As discussed in another thread, opinions seem to vary, so I thought I'd try a poll. Would you like your provider to contact you, perhaps thank you for your meeting?
Would you like a follow-up contact from your independent provider after an encounter?
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Thanks sweet Tianna,
I'm sure you are going to find this will be around 50/50 or more in favor of hearing from the ladies one way or another. I'm sure if not for the risk of being discovered most guys would be far in favor of some sort of contact after and between encounters...if it was a successful meeting.
Good luck,
Merlot
I'm sure you are going to find this will be around 50/50 or more in favor of hearing from the ladies one way or another. I'm sure if not for the risk of being discovered most guys would be far in favor of some sort of contact after and between encounters...if it was a successful meeting.
Good luck,
Merlot
Marketing! Part of a good loyalty program ... It's interesting , so next time I see an Indy/agency I would love to ear from them so I can give them back an appreciation of the encounter ( what is satisfying, on schedule , clean/dirty place and more ! ). A good way to build up a list of favorite clientele and what they like . We should have a third email for that kind of correspondence .
I think it's even most important for agency because we don't have a more direct contact with the head of the agency!
It's all about quality control And expectations!
Great idea and thread Tianna !
I think it's even most important for agency because we don't have a more direct contact with the head of the agency!
It's all about quality control And expectations!
Great idea and thread Tianna !
I always send a thank you email following an encounter. To most, I will let them know that I would be delighted to see them again and should they need a reference in the future, to feel free to contact me as I would be happy to provide one for them.
From experience, I can tell you my patrons most appreciate it.
From experience, I can tell you my patrons most appreciate it.
Personally if a meeting went particularely well I let the gentleman know to feel free to write me to update me on how he is doing, even if it's not about a booking, just because i'd like to stay in contact.
This opens up the lines of communication, and if the gentleman write to say hello I know that it's ok for me to write him from time to time to do the same
This opens up the lines of communication, and if the gentleman write to say hello I know that it's ok for me to write him from time to time to do the same
I had a few providers over the years that would contact me asking to see me again etc..i actually like that... then ended they contact me almost every week ... im thinking of one in particular that got too comfortable and service was affected so i had to end it...too bad we had a lot of fun together
It really doesn't bother me if an independent lady contacted me for any reason.
I don't really expect it, but it's always really nice to get a genuine thank you e-mail or text from someone I just saw, IF it's genuine.
I've PM'd or e-mailed some of the women after a date to thank them for the time they spent with me, not because I felt I had to but I genuinely wanted to.
I also find little flirty texts or emails before an encounter helps build the excitement or anticipation of the upcoming date as well
I don't really expect it, but it's always really nice to get a genuine thank you e-mail or text from someone I just saw, IF it's genuine.
I've PM'd or e-mailed some of the women after a date to thank them for the time they spent with me, not because I felt I had to but I genuinely wanted to.
I also find little flirty texts or emails before an encounter helps build the excitement or anticipation of the upcoming date as well
It's not a simple Yes or No answer. It's more a matter of making a judgement call. Assuming the encounter went well then a few simple questions before leaving should help resolve this question, i.e. "Would you mind if I communicate with you from time to time?" or "Would you like me to keep in touch with you?" Of course it is different for an Agency follow-up which I appreciate. If you, as an Independent, get a "No" response to these questions it may help trigger a discussion of whether the encounter was enjoyable or not and may help resolve any negative feelings to ensure a repeat in the future. Of course some guys rarely repeat with an SP but may recommend her to a friend.
I once had an Independent call me repeatedly after a first meeting - which meeting was rushed and cut short and left me to finish the job myself. I couldn't believe how clueless she was when she seemed surprised that I didn't enjoy our first encounter. For a lot of older guys like me (50+) it's more about the fantasy and we appreciate the niceties and subtleties of being with a sensual woman who seems to enjoy our company as much as we enjoy being with her.
I once had an Independent call me repeatedly after a first meeting - which meeting was rushed and cut short and left me to finish the job myself. I couldn't believe how clueless she was when she seemed surprised that I didn't enjoy our first encounter. For a lot of older guys like me (50+) it's more about the fantasy and we appreciate the niceties and subtleties of being with a sensual woman who seems to enjoy our company as much as we enjoy being with her.
:lol: If the results go the way I think they will, ladies, you've just created some more work for yourself!
