You don’t need money to be memorable

[LC18]

You don’t need to be loaded to be a good client. Most of us appreciate respectful clients and it goes beyond not calling providers whores.

Respect her time: Don’t show up too early and don’t overstay unless you’re invited to
Respect her place: Take your shoes off, don’t leave your wet towels on the bathroom floor
Respect her body: Don’t just assume she will like certain things because your ex was a big fan of those

Most of us also appreciate generous clients and by that, I don’t mean men that will spend hundreds on us.

I remember reading a review of a man saying the provider he was meeting seemed a little off that day. He asked her if everything was alright and she replied that she was stressed about her taxes. Sure, he could have said: “I came here to get my dick sucked and that’s all I care about.”

Instead, he generously offered to answer a few of her questions. That client happened to be an accountant. The provider immediately felt better when she realized how simple her issue was and the review said they had an awesome session.

So far, none of that would cost you more money but you could still very much become her favourite client. Think about it? You could be remembered as the guy that fixed the door that had been broken for 2 years. I can’t speak for all of my peers but I remember gestures and always try to show how grateful I am for those.

Sometimes it could simply be to genuinely ask with interest how the provider is doing at the start of a session. It always feels nice to feel humanized as a lot of clients in this industry tend to dehumanized us.

What about you [clients & providers]? What other ways have you found to show that you’re a good clients without needing to spend extra money?

 

[urquell]

This isn't going to anything even close to what you're looking for, but I've had several girls tell me that they like clients who are absolutely drunk off their ass (in a hotel ground zero environment) because they can go up to the room and usually either the guy immediately passes out when he gets on the bed or figures out very quickly that he can't perform and sends the girl off so she can go right back downstairs and pull another client without having to do much of anything.

Now, I can totally see why drunk clients would be total nightmares, but these ladies in the ground zero hotels absolutely swear by them. Go figure.

 

[LC18]

This isn't going to anything even close to what you're looking for, but I've had several girls tell me that they like clients who are absolutely drunk off their ass (in a hotel ground zero environment) because they can go up to the room and usually either the guys immediately passes out when he gets on the bed or figures out very quickly that he can't perform and sends the girl off so she can go right back downstairs and oull another client without having to do much of anything.

Now, I can totally see why drunk clients would be total nightmares, but these ladies in the ground zero hotels absolutely swear by them.Go figure.

Not in the same spirits at all. I don’t like drunk clients even if it could be easy money, there’s too many risks of them being violent and rapey

 

[LeDodo]

You don’t need to be loaded to be a good client. Most of us appreciate respectful clients and it goes beyond not calling providers whores.

Respect her time: Don’t show up too early and don’t overstay unless you’re invited to
Respect her place: Take your shoes off, don’t leave your wet towels on the bathroom floor
Respect her body: Don’t just assume she will like certain things because your ex was a big fan of those

Most of us also appreciate generous clients and by that, I don’t mean men that will spend hundreds on us.

I remember reading a review of a man saying the provider he was meeting seemed a little off that day. He asked her if everything was alright and she replied that she was stressed about her taxes. Sure, he could have said: “I came here to get my dick sucked and that’s all I care about.”

Instead, he generously offered to answer a few of her questions. That client happened to be an accountant. The provider immediately felt better when she realized how simple her issue was and the review said they had an awesome session.

So far, none of that would cost you more money but you could still very much become her favourite client. Think about it? You could be remembered as the guy that fixed the door that had been broken for 2 years. I can’t speak for all of my peers but I remember gestures and always try to show how grateful I am for those.

Sometimes it could simply be to genuinely ask with interest how the provider is doing at the start of a session. It always feels nice to feel humanized as a lot of clients in this industry tend to dehumanized us.

What about you [clients & providers]? What other ways have you found to show that you’re a good clients without needing to spend extra money?

Shouldn't it be a question for SP? How memorable an attention as you mentioned is what you might feel at that moment as a little gesture or question but was considered as something huge/big. Except if at that moment the SP shared how it was touching/nice. Without any feedback we will never know.

Like at work I do things "naturally" or not consciously but the "good" things I'm doing are picked up, shared and praised by my peers.

 

[Sean007]

You don’t need to be loaded to be a good client. Most of us appreciate respectful clients and it goes beyond not calling providers whores.

Respect her time: Don’t show up too early and don’t overstay unless you’re invited to
Respect her place: Take your shoes off, don’t leave your wet towels on the bathroom floor
Respect her body: Don’t just assume she will like certain things because your ex was a big fan of those

Most of us also appreciate generous clients and by that, I don’t mean men that will spend hundreds on us.

I remember reading a review of a man saying the provider he was meeting seemed a little off that day. He asked her if everything was alright and she replied that she was stressed about her taxes. Sure, he could have said: “I came here to get my dick sucked and that’s all I care about.”

Instead, he generously offered to answer a few of her questions. That client happened to be an accountant. The provider immediately felt better when she realized how simple her issue was and the review said they had an awesome session.

So far, none of that would cost you more money but you could still very much become her favourite client. Think about it? You could be remembered as the guy that fixed the door that had been broken for 2 years. I can’t speak for all of my peers but I remember gestures and always try to show how grateful I am for those.

Sometimes it could simply be to genuinely ask with interest how the provider is doing at the start of a session. It always feels nice to feel humanized as a lot of clients in this industry tend to dehumanized us.

