and half a of a bunch of chopped fresh coriander. Cook 10 minutes.

Add 2 boneless fresh chicken breast sliced in small pieces, 2 or 3 chopped garlic. Once garlic smells something, add 3 tablespoon of curry paste (I use the mild one). Salt and pepper. Add a can of diced tomatoes and one can of coconut milk. Bring to boil. Cook for 20 more min or so to reduce.

Poor rice cooked from the rice cooker in a bowl and pour the product over to your taste. Add nature yogurt, chopped almonds, more chopped fresh coriander and squeeze half a lemon over.

Eat that with Spain Laguna De La Nava Gran Reserva wine (14$...) or Borsao Crianza wine (14$).

Enjoy!

Cheers,

 

[ssj3]

Jalimon, you need to make that for me haha

 

[Numerati]

Say the lady's name as an escort is "Samantha" and her real name is Jessica. These are totally two different women occupying the same body mind you. All the hobbyists love "Samantha" but would probably hate Jessica. As for the boyfriend/husband of Jessica. Do you really want to meet "Samantha?" The things that would be showing up in your mind if you do with all those questions are going to make you go through an inner tail spin and that is going to show outwardly sooner than you think and that is going to bring conflict.

As for the hobbyist who get to see Jessica. She will go from a once you label to be a 8/9/10 to a 4/5 quicker than you realize. Gets ugly fast. Real fast.

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

As for the hobbyist who get to see Jessica. She will go from a once you label to be a 8/9/10 to a 4/5 quicker than you realize. Gets ugly fast. Real fast.

Very good. Bless the ladies and the jobs they do but we are seeing the best of them, the ladies do their jobs well to get the clients interested. Everyone is not at their best all the time, the ugly will happen.
How about them Oilers in the pre season?

 

[minutemenX]

Understood patron,

"So I think the guy who is married to a good earning sex worker might not have it as bad as some would think, particularly if she uses her skills at home."

Is probably unrealistic and he will get the usual response from his loved one. That is: the more he puts in the more she shells out. That's my experience anyways. Then again if she spent the whole day with clients, don't expect much at all.

Looks like pimping and nothing else. Yea pimping has a lot of economic sense especially with the marriage certificate for legal protection…

 

[starry]

Mocha you make a lot of sense (to me anyway).

 

[starry]

Theres one thing Mocha what was it that you liked or prefered about having a date who was naturally monogomous with you. What did that do for you?

 

[starry]

Thanks M, again a very interesting and helpful reply. You seem to me to be a very smart lady. Just to explain why I asked the question, my favourite SP recently asked me if I was ok just seeing her. My normal operating procedure is to have between four and five SPs that I see regularly but it turns out these ladies know each other and apparently discuss their clients so although I never discussed my other encounters this lady seemed to know all about my adventures. Sorta surprised me TBH. Anyway I really did not understand why she was making this request. After all she is with many men. I thought maybe she was just trying to corner the market (at least as far as this paying customer is concerned) because as in any business I know the ladies compete. The more I thought about it tho the less this seemed to me to be the reason. What you say makes a lot of sense because we go on dates away from the work location and we always have a good time together when we do.

 

[starry]

This lady most certainly was not proposing any change of life for herself (and me). Like you she needs and wants to keep working. She pulls in the dough pretty good and wants it to continue piling up because there are things that she still wants and needs to do. So she is not done with the biz by any means yet. She has mentioned tho that it will end for her at some point, just not now.
Meanwhile the sun will fail to rise before she declines any of my dollars lol but while I pick up the tab for things when we are out together I don't pay for intimacy (except in house, where actually I see her more frequently). I really dont think she is trying to control me. That in any event would be quite impossible. My parents tried when I was a child until I threatened them with a kitchen knife. We got along swell after that.

 

[ravenazrael]

I'd have no problem with being in a relationship with a girl who has escorted. But i would like to know the reasoning behind it. I have read on here many times that girls who escort once never quit 100%.
Some SP who are in relationships say that this is a job and there is no emotion attach. However I may think there could be one with their regulars. So I would not be happy to be in a relationship with a girl who escorts. I would ask her to stop.

 

[clark_larson]

I know the couple who wed this summer. The girl is very pretty in comparaison to the guy (older bald fat etc.) This chap basically idolizes the girl and has a submissive attitude towards her. In a sense this gal was looking for someone who would treat her feel like a goddess, by being all tiny next to her.

I think there are 3 types of relationships:
Type where woman dominates by being far more attractive.
Type where man dominates by being far more attractive and wealthy(because wealth gives some sort of power)
Type were both are equally attractive and financially equivalent.

I think that the lasting relationships are either 1 or 3 because when type 2 occurs, men tend to have a destructive attitude, they'll cheat, beat the girl, behave like assholes, etc.

So to answer the question,

I used to be in a relationship where the girl was significantly more attractive, she's now an actress. I was madly in love until I realized I was acting submissively towards her and dumped her she was too much to take, too much bullshit, couldn't take it anymore...When you start analyzing couples and how messed up things can be it makes you want to stay single.

 

[Lusty Pig]

I would never date / marry a woman who used to escort - period. I don't give a damn what excuse or reason she had for doing it.

 

[ravenazrael]

I would never date / marry a woman who used to escort - period. I don't give a damn what excuse or reason she had for doing it.

And just to understand the logic... why would a woman would want to marry a guy who used to see escorts?

 

[SylvainP]

Good answer, ravenazrael!

 

[starry]

And just to understand the logic... why would a woman would want to marry a guy who used to see escorts?

I dont know but maybe because she understands that she is as big a hoe as he is.

 

[ravenazrael]

"He that is without sin among you, let him cast the first stone"

The main issue is the trust. What is really tough is try to trust who has been used to have a double life.
My issues would be that if I were in a relationship with a former escort ahe would not do it again. Also the girl has to be sure she would not go back under any circumstances.

The main I gradient to make that work is "love". Unfortunately "love" is overused nowadays and only a few people in the world get to experience real love in relationships

 

[Sol Tee Nutz]

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The main I gradient to make that work is "love". Unfortunately "love" is overused nowadays

Now days it is best just to find someone with common interests and tastes. Loves goes away but if you have common interests and tastes you can still exist as a couple.
My ex and I had completely different tastes and interests, we did both like to have sex a lot and travel but that was about it.
If I could find someone ( and I am not looking ) I would be content with someone who really enjoyed the same things I like plus was a little kinky I would be happy.

 

[ravenazrael]

Everyone has lied... many here have double lives... does that make all of us unworthy of trust ?

I've dated a few SPs, strippers etc... some while they kept working, some that were already retired, others that quit while in our relationship.
Sharing a secret with your loved one can also be bonding. Strangely the worst relationships I've had were with civilians, and the most honest were with SPs... go figure.

That's true because both can be honest. I never said there would not be trust. I said it is the harder thing to get.. probably to get use to.

 

[jalimon]

Let's face it, prostitution is still the second oldest job in the world

What is the first?

Cheers,