You have found the perfect SP/MP now what?

[LC18]

After reading a few reviews, after booking and meeting a few people without any spark or chemistry, you have finally met and spent time with the perfect SP/MP for you. You’d like to see her on a regular basis but how can you make sure she will want to see you often?

1. Respect her time. That means, don’t show up too early, too late and don’t overstay. Don’t cancel last minute, if you do so send a little something to apologize. Why? Because she could have seen you someone else if you had cancelled early enough.

2. Respect her privacy. You’ve seen her 5 times by now but that doesn’t mean you are friends and that you can ask what her real name is, where she lives and other personal details. If she trusts you and feels it is right for her, she might give you those information herself.

3. Show her appreciation, that doesn’t mean to text her out of the blue to say “I’m thinking about you”. Yes it is sweet but you have to remember that it’s her work phone and she’s probably getting a lot of text messages. Receiving one that’s not for a booking can be seen negatively by many. Instead, booking longer dates if you can. Surprise her with a dinner date if you can. Bring her a little something, doesn’t have to be something extravagant. It could be a sealed bottle of her favourite juice or an unopened box of chocolate (always consult with her for her preferences).

4. Suggest an arrangement if you can afford it and discuss the terms. It could be beneficial for both. This way you’ll be assured to see her on a regular basis.

5. Obviously, be a nice client. Always come clean, don’t argue about showering. Don’t be rude, don’t be pushy, don’t be disrespectful.

 

[CaptRenault]

...how can you make sure she will want to see you often?

I think the question is rather: how can she make sure that I will want to see her often.

I am the paying customer and she is the business. It's up to the business to figure out what it has to do to keep me as a customer.

If the business makes it clear that it doesn't want me as a customer, either by telling me directly or by providing poor value for the money, then I will happily go away and find another provider. There are hundreds of good choices in the Montreal market.

It is harder to keep a customer than to acquire one in the first place..

 

[LC18]

I think the question is rather: how can she make sure that I will want to see her often.

I am the paying customer and she is the business. It's up to the business to figure out what it has to do to keep me as a customer.

If the business makes it clear that it doesn't want me as a customer, either by telling me directly or by providing poor value for the money, then I will happily go away and find another provider. There are hundreds of good choices in the Montreal market.

It is harder to keep a customer than to acquire one in the first place..

Ok

 

[minutemenX]

Ok

A long time ago one middle-aged and wise SP told me that her business motto is “take care of your regulars first”. She said that a lot of young girls are making mistake of always seeking new clients that may tip above regular price and start giving subpar service to regulars assuming that they are in their pocket anyway.

 

[LC18]

A long time ago one middle-aged and wise SP told me that her business motto is “take care of your regulars first”. She said that a lot of young girls are making mistake of always seeking new clients that may tip above regular price and start giving subpar service to regulars assuming that they are in their pocket anyway.

That is not the point of my thread. If you want, you can start a thread explaining the things a SP should do to ensure a client will come back.

 

[minutemenX]

That is not the point of my thread. If you want, you can start a thread explaining the things a SP should do to ensure a client will come back.

Why? I think it is pretty close to your question “You have found the perfect SP/MP now what?

The answer that is following from my post is: I will stick with her as long as the level of service would not decline. Which, as I have explained, is not always the case

 

[Fradi]

After reading a few reviews, after booking and meeting a few people without any spark or chemistry, you have finally met and spent time with the perfect SP/MP for you. You’d like to see her on a regular basis but how can you make sure she will want to see you often?

1. Respect her time. That means, don’t show up too early, too late and don’t overstay. Don’t cancel last minute, if you do so send a little something to apologize. Why? Because she could have seen you someone else if you had cancelled early enough.

2. Respect her privacy. You’ve seen her 5 times by now but that doesn’t mean you are friends and that you can ask what her real name is, where she lives and other personal details. If she trusts you and feels it is right for her, she might give you those information herself.

3. Show her appreciation, that doesn’t mean to text her out of the blue to say “I’m thinking about you”. Yes it is sweet but you have to remember that it’s her work phone and she’s probably getting a lot of text messages. Receiving one that’s not for a booking can be seen negatively by many. Instead, booking longer dates if you can. Surprise her with a dinner date if you can. Bring her a little something, doesn’t have to be something extravagant. It could be a sealed bottle of her favourite juice or an unopened box of chocolate (always consult with her for her preferences).

4. Suggest an arrangement if you can afford it and discuss the terms. It could be beneficial for both. This way you’ll be assured to see her on a regular basis.

5. Obviously, be a nice client. Always come clean, don’t argue about showering. Don’t be rude, don’t be pushy, don’t be disrespectful.

I don’t think we need these kind of reminders lol
Actually this kind of assumes most of us are mindless idiots who know nothing about women and should be soooo grateful that they tolerate us and are willing to take our money.
Some of us actually are decent respectful people who have been seeing SP regularly for many years and do have some common sense and know how to treat a lady,

Perhaps the Capt is on the right track and there should be a thread and a reminder on how to keep a regular and the importance of regulars.

 

[2fast2slow]

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You have found the perfect SP/MP now what?​

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Consider yourself lucky and see her as often as you can afford

 

[LC18]

Why? I think it is pretty close to your question “You have found the perfect SP/MP now what?

The answer that is following from my post is: I will stick with her as long as the level of service would not decline. Which, as I have explained, is not always the case

The point of this thread is if YOU want HER to see you again.

