False gfe advertising

[Jacobisrael]

Hi people,

I have been in the hobby for more than 10 years and I noticed that the word gfe is being used loosely especially for the last 5 years.I remember at the time it used to mean dfk, bbbj. At the time I use to never see the term safe gfe. Some would even mention non gfe, which I respect a lot more. I don’t mind girls putting non gfe ( I’ve seen some and that was fine). I’m wondering why do some insist on putting gfe on their ad when it’s not the case. I rarely hear of a gf that would do bj with a condom (although I’m sure that happens but most likely really rare). What do you think? I think there’s no point of mentioning gfe if that is not the case. Thankfully with experience I’m able to dodge most false advertising. I would also like too thank honest SPs whether they offer gfe or not
Thanks

 

[DenisZim]

Hi people,

I have been in the hobby for more than 10 years and I noticed that the word gfe is being used loosely especially since the last 5 years.I remember at the time it used to mean dfk, bbbj. At the time I use to never see the term safe gfe. Some would even mention non gfe, which I respect a lot more. I don’t mind girls putting non gfe ( I’ve seen some and that was fine). I’m wondering why do some insist on putting gfe on their ad when it’s not the case. I rarely hear of a gf that would do bj with a condom (although I’m sure that happens but most likely really rare). What do you think? I think there’s no point of mentioning gfe if that is not the case. Thankfully with experience I’m able to dodge most false advertising. I would also like too thank honest SPs whether they offer gfe or not
Thanks

Hello,
The point is very simple.
This is attractive.
Once you are in the room and it's paid she can always say - I don't do this, I don't do that. This business model does not allow to develop loyal customers. These girls count only on short term investments, mean next please.
Other type of girls - they do not disappoint, they provide what they promised. They develop loyal customers that treat them with respect and after 10 years they have enough to buy an apartment. I call this long term investment

 

[urquell]

https://merb.cc/xenforo/threads/is-it-me-or-pse-gfe-means-nothing-these-days.241113/

 

[Universe knows]

Hi people,

I have been in the hobby for more than 10 years and I noticed that the word gfe is being used loosely especially since the last 5 years.I remember at the time it used to mean dfk, bbbj. At the time I use to never see the term safe gfe. Some would even mention non gfe, which I respect a lot more. I don’t mind girls putting non gfe ( I’ve seen some and that was fine). I’m wondering why do some insist on putting gfe on their ad when it’s not the case. I rarely hear of a gf that would do bj with a condom (although I’m sure that happens but most likely really rare). What do you think? I think there’s no point of mentioning gfe if that is not the case. Thankfully with experience I’m able to dodge most false advertising. I would also like too thank honest SPs whether they offer gfe or not
Thanks

Is the gfe only false ? How about the SP who rush services …Not providing PSE etc and those who up charge and doesn’t kiss or do bbbj ?

 

[Jacobisrael]

Is the gfe only false ? How about the SP who rush services …Not providing PSE etc and those who up charge and doesn’t kiss or do bbbj ?

PSE at least can vary and that can make sense. But gfe should be more straightforward

 

[Universe knows]

Hello,
The point is very simple.
This is attractive.
Once you are in the room and it's paid she can always say - I don't do this, I don't do that. This business model does not allow to develop loyal customers. These girls count only on short term investments, mean next please.
Other type of girls - they do not disappoint, they provide what they promised. They develop loyal customers that treat them with respect and after 10 years they have enough to buy an apartment. I call this long term investment

Escorting for 10 years doesn’t mean their are doing more than the one who came for short periods and left . You can find love and leave , you can simply move to next chapter of your life. The thing is there are many scamy escorts with fake advertising.
You can buy an apartment not only through escorting etc .

 

[Universe knows]

PSE at least can vary and that can make sense. But gfe should be more straightforward

Indeed ! It should be !

 

[Jacobisrael]

Escorting for 10 years doesn’t mean their are doing more than the one who came for short periods and left . You can find love and leave , you can simply move to next chapter of your life. The thing is there are many scamy escorts with fake advertising.
You can buy an apartment not only through escorting etc .

I also think that the new generation (post 2020) of clients has no idea what a real gfe is or maybe have never experienced it so they can’t even compare.

 

[DenisZim]

Escorting for 10 years doesn’t mean their are doing more than the one who came for short periods and left . You can find love and leave , you can simply move to next chapter of your life. The thing is there are many scamy escorts with fake advertising.
You can buy an apartment not only through escorting etc .

Hello,
Thank you for your opinion.
Completely agree.
My point is mostly develop loyal customers vs playing small games.
Example from my experience - an hour with a loyal customer $ 300 vs $ 50 deposit and then she is gone.

