You quoted me but left out the part where I explained exactly that? "That aside, I also do not agree with reviews that give a too detailed description of the SP (e.g. tattoos or other markings which make the SP identifiable in public)."
Why would you think so? I believe it could apply if the client wants to see the same SP again, but it is probably more likely that he will simply choose another SP after such a review. The new SP would not even know that the client was previously negatively reviewed.
How do you cross reference that? Is it always clear who the writer of a specific review was? I can imagine this being the case for Indys but for agencies I am really not so sure.
I am creating a hypothetical situation that is unlikely to occur. Imagine if service providers were able to rate their clients based on factors like hygiene, kindness, and attitudes. In this scenario, if a client received a negative rating, it could impact their ability to secure services provider in the future. Just as we avoid service providers with bad reviews, clients with poor ratings might struggle to find service providers . Just trying to make a point.
Thanks for clarifying and it makes sense. However, those attributes would have to be extremely poorly rated to impact the clients, as there will always be SPs who are willing to accept them. But agreed, I do think in this hypothetical scenario, they would have more trouble booking some higher end Indies at least. (Those who have the luxury to pick their client as they wish.)
Hey there, my friend. I value your perspective. When it comes to discussing negative reviews, it's important to do so with the utmost respect for service providers and without being rude or disrespectful. It's essential to handle these situations in a gentlemanly manner. For example, if a reviewer mentions that the service provider experiencing an unpleasant odor in a personal area, a thoughtful approach could involve suggesting that the service provider might have finished her menstruation. By addressing the issue delicately and without causing offense, we can ensure that the service providers feelings are respected. However, if multiple reviewers bring up the same concern, it suggests that there may be a recurring issue that needs to be addressed.
Yes, what I meant was : you can mention it in a review without being rude and mean about it. (There's a certain guy here that has very disrepecful approach)
I agree with you, my friend, that some members can be rude, lack compassion, and show disrespect. However, as another member pointed out earlier, the rude ones are often the most frustrated in life due they may not be at their best peak or at the earlier stage of golden years .Clearly, the client must also be contributing to the situation if they consistently receive poor service or are always complaining. As I have mentioned many times in the past, appearance is not the most important factor for service providers. As long as you are polite and patient, you are likely to receive good service regardless of your age, physical attractiveness, or weight. When you rush and behave rudely towards a service provider, you create negative energy and make the service provider anxious, leading to a negative experience. In this industry, it takes two to tango to have a positive interaction.
Hey buddy! I greatly value your perspective and the issues you've brought up. Let's delve further into this thread with more in-depth insights. The central question I'm inquiring to this discussion is whether it is beneficial for a service provider to read about their client interactions on this forum. The primary concern I am highlighting is the lack of respect and empathy shown by certain members towards service providers when recounting their experiences. Encountering such reviews could significantly impact the self-esteem of service providers. Ideally, if all reviews were written in a respectful and courteous manner, the situation would be different, but unfortunately, that's not the current reality here. My goal is to underscore this critical point. You mentioned a service provider reviewing a client. The reason I brought this up is that if such a scenario were to occur, the client's behavior might change due to the potential repercussions of negative reviews, which could make it challenging for them to find another service provider. Similarly, reading a negative review about a service provider would likely decrease our inclination to engage with their services.