Obviously you’re only gonna book her again if you’re having a good experience. Don’t be ridiculous it’s not cute…

 

[Fradi]

I find this whole thread kind of condescending and insulting.
Most of us are not ignorant people, I would think most of us who can actually afford SP on a regular basis do have a certain amount of common sense education and can function well in todays world. and know what is right and wrong.
I doubt we constantly need to be reminded this way which kind of assumes we are all obnoxious assholes who have no idea how to treat a lady and to be respectful.
I think the Capt’s points are very valid maybe some SP should reflect on what it is THEY can do to attract and keep regulars.

 

[LC18]

I find this whole thread kind of condescending and insulting.
Most of us are not ignorant people, I would think most of us who can actually afford SP on a regular basis do have a certain amount of common sense education and can function well in todays world. and know what is right and wrong.
I doubt we constantly need to be reminded this way which kind of assumes we are all obnoxious assholes who have no idea how to treat a lady and to be respectful.
I think the Capt’s points are very valid maybe some SP should reflect on what it is THEY can do to attract and keep regulars.

You’re a great client? Good for you. Not the same can be said about everyone.


The respecting privacy part is very easy to forget though. Especially when you start seeing the SP often, you may start to think that you are close enough for you to know her real name and personal information.

This is a valid reminded in my opinion. Many of my peers and myself have experienced that.

 

[minutemenX]

The point of this thread is if YOU want HER to see you again.

Obviously you’re only gonna book her again if you’re having a good experience. Don’t be ridiculous it’s not cute…

Very simple answer. She would not be perfect SP for me in the first place if she does not want me to be her regular and behaves accordingly. Somehow some SPs think that they are entitled for the client desire without being reciprocal. This is just 101of every business no meter if you sell cars or sex. If you don’t show appreciation for you client, he would never come back.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

I think clients don't know that we do not say yes to every request we receive, and we sometimes refuse to see a client for a second time when he sends a request for another appointment.

 

[LC18]

To be honest and transparent,

If you have been seeing escorts for many years, chances are that my informative threads are not aimed at you and won’t be relevant to you. You already know how it works. You’ve been there, you’ve done that and probably don’t need to be held by the hand.

It’s not your first rodeo but it could be someone else’s.

 

[LC18]

Very simple answer. She would not be perfect SP for me in the first place if she does not want me to be her regular and behaves accordingly. Somehow some SPs think that they entitled for the client desire without being reciprocal.

Again not the point of this thread. If this is not relevant to you, you can totally skip this thread. You don’t need to read every single one and be upset because it doesn’t apply to you.

 

[maymay]

After reading a few reviews, after booking and meeting a few people without any spark or chemistry, you have finally met and spent time with the perfect SP/MP for you. You’d like to see her on a regular basis but how can you make sure she will want to see you often?

1. Respect her time. That means, don’t show up too early, too late and don’t overstay. Don’t cancel last minute, if you do so send a little something to apologize. Why? Because she could have seen you someone else if you had cancelled early enough.

2. Respect her privacy. You’ve seen her 5 times by now but that doesn’t mean you are friends and that you can ask what her real name is, where she lives and other personal details. If she trusts you and feels it is right for her, she might give you those information herself.

3. Show her appreciation, that doesn’t mean to text her out of the blue to say “I’m thinking about you”. Yes it is sweet but you have to remember that it’s her work phone and she’s probably getting a lot of text messages. Receiving one that’s not for a booking can be seen negatively by many. Instead, booking longer dates if you can. Surprise her with a dinner date if you can. Bring her a little something, doesn’t have to be something extravagant. It could be a sealed bottle of her favourite juice or an unopened box of chocolate (always consult with her for her preferences).

4. Suggest an arrangement if you can afford it and discuss the terms. It could be beneficial for both. This way you’ll be assured to see her on a regular basis.

5. Obviously, be a nice client. Always come clean, don’t argue about showering. Don’t be rude, don’t be pushy, don’t be disrespectful.

Agree the only sad part of that lots of great SP leave the business and stay for a short period of time. Before I had a girlfriend back in 2015 to around 2017 I book a few that were fantastic sadly to call the agency to book them again after a few great encounters and they were out of the business.

 

[minutemenX]

I think clients don't know that we do not say yes to every request we receive, and we sometimes refuse to see a client for a second time when he sends a request for another appointment.

This is fare and very mutual. But the title of the thread is about clients who found the perfect SP for them. My definition of finding perfect SP is that there is mutual desire (sure for different reasons) to see each other again and again.

 

[Fradi]

I think clients don't know that we do not say yes to every request we receive, and we sometimes refuse to see a client for a second time when he sends a request for another appointment.

That is life. Everybody has a choice with who they want to spend time with that is the way it should be.
There are only 2 ladies that I have seen regularly for many years and very few that I have seen more than once.
The good news is that there are plenty of choices for both SP and client.

 

[LC18]

This is fare and very mutual. But the title of the thread is about clients who found the perfect SP for them. My definition of finding perfect SP is that there is mutual desire (sure for different reasons) to see each other again and again.

Oh now you want to act like you understood the point of this thread…

Interesting

 

[minutemenX]

Oh now you want to act like you understood the point of this thread…

Interesting

If you insist that I do not understand women logic you are on the point. I was always weak on the subject.