Pet peeve thread

[DouMan]

Getting the following email :

"Hello ,
I am Kerry ,I am planning a business trip to Montreal next week , and I am planning you to be my bitch for a whole night. I am an assman , love to fuck directly your ass untill you bleed like a whore.
How much for the ass ??
I can send you a pic of the dick that will go inside you.."

Idk if anyone here has passed the word around to harass me about anal sex but it's the third time somebody contacts me with a violent message like this in the past few days

Unbelievable how a person can be such an asshole. Another Momys little boy that didn't get his favorite dessert and is all fwastrayted.

It's awful what you ladies live through with such things.

As a small side note, while reading his (I should say its) eloquent prose one thing that always raises my blood pressure is when I read "for a business trip", "I am a well known" or any other look at me I'm your gift lucky lady.

Who cares why your in town or bla bla bla when most of it is probably false.

Ladies you have all my, our, admiration for dealing with such shit day after day.

@Lunaseraphim you come across as a beautiful person, don't let such idiots play in your head and ever make you doubt it.

 

[Rebaynia]

My pet peeves...
Oh there are many. And of course, I have been gifted with many of them, I have had to learn to tollerate in my own offspring. While in past I would just avoid people who possessed these traits. Those ones I won't point out here.

I will stick with pet peeves in this hobbying.
- misogyny (enough said)
- People demanding instant attention. (I have my own life to lead as well as do this, and won't answer while doing my civi job *8hrs straight*, on visits, driving, or having an emotionally difficult day; I can be an introvert, and sometimes struggle with all the socializing I have to do, though am an extrovert when around others, but find it emotionally draining.)
- People expecting that just because they wrote me I must now see them. (I see who I want, if I want, and if I don't like your communication with me, I will not see you.)
- People who don't want to be ghosted, but also won't let the conversation die out. (Some people leave no other option but to ghost them. You can say I'm not interested and have a good day, only so many times, not everyone gets the hint. And rudeness doesn't always deserve a responce back)
- Last minute, I want to see you now bookings with strangers. An appointment in time to come, and time to get to know/feel-out the person threw messages is needed. Often not an issue for repeating visits. (The OPs pet peeve is actually the stalling tactic for I can't, or am not really feeling up to making visits today. Delays might happen; while posting a long message on this board, playing a few rounds on a game, working out at the gym, already on a visit...ect. While on a good day the stalling is down to a minimum if at all.)

As for why I wouldn't have a booker, because a bookers job is to book appointments, and I am very choosy about who I am willing to see, and when. I don't trust or believe a booker would have my best interest at heart, or care if the person they are booking would be compatible with me. It would lead to a fast track of me no longer making this even an option to try and get by in life, and I would very quickly give up on everything, and disappear from even being an SP. I would burn out instantly.

Edit: This is not a job for me, but a hobby to add to and make life better, when it feels like work, I want nothing to do with it.

 

[Sylar]

Getting the following email :

"Hello ,
I am Kerry ,I am planning a business trip to Montreal next week , and I am planning you to be my bitch for a whole night. I am an assman , love to fuck directly your ass untill you bleed like a whore.
How much for the ass ??
I can send you a pic of the dick that will go inside you.."

Idk if anyone here has passed the word around to harass me about anal sex but it's the third time somebody contacts me with a violent message like this in the past few days

Pet peeve: people being angry that you have boundaries

Luna, I am sorry you have to go through this. You seem like a kind and gentle soul who would be affected a lot by messages such as this. That said, I believe there is a good chance that sharing these kind of messages will attract even more weirdos your way (either from the board or other platforms) as they might see it as an open invitation to be rude. Take care of yourself.

@DouMan - I see your point, but sometimes it does make sense to mention that you are coming from a different city / for a business trip. It limits your schedule, it increases the possibility of outcall etc.

 

[LC18]

That said, I believe there is a good chance that sharing these kind of messages will attract even more weirdos your way (either from the board or other platforms) as they might see it as an open invitation to be rude. Take care of yourself.

It’s giving them the attention they so desperately want. I am convinced some people follow her on social media just to see if she’s going to post their insanities.

 

[peachy]

Getting the following email :

"Hello ,
I am Kerry ,I am planning a business trip to Montreal next week , and I am planning you to be my bitch for a whole night. I am an assman , love to fuck directly your ass untill you bleed like a whore.
How much for the ass ??
I can send you a pic of the dick that will go inside you.."

Idk if anyone here has passed the word around to harass me about anal sex but it's the third time somebody contacts me with a violent message like this in the past few days

Pet peeve: people being angry that you have boundaries

Jesus, seriously. That's some fucked up and stupid shit right there which kinda leads into my pet peeve (and likely echoed by many on escort and dating forums all over the net). Dudes that say stupid shit in their posts or DMs and act like total assholes, then lo and behold, start a thread with a long diatribe about how no women want to meet them or talk to them and how they are all fake, blah, blah, blah. They go on and on about this, whining and telling us about how all the women are bitches and of course, at the end of their hissy fit, proclaim that they are actually a great guy and just misunderstood.

