Your experience with BBJ (client and SW)

[DualDionysos]

Hi everyone,

I'm new on Merb and the world of escorts and was curious with BJJ. (Being my first post, I hope I followed all the rules :S)
Context:
I'm in an open relationship since 2 years and everything is going well, we keep it to ourselves and having sex with people I know, I'm not worried for BBJ and oral sex in general (still covered sex of course).
The goal of this open relationship is to allow us to have fun and explore our kinks but we don't want to bring back anything home.
Questions:
Given the awesome reviews and really good experiences some of you shared on this forum, I'm really tempted by some ladies here and I was wandering if you had any tips or experience to share?
Also, is it bad etiquette to request a condom while BBJ is offered?
Finally, if any SW sees this thread, how do you also keep yourself safe?

Looking forward for your feedback.

The NewbieDD

 

[LC18]

Also, is it bad etiquette to request a condom while BBJ is offered?

No it’s not bad etiquette. It’s not exactly fun or tasty but I will always accommode this request. Your health is one of the most valuable things you own and if that makes you feel better/safer, ask for it.

 

[NickDunne]

Hi everyone,

I'm new on Merb and the world of escorts and was curious with BJJ. (Being my first post, I hope I followed all the rules :S)
Context:
I'm in an open relationship since 2 years and everything is going well, we keep it to ourselves and having sex with people I know, I'm not worried for BBJ and oral sex in general (still covered sex of course).
The goal of this open relationship is to allow us to have fun and explore our kinks but we don't want to bring back anything home.
Questions:
Given the awesome reviews and really good experiences some of you shared on this forum, I'm really tempted by some ladies here and I was wandering if you had any tips or experience to share?
Also, is it bad etiquette to request a condom while BBJ is offered?
Finally, if any SW sees this thread, how do you also keep yourself safe?

Looking forward for your feedback.

The NewbieDD

There is a lot of men in your situation who requests cbj, it is not bad etiquette

 

[LC18]

Finally, if any SW sees this thread, how do you also keep yourself safe?

Anyone who has sex regularly with different partners whether it’s protected sex or unprotected sex, should get tested at least every 3 months, ideally every 2 months.

 

[DualDionysos]

No it’s not bad etiquette. It’s not exactly fun or tasty but I will always accommode this request. Your health is one of the most valuable things you own and if that makes you feel better/safer, ask for it.

I can imagine, condoms with flavors help ? :/

 

[Julia Sky]

I can imagine, condoms with flavors help ? :/

For like 6 seconds! But honestly, for most of us, while unpleasant, the taste of condom isn't a deal breaker. Sex workers tend to be safer (we get tested often and use safe sex practices since our ability to earn a living depends on our sexual health) but as Lena said, your health is important and whatever makes you feel most comfortable is the best and the majority will offer CBJ if requested!

 

[ThunderLipps]

No it’s not bad etiquette. It’s not exactly fun or tasty but I will always accommode this request.

Perhaps have them dip the tip in the mouthwash cup they don't use.

 

[vanhamm]

Sadly the excellent BJJJ women i knew all retired, 2013 came back from cuba was still horny, call Ferrari they tell me I am sending you Marie, short dark hair blue eyes, OUCH she removes my shirt (i just got separated due to depression i had lost a lot of weight and had a beach body again at 41) she said you are really hot, she puts me on my back and gives me the best blowjob I ever had, twisting her tongue, aspiration everything, In face she gave me 2 in that session.

Of course Lexy who everyone knows she retired too sadly she always said let yourself go, CIM... and the last one was Vanessa from Maximum XXX big boobs always stoned you could let her go inside her mouth.

That pretty much it all the other ones including my regular SP don't DT

 

[Maestro7]

For like 6 seconds! But honestly, for most of us, while unpleasant, the taste of condom isn't a deal breaker. Sex workers tend to be safer (we get tested often and use safe sex practices since our ability to earn a living depends on our sexual health) but as Lena said, your health is important and whatever makes you feel most comfortable is the best and the majority will offer CBJ if requested!

is BBBJ overall safe ? even if the taste of condom is unpleasant , that’s still a better option than catching something unless there is no risk ?
Most SW would better do BBBJ than CBJ from what I know .

 

[Julia Sky]

is BBBJ overall safe ? even if the taste of condom is unpleasant , that’s still a better option than catching something unless there is no risk ?
Most SW would better do BBBJ than CBJ from what I know .

There is a risk but it's minimal. I've been an escort since 2016 and never caught a STI from giving BBBJ to a client.

 

[djlucky7]

ORL here : oral clam and gonorrhea are a thing and although most cases disappear without any treatment, it can be transmitted in an orogenital route. Just a fyi for married men still engaging in sexual activity with their wives.

