View Poll Results: Would You Stop Hobbying If You Fell In Love?

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  • Yes, I would stop hobbying

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  • No, I would continue on the side

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Thread: Would You Stop Hobbying?

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    Would You Stop Hobbying?

    If you found a woman to be in love with, ie., true love finally, would you keep hobbying or stop? My own past history was that I did stop (although a trip our to the strip clubs with the guys was still acceptable).

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    Ditto. Call me a sap or incurable romantic or devoted BF but If I fell in love again, my hobbying days will be a thing of the past... Strip joints being the exception.

    Don't get me wrong. Being in love and respecting your partner is not the same as being whipped. lol

  3. #3
    Hello,

    Are you asking the question to married or otherwise engaged hobbyists with kids and wife or SO and having meaningful sex besides the wife and the hobbying or are you asking single guys hobbying when having meaningful sex with a woman besides hobbying or in both cases?

    Kate
    Last edited by ServiceVIP; 10-26-2008 at 04:00 PM.

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    wondering if you have never dated a provider before girls how many times have you given your boyfreind money for another girl <girls who have bf not pimp>

    i have been with dancers con can't handle her coming homdrunk and late every night that's my job i like the bed warmed up for me


    escort just an escort i'm dating can't handle being in the middle of dinner or a movie and agency calls

    escort if i really like her well it was once i let her work one shift when she
    got home it was me or the job we were together 2 years she got a waitress
    job

    mp with an mp also 2 years 10 hour shifts obsessive regular clients <guys girls come home and talk about the job get ready>

    all sex workers all of a sudden no more food in the kitchen or in the over

    i usually end up at someother girls house who invites me for supper

    <my problem with the latter usually friend or buisness associates ex wife or
    girlfriend

    i would rather be with a girl who makes 15 to 40 k and likes to cook and clean <when they do the dishes the little jiggle well they usally don't get done in one shot >and then i can take her to gibby's or lemeiac and spoil her with what ever she wants

    my mother was a carrear woman an still is she was never home and now has been single
    for too long

    buisness exec's good for casual but not into serious

    this question is like asking the russians what would they do if communism fell 15 years ago

    go back now and see them, show their initial answer
    Last edited by drinkher; 10-26-2008 at 05:30 PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ServiceVIP
    Hello,

    Are you asking the question to married or otherwise engaged hobbyists with kids and wife or SO and having meaningful sex besides the wife and the hobbying or are you asking single guys hobbying when having meaningful sex with a woman besides hobbying or in both cases?

    Kate
    I'm asking all guys. I guess the ones who are married or attached and continue to see SPs would be the ones answering no, they won't stop.

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    I truly beleive that a man who has been hobbying for a while will start hobbying again once the initial flame starts to fade. A certain amount of hobbyists might stop but most will come back to it.

    Once you know what it is to have a high octane sexual life with different partners and different sexual practices, I think it is hardly possible to settle down once and for all into a cozy, normal everyday sexuality wich brings a lot of good moments of complicity etc... but lacks the animal lust on wich the hobbying is based.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tothebone
    I truly beleive that a man who has been hobbying for a while will start hobbying again once the initial flame starts to fade. A certain amount of hobbyists might stop but most will come back to it.

    Once you know what it is to have a high octane sexual life with different partners and different sexual practices, I think it is hardly possible to settle down once and for all into a cozy, normal everyday sexuality wich brings a lot of good moments of complicity etc... but lacks the animal lust on wich the hobbying is based.
    I must be abnormal but I wouldn't mind if my future husband/boyfriend would be hobbying once in a while. What I would mind would be if he went to bars trying to pick up girls and have affairs.

  8. #8
    nice cleo you must be a real woman

    guys some times the hobby makes you appreciate so much more the women you love you become so much sweeter and careing cause you know you don't want to be married to the superstar you may have had the night before i lost
    the two best relationships of my short life because i thought to be true to my woman
    i had to stop i was high strung frusrated unfufilled then possesive dependant
    and overbearing i still remember those beutiful eye's say to me

    it's just you can be so suffercating and what did i do got high and depressesd cause she couldn't handle my affection should have went to the hobby i know it
    Last edited by drinkher; 10-28-2008 at 06:49 AM.

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    Just like Cleo said, I wouldn't have a problem if my husband would see an escort once in a while (I would still love to know , maybe I'd call myself a Gigolo that night! ).

    The way I see it, love is love and sex is just sex. Love with sex is even better than sex alone but sometime something different is fun too. And "paid for sex" is sex that doesn't become intimate and interfere with your couple.

    On the other hand, I could never stand if he had an affair with a regular lover, a relationship with another woman.

    I would without a doubt retire if I'd meet Mr. Right. I am a big romantic.
    Last edited by Lilly Lombard; 10-26-2008 at 10:17 PM.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Maxima
    Hobbying is a sin. Need I say more?
    I have no problem with that at all. I've accepted it long ago. I know I am going straight to Hell where the heat and all the party people and fun is.

    I let calm quiet heaven to the perfect ones.
    "It's a God-given talent. It was meant to be shared with the public." (Moustache, Irma La Douce, 1963)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lilly Lombard
    I have no problem with that at all. I've accepted it long ago. I know I am going straight to Hell where the heat and all the party people and fun is.

    I let calm quiet heaven to the perfect ones.
    Hello Lilly,

    Come on sweetie. You are a bad girl ...just not THAT bad. But I think I understand your point.

    Hugs,

    Korbel
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    Quote Originally Posted by Maxima
    Hobbying is a sin. Need I say more?
    You are kidding I hope.

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    Love is for losers, love
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    Love is for suckers, love is for suckers

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  14. #14

    Yes, I did.

    I did stop for several years, but now that the relationship is over I am back in the saddle again!

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    Sex and love, both can live separately. I love my GF but the sex drive between us is gone. I'll never have an affair with somebody else but seeing SP isn't an affair, it's plain and simple sex. Since I'm seeing SP, even if very rarely in the last year, I feel less stress and ressentment with the GF so, the relation is even better!

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