 

[MCTJ]

Minor pet peeve: people who drive with their windows rolled down while playing loud music.

 

[Rebaynia]

Minor pet peeve: people who drive with their windows rolled down while playing loud music.

Lol... you would hate me then .
But I also can't stand driving in silence. My ADHD makes me a danger if I don't have my music to rock out to while driving. It keeps me properly focused on the road.

 

[Mandouke]

Pet peeves, here's my list.

1) People who blow their nose while eating a meal with me, suggestion, do it in the washroom or elsewhere other than the dining table.
2) People who carry on loud cell phone conversations and video calls in public places, fucking annoying. I don't need to know the intimate details of your familial and personal life.
3) People who show no respect in queues for public transit, grocery shopping, etc.
4) Men who catcall women in public, losers grow up, you give all of us men a bad name and you won't get lucky that way anyway.
5) Disrespectful people in general who show a lack of civility to others and in particular those who do not respect their elders.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Quand tu ouvres la pellicule d'aluminium d'un petit yogourt et qu'elle se défait pas d'un coup, mais plutôt se sépare encore et encore à chaque essai.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Quand tu ouvres la pellicule d'aluminium d'un petit yogourt et qu'elle se défait pas d'un coup, mais plutôt se sépare encore et encore à chaque essai.

ou bien ça:

 

[Giselle Montreal]

ou bien ça:

Ouiiii! Tellement.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

ou bien ça:

AHHHH
ça m'est arrivé l'autre fois avec unes de mes boissons au THC, elles coûtent cher en plus

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

AHHHH
ça m'est arrivé l'autre fois avec unes de mes boissons au THC, elles coûtent cher en plus

Y a toujours moyen de l’ouvrir, une clé ça fonctionne. Ou un couteau de poche :

 

[T'storm]

Minor pet peeve: people who drive with their windows rolled down while playing loud music.

I did that when I was in my late teens to attract the girls walking on the sidewalk. I'm from a small town and that is what everyone did on Friday and Saturday nights. This was back in the mid 80's.

 

[ThunderLipps]

People who need to post they block people or mad and leaving a site. We don't care.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

People who need to post they block people or mad and leaving a site. We don't care.

She left the trade, not the site.

 

[Fradi]

This already happens very often, whether or not I post about it on social media. Specially when I mention I had cancellations, which a lot of providers do to get new clients, that's often when this type of person comes out of the woodworks.

I never posted on this board or on my twitter that I don't do greek, but it's a known fact, and clearly some people about it are mad about it and are suddenly harassing me.

There's a ton of things I don't mention on social media. I just think these people think I'm going to stay silent and scared at home and stop working, which isn't going to happen. Sometimes I have to refuse seeing certain clients or I have negative interactions, and they go ahead and make a ton of fake numbers and fake bookings to harass me, which has nothing to do with what I post on social media or not. Like I said either here or on another thread, because I'm a "sweet person" it's expected of me that I am going to obey and stay nice no matter what, which will not happen.

I think it is your personality that invites these lunatics.
You come across as such a sweet caring gentle soul but at the same time so fragile and vulnerable that you become the perfect object for these mental cases for abuse.
Hopefully you get just as many kind and respectful people wanting to see you as well who appreciated your personality.

 

[ThunderLipps]

She left the trade, not the site.

Not sure who you mean. This was a general thing I see on various sites.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I think it is your personality that invites these lunatics.
You come across as such a sweet caring gentle soul but at the same time so fragile and vulnerable that you become the perfect object for these mental cases for abuse.
Hopefully you get just as many kind and respectful people wanting to see you as well who appreciated your personality.

I have no problem with setting boundaries, but my personality is what it is. One thing I've noticed is that when I tried to change my behaviour, people did not respond well to it at all, and people get angry when I set boundaries. I refused to see a gentleman because he was being vague with me and I found his attitude entitled. He went ahead and messaged the SP he gave me as a reference and called me paranoid and other insults. It's really hard to have a balance between being my natural sweet self and setting boundaries, because the contrast of what certain individuals perceive to be who I am with me saying ''no'' to something is so strong in their minds. It's annoying.

HOWEVER, I do get MUCH MORE kind and respectful clients! I have to weed out a lot of idiots but most SP's do. When I do get bookings everyone tends to be very sweet.

 

[Gazoo64]

Reviving this thread!

Current pet peeves:
1. Lurkers on this board, who never write reviews.
2. White knights.
3. Liars!
4. Guys that wait impatiently in front of their computer, refreshing their screen 100s of times when the agency schedule comes out; hoping to get a ”spot” with a popular agency SP.
Boy, some guys have waaaay too much time on their hands and probably a boring life!