I ll go straight to the point. I have a new girl that I date. About 1 month.
Our first intimate moment was excellent, and lasted for over an hour. Great sex, like always... I just learned this week a very bad news about a member of my family, but then again, what can I do. I meet this girl another time, we had diner and wine (reasonable, 1 bottle for 2), and then we went to bed for some intimate moment, but then, FUCK ME, nothing nada. I couldnt get it hard at all, not even a little. I really wanted, but it just didnt work. Ok for that, I was stress for the evening, diner, etc and my family situation. I know next time I will have not to think about it in order to make it work. But on the next date, 2 days later, same thing happened. I was soo stress, and scared that it will happened again, that it finally did. I am so in shame. I felt totally like an idiot, there is no word to describe how i feel right now. Everything seems so dark, my thoughts are dark and sad, it really affect me and I dont know what to do. I am 28 y-o FYI. Thank. I really feel like shit and not manly at all. As for the girl, she is a potential GF, so this is even more of an embarassing situation.