What about you [clients & providers]? What other ways have you found to show that you’re a good clients without needing to spend extra money?

I just love those threads of yours Lena. Thanks a lot for your insightful comments. You are so right. Each encounter between client and provider is first and foremost a meeting between two human beings. Sure intimacy is expected but respect needs to be there and a human connection. And even with respect on both sides some meetings are more fun than others. It’s all about connection; not much different than any meeting irl.

 

[ciscok1d]

I would think most clients would treat their providers with basic human decency, but the fact that this thread was created tells me that that's not the norm?

 

[urquell]

I would think most clients would treat their providers with basic human decency, but the fact that this thread was created tells me that that's not the norm?

It is the norm "ish", I think, in the sense that most guys don't intentionally present themselves badly or try to mistreat the ladies they see, but there's enough of the other kind that the ladies here would like to remind you boys that you have some work to do in order to be "ideal" clients, or at the very least not be total dickheads. I don't think anyone is arguing about that being the minimum for having a satisfactory encounter between two people, for both people.. On the flip side, while we get a lot of threads about proper etiquette, behaviour, payment practices and such there's very little going the other way saying what makes for a good provider experience from the guys point of view, and since Lena has asked for viewpoints from both perspectives in the OP here's your chance to throw some pointers the other way too. It's not just the guys that need to improve.

 

[UncleBob]

A friend of mine, that is also skilled with his hands ;-) , fixed a skeaking noisy Ikea bed of an SP friend.
He did not ask any $$ or other form of payment but I'm guessing (Didn't tell the details) he's been rewarded by testing the result with her

 

[LeDodo]

I would think most clients would treat their providers with basic human decency, but the fact that this thread was created tells me that that's not the norm?

I'm not sure OP wanted to talk about the bad but more the good and the relatively simple act that were meaningful.

 

[Fradi]

I doubt any of this should be learned or even brought up.
Kindness and human decency is the bare minimum that everyone should be providing.
In my time this was ingrained into you especially towards women by your parents.

It costs absolutely nothing to treat a young lady with respect and kindness.

 

[Lexus3]

I would think most clients would treat their providers with basic human decency, but the fact that this thread was created tells me that that's not the norm?

You would think, wouldn't you?
Unfortunately some of the stories from SPs I see frequently tell a different story

 

[Zero_Six]

The right gift. I've bought lots of gifts. Booze, flowers, lingerie, etc... They're appreciated, but the gift that seemed to be the most appreciated was a book that I knew they'd love. Didn't even cost me any money, it was a book I already had and knew they'd like.

And obviously, treat them like you would any other woman you want to enjoy time with. Unfortunately, I fear that the guys not doing this will ignore this.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

A friend of mine, that is also skilled with his hands ;-) , fixed a skeaking noisy Ikea bed of an SP friend.
He did not ask any $$ or other form of payment but I'm guessing (Didn't tell the details) he's been rewarded by testing the result with her

I’ve done my share of repairs for some of my ATFs, changing shower head, fiked a few doors etc…only to realize that with repeat sessions there was just more things to fix! Of course most of them gave some kind of compensations.

One day one of them asked if I could redo her entire bathroom floor tiling! I said sure! Its $50/hour, cash only, no receit. To my surprise she said "deal!".

 

[philonius]

It's against my nature to be indifferent to someone else's problems, regardless of the situation, so it seems completely insane to think about trying to fuck someone while not caring about their headspace/safety/human decency. I like to bring a gift when I can but not at the expense or in lieu of making sure we both have a good time.

 

[LeDodo]

Hotels usually give free bottles of water, keep a few sealed and offer one when she comes in (and a fresh, cold one after our good sweat).

Oh once I arrived a bit early close to the incall. It was quite hot on that day and I took the time to buy some drinks in the supermarket nearby to quench the thirst before and after lol

 

[Fradi]

I always bring wine and pastries or other snacks like cheese or shrimp or things I know they like and special gifts for birthdays, Christmas and occasionally just because I feel like it or from vacations to different countries.
None have asked me to repair anything though, I would if they asked and if it was something I could do.

 

[Enjoying life]

I always bring wine and pastries or other snacks like cheese or shrimp or things I know they like and special gifts for birthdays, Christmas and occasionally just because I feel like it or from vacations to different countries.
None have asked me to repair anything though, I would if they asked and if it was something I could do.

Same here as Thats a gentleman!

 

[Fradi]

Same here as Thats a gentleman!

For me it is not just that, these women that I see I have known for years and they are friends not just escorts I see for sex.
It is something I enjoy doing, they appreciate and it has become like a regular thing, it is part of our routine so to speak.
I have never been disappointed in them and they have always treated me extremely well.

 

[Enjoying life]

For me it is not just that, these women that I see I have known for years and they are friends not just escorts I see for sex.
It is something I enjoy doing, they appreciate and it has become like a regular thing, it is part of our routine so to speak.
I have never been disappointed in them and they have always treated me extremely well.

Great vibes! I noticed that as well! I stay far clear from the dating scene as this is way better!

 

[Tor1393]

LC: seems to me a bit of a double standard you have concerning clients and providers. In a previous thread you mentioned not wanting to give anything away for free to clients but in your example above, you find it charming that a professional gave away his "services" (accounting knowledge) for free to a provider. Hmmmmm

Anyway: I maintain that we should all just act like nice people with each other. Be kind and generous and the people around you will likely act the same.
take care

Tor