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    Hanging out in public? Fun or bad idea?

    Quote Originally Posted by Star-Man
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    She comes into my hotel room and we are planning on going out to eat, she has on a mini skirt and a nice pink little sweater,.............................., we get to the elevator and make our way down to the lobby, doors open, the lobby is PACKED!!!! There must be 100 people in there, fuck, I feel like a dirty old man ..........................
    This quote from another thread highlights something I have been thinking about quite a bit.
    If the difference between a SP and a client is significant (ages, looks, whatever) does it attract such unwanted attention that it spoils the fun of being out in public at a restaurant or theatre. If you want to take a SP to dinner before you have your time alone, do you (and she) even give a hoot about the attention you attract, or do you feel that sometime it might be better to spend all your time in private to avoid making your situation obvious.

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    personally, doesnt bother me one bit, im not old or look old but still wouldnt bother me one tiny bit, are you gonna be kissing and holding hands in public? if not then is it a big deal? people might think your with your daughter or grandaughter, so be it, besides, does it really matter to you what total strangers on the street think? heck, be happy to have a hot woman on your arm..... time passes by to quickly, just enjoy and dont worry about others views of you





    Quote Originally Posted by freezin
    This quote from another thread highlights something I have been thinking about quite a bit.
    If the difference between a SP and a client is significant (ages, looks, whatever) does it attract such unwanted attention that it spoils the fun of being out in public at a restaurant or theatre. If you want to take a SP to dinner before you have your time alone, do you (and she) even give a hoot about the attention you attract, or do you feel that sometime it might be better to spend all your time in private to avoid making your situation obvious.

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    OMG...johnmbot... we should double date. Then people can assume, I am with your date and that you are with mine. :-)

    If there is one thing I am learning on this board, it is that maybe I need to worry less and do more!!
    Thanks..
    Last edited by freezin; 01-17-2009 at 10:28 PM.

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    as the song goes ......... "dont worry ma'an......beeee happy"




    Quote Originally Posted by freezin
    OMG...johnmbot... we should double date. Then people can assume, I am with your date and that you are with mine. :-)

    If there is one thing I am learning on this board, it is that maybe I need to worry less and do more!!
    Thanks..

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    Quote Originally Posted by freezin
    This quote from another thread highlights something I have been thinking about quite a bit.
    If the difference between a SP and a client is significant (ages, looks, whatever) does it attract such unwanted attention that it spoils the fun of being out in public at a restaurant or theatre. If you want to take a SP to dinner before you have your time alone, do you (and she) even give a hoot about the attention you attract, or do you feel that sometime it might be better to spend all your time in private to avoid making your situation obvious.
    Hello Freezin,

    I said goodbye to Maria Divina with some sexy brief kissing on the street corner outside the hotel on a very busy street in the center of Montreal. I have had lunch and/or dinner alone with Lilly of Montreal several times and kissed her goodbye out on the street. I have also shopped in a "sexe shoppe" with Lilly a couple of times with the attendants and customers watching. IT FEELS GRRRRRRRREAT!!! Hehehehehehe. Let the upstanding decent people and the hypocrites who cheat on their wives think what they want when I'm having so much FUN! Yeah, we had sex...don't be jealous.

    Ummmmmmm,

    Merlot

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    If you don't mind the stares and the whispers that your date will attract then all the power to you!

    Guys always notice good looking girls and if she's with a guy, they will size up the competition and then realize "WTF I think she's paid for".

    Waiters in restaurants will notice there's something wrong with this picture? He'll ask the other waiters, busboys, and kitchen staff what they think the couple at table 9 is up to.

    I say this because I notice this at the restaurants and casino. But I'm not out to ruin a guys fun I just say to myself "lucky bastard!". But there are losers out there who will make stupid comments!


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    It can be a very fun and very good idea! My only suggestions would be :

    1- Go with a woman you are comfortable with (maybe on the second date) because if the way she dresses makes you feel like you would be uncomfortabe in public with her then it's not a good idea or it could be the way she acts that would make you feel bad.

    2- Only do what YOU are comfortable doing with the woman in public. If only diners and some nice smiles and looks, little discreet affection signs OR heavy petting...

    It is your time and you do what makes YOU comfortable.

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    I spend a lot of time in public with a beautiful young woman, once an SP, less than half my age and I never get the sense that people are looking at us.

    I also spend a lot of time in public with another very attractive young woman less than half my age, my daughter, and I never get the sense that people are looking at us.
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    Whether it's a fun or a bad idea is entirely up to you. Personally, if I am out with a hot young lady in public, the absolute last thing I am thinking about is what other people think.

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    You have to say "" doesn't matter""

    Hello, first of all I have to say to you that you are made for nothing. Only you, I indeed say only you, know. You have the right to be with whom you want, the question you do not have them settle(arise)..... Anyway, say you, please, that all the world speak about all about the world...Don't prevent yourself to do what you have to do........

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    Hanging out in public? Fun or bad idea?

    Naturally a bad idea if you're in a relationship, but largely something that the most would seek for --- mainly if the girl is very hot.
    DENISE MILANI REDEFINES HOTNESS! !!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Merlot
    Hello Freezin,

    I said goodbye to Maria Divina with some sexy brief kissing on the street corner outside the hotel on a very busy street in the center of Montreal. I have had lunch and/or dinner alone with Lilly of Montreal several times and kissed her goodbye out on the street. I have also shopped in a "sexe shoppe" with Lilly a couple of times with the attendants and customers watching. IT FEELS GRRRRRRRREAT!!! Hehehehehehe. Let the upstanding decent people and the hypocrites who cheat on their wives think what they want when I'm having so much FUN! Yeah, we had sex...don't be jealous.

    Ummmmmmm,

    Merlot

    NEW YEARS Resolution: I wanna be like Merlot --- come to think of it.... almost exactly like Merlot (hehe)

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    I don't have a problem being seen in public with a female companion as long as they are conservatively dressed and act mature. I've been to dinner and hockey games with Lilly, Mora, and a few others and they have always behaved extremely proper when I've wanted them to be.

    I'd be a bit uncomfortable if they where falling out of the top of their shirts and we were out to dinner as I might miss my mouth with my wine glass.

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    The worst that can happen is that you make other men jealous...........(not the end of the world).

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    Some years ago, I attended a friend's birthday dinner party at a mainstream downtown restaurant. We were maybe a dozen at our table. A few tables over there was a "couple" formed of a middle aged man and an extravagantly (lotta cleavage) dressed woman about half his age. They were'nt petting, they just appeared mismatched. Well, guess what we spent a good part of the evening speculating about?

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