 

[Rebaynia]

Hi everyone,

I'm new on Merb and the world of escorts and was curious with BJJ. (Being my first post, I hope I followed all the rules :S)
Context:
I'm in an open relationship since 2 years and everything is going well, we keep it to ourselves and having sex with people I know, I'm not worried for BBJ and oral sex in general (still covered sex of course).
The goal of this open relationship is to allow us to have fun and explore our kinks but we don't want to bring back anything home.
Questions:
Given the awesome reviews and really good experiences some of you shared on this forum, I'm really tempted by some ladies here and I was wandering if you had any tips or experience to share?
Also, is it bad etiquette to request a condom while BBJ is offered?
Finally, if any SW sees this thread, how do you also keep yourself safe?

Looking forward for your feedback.

The NewbieDD

It's not bad etiquette. It may even be appreciated that your safe concerned.
Just because someone advertises that they are open to bbj, doesn't mean they are opposed to cbj. It's not the same as asking someone who is cbj, to go bbj.

 

[studioso]

Unprotected oral sex does have risks. If you want to be safer ask for cbj and dont go down on her (I’ve tried dental dams and they are awful!). Even then you are not 100% safe but very close

 

[Nachoy]

There is a risk but it's minimal. I've been an escort since 2016 and never caught a STI from giving BBBJ to a client.

It's not bad etiquette. It may even be appreciated that your safe concerned.
Just because someone advertises that they are open to bbj, doesn't mean they are opposed to cbj. It's not the same as asking someone who is cbj, to go bbj.

Anyone who has sex regularly with different partners whether it’s protected sex or unprotected sex, should get tested at least every 3 months, ideally every 2 months.

What’s your feeling for uncovered pussy slide?
Do you offer it to select clients?
Is the risk the same as BBBJ?

 

[Rebaynia]

What’s your feeling for uncovered pussy slide?
Do you offer it to select clients?
Is the risk the same as BBBJ?

There is less transition in saliva than in secually excreted juices. I/we are tested regularly. I go in knowing I don't pose a threat to those I see.
If someone feels safe in asking to feast on me, that is his perogative. It is a rare request, but one I am often willing to oblige. I taste and smell myself often to know my condition down there is in good hygiene.

I don't think it the same risk for myself, as he is not getting it rammed down his throat, and many men often leak their juices (pre-cum) without warning. And likelihood he has an sti in his throat is lessoned, unless he's sucking c*ck on the side. Herpies is visible, if i feel any risk the answer is, no. And as for hpv, it is contact, he isn't getting throat cancer from barly useing his tounge. While his parts manage to go down the throat.

The female anatomy is very very sensitive to changes and reacts to those changes. Odor, or taste and texture can vary depending on what biological chemical reaction is happening. If it taste or smells off don't.
He is just as capable of saying he is worried about the same risks if he doesn't want to, I'm not forcing him to. If it is his desire, as some do asking for release over them while there, that is his perogative. As it is mine to require a condom on him before entering any location.

 

[LC18]

What’s your feeling for uncovered pussy slide?

Very unsafe.

Do you offer it to select clients?

I don’t even offer it to people in my personal life.

Is the risk the same as BBBJ?

No the risks aren’t the same, they’re bigger.

 

[Julia Sky]

There is less transition in saliva than in secually excreted juices. I/we are tested regularly. I go in knowing I don't pose a threat to those I see.
If someone feels safe in asking to feast on me, that is his perogative. It is a rare request, but one I am often willing to oblige. I taste and smell myself often to know my condition down there is in good hygiene.

I don't think it the same risk for myself, as he is not getting it rammed down his throat, and many men often leak their juices (pre-cum) without warning. And likelihood he has an sti in his throat is lessoned, unless he's sucking c*ck on the side. Herpies is visible, if i feel any risk the answer is, no. And as for hpv, it is contact, he isn't getting throat cancer from barly useing his tounge. While his parts manage to go down the throat.

The female anatomy is very very sensitive to changes and reacts to those changes. Odor, or taste and texture can vary depending on what biological chemical reaction is happening. If it taste or smells off don't.
He is just as capable of saying he is worried about the same risks if he doesn't want to, I'm not forcing him to. If it is his desire, as some do asking for release over them while there, that is his perogative. As it is mine to require a condom on him before entering any location.

You gave a reply about cunnilingus to a question about rubbing their bare dick against our bare vulva. Lol the response is interesting but irrelevant to the question!

The risks are much higher with a pussy slide because sexual fluids are being exchanged so it's not something clients should ask for IMO

 

[David Bowie]

An agency lady gave me her home phone and was skimming clients for direct contact. When I got to he place she was in a ratty bath robe with ratty slippers. I never called her again.

 

[LC18]

An agency lady gave me her home phone and was skimming clients for direct contact. When I got to he place she was in a ratty bath robe with ratty slippers. I never called her again.

Ok but what about the BBBJ? Because that was the topic of this thread

 

[AirBo]

My experience with BBBJ is that I couldn't live without it

Never had a single CBJ in my life. Never had any STD either.

Having sex with well reviewed SPs is no doubt safer than having sex with your Tinder date.