Because scheduling and prepping and answering inquiries are not keeping you busy enough already, right? Agencies have a hard enough time responding promptly to questions during the busy season, this just raises empty hopes in hobbyists, for something that will be very difficult to execute well.
Because scheduling and prepping and answering inquiries are not keeping you busy enough already, right?
Agencies have a hard enough time responding promptly to questions during the busy season, this just raises empty hopes in hobbyists, for something that will be very difficult to execute well.Hello all,
Yes, for the first part I realize this contact has a lot to do with marketing, still I would not want to be solicited frequently. Let's make that distinction clear. What I am referring to is some light contact and some mutual appreciation. If someone did solicit me too much for meetings then the feeling turns around completely and it starts to feel more and more like it's only about money. This happened to a friend of mine when the lady realized he had feelings for her and she and the agency owner took the opportunity to call and call frequently. That would be a bad move for me by any lady and a real turn off.
For the second part, too much familiarity can be a real problem. I've never been in a position where I can see someone frequently, as in weekly. But I can understand where the lady might start to feel she has a sure thing and the quality of the meeting suffers.
As long as both clients and ladies don;t get carried away with either pushing business too much on her side or getting too involved on his side I am all for some appreciative interest from her and I hope she feels the same way.
Cheers,
Merlot
Yes, for the first part I realize this contact has a lot to do with marketing, still I would not want to be solicited frequently. Let's make that distinction clear. What I am referring to is some light contact and some mutual appreciation. If someone did solicit me too much for meetings then the feeling turns around completely and it starts to feel more and more like it's only about money. This happened to a friend of mine when the lady realized he had feelings for her and she and the agency owner took the opportunity to call and call frequently. That would be a bad move for me by any lady and a real turn off.
For the second part, too much familiarity can be a real problem. I've never been in a position where I can see someone frequently, as in weekly. But I can understand where the lady might start to feel she has a sure thing and the quality of the meeting suffers.
As long as both clients and ladies don;t get carried away with either pushing business too much on her side or getting too involved on his side I am all for some appreciative interest from her and I hope she feels the same way.
Cheers,
Merlot
Nice Tianna
Honest communication is always welcome and a good thing in my opinion, whatever the content
One of the reasons I don't bother with conventional relationships/dating
Honest communication is always welcome and a good thing in my opinion, whatever the content
One of the reasons I don't bother with conventional relationships/dating
Personally if a meeting went particularely well I let the gentleman know to feel free to write me to update me on how he is doing, even if it's not about a booking, just because i'd like to stay in contact.
This opens up the lines of communication, and if the gentleman write to say hello I know that it's ok for me to write him from time to time to do the same
This is perfect for me. I don't expect daily or even weekly contact.
I always found the follow up email a pleasant surprise but I wouldn't want it to be a forced cut and paste email either. No point if you just saying cause everyone else is
I saw one SP where it was cool for a while with occasional email notes until I wasn't able to see her a for a bit and then it just seemed like conversation dried up, forgetting to reply... That's ok, I just need to go find someone else
The big question now I guess is why I'm not just spending it on Amelie?From my point of view I always send a short text after a meeting just to say thank you and telling the girl how much I enjoyed the time we shared. I'm not a big fan of return texts the next day or days later as it will sometimes be at a time which might not be convenient but an e-mail is always welcomed and appreciated, I enjoy the interaction and will make me want to see that girl again.
but an e-mail is always welcomed and appreciated, I enjoy the interaction and will make me want to see that girl again.
I think it would be great to get feedback. I realize that its a lot of work... But perhaps indies can give feedback at least to their repeating clients or merb members so that they can always improve for the next meeting. There is an advantage to providing feedback to first time clients which can help a client repeat
So I vote for yes
So I vote for yes
L
Lily from Montreal
I love when I get a note after a meeting,it confirms I was not the only one having fun and I especially like when gents write to me in between meetings not just when they want to book,just a hello to let me know how hey are is appreciated and I can fill them in on whatever we were talking about, yes I got my degree,no I didn't get an A,snif...
Not every day of course but once in a while is nice,so I know they are alive (!) , with the demographic of my favorite clientele it is a concern lol
When I meet gents who drives from far to see me I can't help myself to worry about the drive back and my favorites knows I like to get a note saying they made it back safely,sorry it is the mommy in me...I
remember a while back I saw the nice american who was going back by with a motorcycle,I find those very dangerous and I was worried ,so I asked him a note ,he was really surprised I think but nice enough to reassure me that the Quebec roads didn't kill him...