 

[Salbandini]

I also think that the new generation (post 2020) of clients has no idea what a real gfe is or maybe have never experienced it so they can’t even compare.

alot of people just wanna release and be done man. I mean you all want to release but others want everything and others are simple. Thats all it comes down to really

 

[CLOUD 500]

Hi people,

I have been in the hobby for more than 10 years and I noticed that the word gfe is being used loosely especially since the last 5 years.I remember at the time it used to mean dfk, bbbj. At the time I use to never see the term safe gfe. Some would even mention non gfe, which I respect a lot more. I don’t mind girls putting non gfe ( I’ve seen some and that was fine). I’m wondering why do some insist on putting gfe on their ad when it’s not the case. I rarely hear of a gf that would do bj with a condom (although I’m sure that happens but most likely really rare). What do you think? I think there’s no point of mentioning gfe if that is not the case. Thankfully with experience I’m able to dodge most false advertising. I would also like too thank honest SPs whether they offer gfe or not
Thanks

GFE is now a marketing tool. Escorts are using GFE to lure clients, ask for payment upfront then change on a dime. In these instances the client has little recourse. His money is gone. Even Indys are YMMV for the most part. Best to research the reviews if any. TOFFT is very risky post-covid.

 

[Jacobisrael]

alot of people just wanna release and be done man. I mean you all want to release but others want everything and others are simple. Thats all it comes down to really

I get it but why pay gfe rates when you can pay half or a quarter lol for a 15 or 30 min.Your money your choice lol

 

[Jacobisrael]

GFE is now a marketing tool. Escorts are using GFE to lure clients, ask for payment upfront then change on a dime. In these instances the client has little recourse. His money is gone. Even Indys are YMMV for the most part. Best to research the reviews if any. TOFFT is very risky post-covid.

Ye man TOFFT before was way less risky at backpage time. But that’s life I guess

 

[Salbandini]

I get it but why pay gfe rates when you can pay half or a quarter lol for a 15 or 30 min.Your money your choice lol

I have no answer for that. Like you said Thats their choice lol. It happens to with girls who offer gfe where guys just wanna be done and thats it .

 

[AudreyMini]

The emotional realism of the GFE doesn’t mean suspending all protective measures, the connection can feel genuine while still following essential rules.

 

[Jacobisrael]

The emotional realism of the GFE doesn’t mean suspending all protective measures, the connection can feel genuine while still following essential rules.

Gfe definition used to include bbbj any senior member or sp that was there for more than 5 years would know. But ok not going to argue

 

[Tor1393]

GFE means: LFK, DFK, BBBJ, DATY and covered FS. I am just starting to get back into the hobby after a hiatus. I hope it hasn't changed that much.
And now the ladies grab the cash upfront? I only do outcall, so I hope I will be pleasantly surprised.
Tor

 

[Porshasnow]

It’s extremely hard getting booked on non gfe services in Canada. And most girls in this industry still pay someone, they have a quota to meet. A lot of the pimps take an american approach, hence why gfe is frowned upon. If you have x amount to bring in everyday and you see that every single text is asking for gfe or bbbj, you’ll just start lying, it’s nothing personnal against the client.

I’ll say tho, the reccurent factor I see with reviews of girls false advertising is that the rate made no sense as an indy. If you see a sexy mamacita, 21, advertising dfk daty bbj cim cof for 250h on LL, you’re probably gonna get robbed lol.

 

[Halloween Mike]

I been here since 2009

GFE : BBBJ, DATY, Kissing (some do light, some do deep, this personally i never push and let at discretion of provider but i do like deep...)

GFE+ : Usually it mean she down for cim but usually at extra

PSE : Either Greek or COF or any more "porno style" services. I agree this ons is a tad more open in description...

Safe GFE? ... I think its GFE but a blowjob with condom? In any case i never wanted that and never pursue it....

But lets be real if you don't do BBBJ or kissing... You do "full service" wich mean you allow vaginal penetration. Thats as simple as that.

Audreymini im sorry but even if you are the nicest girl on the planet we need a code in this business so we can look for providers who provide what we want and all covered no kissing no nothing... Thats call "full service".

You can provide that if its what you comfortable with. Nobody here say otherwise. Its just not "GFE". No , GFE is not an "emotional connection".

I think its the very base to expect that for the 1h we pay, our provider are "nice to us". Thats like the base.

Im pretty sure no guy here would be fine if a provider just removed her panty and say "alright dude do what you have to do" while she do the star... Unless its some fetish of them but ...whatever lol.

Basically we there to have a good time and at least get the illusion of a fun "sexual encounter" time. Be it like it was our girfriend, a one night stand, a friend with benefit, or shooting a porno without cameras (or with it if she provide that lol).

The acronymes define the type of services we pay for. Not the "vibe of the encounter".

Honestly if i ever one day get a provider that say "ok do your thing" while starfishing nope im cancelling that off lol.