I found that giving my actually name and contact info helps to validate who I am. By being truthful, it helped to build trust between companions and myself.
Trust? I sort of get what you mean, but how do you decide you can trust the SP in question? Because she's been reviewed ? Really ? How do you know for certain that this info won't end up in the wrong person's hands? A friend of hers, a pimp, LE, etc.. ? Perhaps I'm the one with trust issues ?
However, if one is insulting, demeaning and/or derogatory to companions, it is fair game to post these idiots' contact info and communications online.
We can only see one side of the conversation though. Who is to say she doesn't hide her comments to the client? Trying to pass as a victim, getting people to feel sorry for her. Not trying to defend anyone... I am sure there are quite a number of shit heads out there as well. But I don't interact when them (unless there are hidden on this board). I've seen some cases first-hand do a full 180degrees on me due to unrelated shit going on in her personal life and suddenly decide to take it out on me (and others).
So I can see this situation degenerating badly for others. I can think of one incident in particular where a girl I had been seeing (for years) had a personal situation get out of hand with her family. It was pretty bad... she went into a depression, drugs, lots subsequent poor choices... a really bad spiral. Suddenly one night, she started contacting me threatening to blackmail me ( I know a few other guys also fell victim to this as I knew of another one of her regulars, and he freaked out and wasn't the kind of guy to mess around with). I simply discarded my sim card at the time and got a new one and that was that. She later apologized for you actions... but there could have been significant damage.
Hopeful, it helps to regulate unsavoury behaviours and to show to others how not to act.
I agree with the idea behind what you're saying. I've had SPs show me their "winners circle" messages. There are A LOT of creepy keyboard warriors out there that hide behind the anonymity of their phones. Ever checkout any girls messages on any dating site? There are a LOT of classless assholes out there. Hell, I'm sure I've sent messages to a girls which could pass as unsavoury on a drunk horny night.
But SPs, as purveyors of sexual fantasies, immediately attract the scum of the earth looking to indulge in his most darkest fantasies using a very untactful approach. Surely it is to be expected when you accept to do this line of work?
Still can't see any valid reasons to take up this behaviour. This will also have serious impacts on good customers...
Yes, I use fake name, fake occupation, fake email, fake burner hell... even a fake accents at times (its fun). She has no use for this information all she needs to know is I pay well and am respectful of set boundaries. I've even been quite open about it (get laughs for the accent). Never had I had a girl get pissed at me for doing so.
I'm kind of on the fence on this one.... maybe not. If I can't trust an SP with my PIN, I don't see why I should trust her with my personal info.
part of a regular screening for a lot of people in the USA, and even in Canada. It has been ages that people are processing this way.
As for a screening process... I think SP references work well. Did it out West without a hitch. Let's protect the girls, but let's be safe doing so. I think that would also do wonders in ridding this board with the rediculous amount of non-contributing lurkers.
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