I do write to my favorites but if it is too long between meeting I do not want to be a pain so will try to match the pattern of exchanges...if you write every week so will I...
Not every day of course but once in a while is nice,so I know they are alive (!) , with the demographic of my favorite clientele it is a concern lol
When I meet gents who drives from far to see me I can't help myself to worry about the drive back and my favorites knows I like to get a note saying they made it back safely,sorry it is the mommy in me...I
remember a while back I saw the nice american who was going back by with a motorcycle,I find those very dangerous and I was worried ,so I asked him a note ,he was really surprised I think but nice enough to reassure me that the Quebec roads didn't kill him...
I do write to my favorites but if it is too long between meeting I do not want to be a pain so will try to match the pattern of exchanges...if you write every week so will I...
That's a great idea but for me have to keep it in email or pm on merb but not on text.
I think it's a good way to get a client to return if he had a nice time just knowing that the girl is thinking of you while she send you a message is a nice way to feel appreciated and that she want to meet you again
I think it's a good way to get a client to return if he had a nice time just knowing that the girl is thinking of you while she send you a message is a nice way to feel appreciated and that she want to meet you again
Great thread Tianna!
I will text/pm/email the Indy anywhere from a few hours after she leaves up to a day or two after (if she does not beat me to it which is usually the case) and give nice compliments which are very well warranted.
Most agencies i deal with know me pretty well and vice versa and we are in touch with each other ofton anyways so i do not find it necessary they contact me immediately after since we talk alot as is but i guess it is nice from time to time if they ask for feedback. They know i have never complained because so far (knock on wood) i have never had anything to complain about, so if they do not hear from me after they know all was great.
So my answer would be that follow up's i would value more from the Indy's because seeing a Indy (to me) is more personal becasue you are pretty much dealing with them directly in many cases. Overall tho it is not necessary any Indy or Agency follow up with me, but it is a nice touch or added bonus when they do. It is appreciated but not expected. So i did not vote because my vote would be neutral.
I will text/pm/email the Indy anywhere from a few hours after she leaves up to a day or two after (if she does not beat me to it which is usually the case) and give nice compliments which are very well warranted.
Most agencies i deal with know me pretty well and vice versa and we are in touch with each other ofton anyways so i do not find it necessary they contact me immediately after since we talk alot as is but i guess it is nice from time to time if they ask for feedback. They know i have never complained because so far (knock on wood) i have never had anything to complain about, so if they do not hear from me after they know all was great.
So my answer would be that follow up's i would value more from the Indy's because seeing a Indy (to me) is more personal becasue you are pretty much dealing with them directly in many cases. Overall tho it is not necessary any Indy or Agency follow up with me, but it is a nice touch or added bonus when they do. It is appreciated but not expected. So i did not vote because my vote would be neutral.
It seems that after making a conection with an SP we frequently stay in contact. I like it. I think of these girls as friends or temporary lovers. It is hard not to have a bond with some of these girls. It has not been unhealthy for me.
Good question Tianna.
Good question Tianna.
i dont mind if ladys i scene contact me after meeting or some time after. i enjoy it most time.
i tink most gentelmen hobyist perfer email since it is consider more private then texting since u never no who can see phone or wetheer he still own/use phone. allso there is imply that with sms, peopel want think imediate reply. with email, wait time can be longer.
soemtimes indys contact me first after meeting and sometimes i contact them first. i will genraly contact them first. with agency ladys some of them if they figure out my merb handel withut me saying anything (i never say) will pm me.
for me, it is nice to get a nice mesage.
tat sayd, i dont like it wen agency contact me out of blue only indys or ladys.
i tink most gentelmen hobyist perfer email since it is consider more private then texting since u never no who can see phone or wetheer he still own/use phone. allso there is imply that with sms, peopel want think imediate reply. with email, wait time can be longer.
soemtimes indys contact me first after meeting and sometimes i contact them first. i will genraly contact them first. with agency ladys some of them if they figure out my merb handel withut me saying anything (i never say) will pm me.
for me, it is nice to get a nice mesage.
tat sayd, i dont like it wen agency contact me out of blue only indys or ladys.
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