I find I struggle in this area. If the girl is really hot and I am really into her, I last a very short time. For example, last Friday I met a blonde goddess. She was young, like 19 years old. She had a perfect looking face with beautiful teeth and eyes. Very nice body with a good ass. She reminded me of porn star Alexis Texas. She was very soft and gentle. Well, while I was sitting on a chair, she sit on top of me and she started bouncing her nice ass on my cock. She was very good at riding cock, kinda like Alexis Texas. I came in like 20 seconds! That's quite short for the 200$ I paid. I really wanted to let her ride me for a while then pound her hard in doggy style position for a long time, but I could not. I wish I could control my ejaculation to make good sex last longer. Guys in porn seem to be able to go forever. I wish I could last for about half the time the guys in porn with a hot woman.
The thing is, there are often times when I last a long time with girls, but more often than not, it is because I am less into it. When a girl doesn't impress me much with her appearance or when there is a lack of chemistry or when her pussy is dry/too tight, I can last really long times, but often I struggle to ejaculate. I have the risk of my dick going soft, and there were times when I could not ejaculate at all. Also there were times when I decided to jack off at home the same day before seeing an escort, but instead of making me last longer, it would make me softer and less into the sex, thus not enjoying it as much.
So basically the more I enjoy the sex, the quicker I come. I wish I could enjoy the sex a lot and STILL last a long time. Is this even possible?