Secret diary of a boy who calls girl

[Rebaynia]

Well…it is an open board. So unless I am rude to you. I can question the purpose of your threads

So you took her on a date
No review?
What was the cost of this entire day for 1 sog?
You seem to enjoy answering others and in place of others…so why not answer mine?

The goal of the activity and visit, isn't just the 1 SOG. It's the beautiful wonder and expierience of sharing it with another person who will appreciate it.

The fact that you want to reduce an entire fulfilling expierience, into a grand total price and 1 SOG, is the very reason you won't accept either the number, or the value that the whole expierience provided for that value beyond the SOG.

 

[Flyingby]

The goal of the activity and visit, isn't just the 1 SOG. It's the beautiful wonder and expierience of sharing it with another person who will appreciate it.

The fact that you want to reduce an entire fulfilling expierience, into a grand total price and 1 SOG, is the very reason you won't accept either the number, or the value that the whole expierience provided for that value beyond the SOG.

Comes back to my comment
Of course an SP would love this. She is being paid NOT to fuck

Still curious since this is a review. But not in the right section at all.
What did you charge him? And what was total coat of the day.

Ps. Don’t assume I won’t accept the number. What people do with their money is their business. Not mine

 

[zuku]

Even with an sp there can be some kind of romance, if in the end it helps the customer make the most of the experience. Why not?

Dicks don't work on automatic past a certain age, preliminaries are not only physical.

 

[Rebaynia]

Comes back to my comment
Of course an SP would love this. She is being paid NOT to fuck

Still curious since this is a review. But not in the right section at all. What did you charge him?

I am flattered you would think it was me. LeDodo provides quite beautiful date ideas beyond what I have had the pleasure to experience in my personal life, nevermind professional.

Though he tends to like a very different physical type than I am from what he shares. I am not on his SP to do list. He is just someone I respect in many ways, and I am happy for my friends who may be blessed to go on such expieriences. ♡ I can be happy for others good fortune, without it needing to be my own expierience.

 

[twenty4seven]

Still curious since this is a review. But not in the right section at all.

I don't think it's a review. In the OP it just says that they're an extension from a Social Date Idea Thread, which is what he's putting here. He's not rating an SP, or even a restaurant, he's just describing an ideal date night he's had.

 

[curly]

What's on my mind is: why pay a girl to do these social activities when most civilian girl would adore going with you on them (and many would provide free sex after such a romantic activity, or even expect that you would make crazy love to them as icing on the cake!). Keep your money for the rainy days.

 

[EastWind]

I don’t get it
This is something you have done?
Want to do? With a date? With an sp?

If a girl you take on first date likes all this grand gesture…RUN. SHE A FUCKING PSYCHO
if this is your dream date with an sp. of course she will like it. She being paid to NOT fuck you.

Not a good idea to do what LeDodo suggests on a first date with a civie girl. Doing something in such grand gesture she is always going to expect it. Which you are setting yourself up for failure. Well that is about civilian dating/relationships. Maybe on the fifth and sixth date if you both have not ghosted each other already.

This is about the hobby. Well if one has the funds to pull something like this off more power to you. Yet wouldn’t want to pull something like this on the first time you meet an SP either. Most definitely on the second encounter if you enjoyed her company on the first. Such grand “dates” with an SP may lift some of her restrictions (i.e. CBJ to swallow) compared to you just see her for just sex. I have personally never done anything over four hours with an SP but know people who did and they don’t regret it. This is also getting into quasi-relationship zone. This is something a hobbyist is searching for if that is what he is seeking. LeDodo’s ideas are much better than taking an SP to Vegas then blowing all her money at the blackjack table then asking you for that money that she lost lol. This has happened a few times. Once you thought she was a 10 quickly becomes a -10 with security and police involved lol.

Well in retrospect this hobby fits and will satisfy what you are looking for. There is no right and wrong. If you have the resources and want to pull this off? Your money. your time. Your happiness.

 

[curly]

Not a good idea to do what LeDodo suggests on a first date with a civie girl. Doing something in such grand gesture she is always going to expect it. Which you are setting yourself up for failure. Well that is about civilian dating/relationships. Maybe on the fifth and sixth date if you both have not ghosted each other already.

This is about the hobby. Well if one has the funds to pull something like this off more power to you. Yet wouldn’t want to pull something like this on the first time you meet an SP either. Most definitely on the second encounter if you enjoyed her company on the first. Such grand “dates” with an SP may lift some of her restrictions (i.e. CBJ to swallow) compared to you just see her for just sex. I have personally never done anything over four hours with an SP but know people who did and they don’t regret it. This is also getting into quasi-relationship zone. This is something a hobbyist is searching for if that is what he is seeking. LeDodo’s ideas are much better than taking an SP to Vegas then blowing all her money at the blackjack table then asking you for that money that she lost lol. This has happened a few times. Once you thought she was a 10 quickly becomes a -10 with security and police involved lol.

Well in retrospect this hobby fits and will satisfy what you are looking for. There is no right and wrong. If you have the resources and want to pull this off? Your money. your time. Your happiness.

On course start with coffee or drinks as something non threatening she can walk away from at any point if she finds you really creepy. (and don't make her wanna...). Just be sociale to start with.

But I disagree about setting the bar too high if you want to have success. Thinking you'll have to do it every time is really lazy... of course you will! Be a man and lead! It will be fun for both of you, and if you make her feel emotions, you'll be rewarded. You have good ideas @LeDodo. Be ambitious!

Girls in this forum, if you think I'm not out to lunch, help me here...

 

[Rebaynia]

On course start with coffee or drinks as something non threatening she can walk away from at any point if she finds you really creepy. (and don't make her wanna...). Just be sociale to start with.

But I disagree about setting the bar too high if you want to have success. Thinking you'll have to do it every time is really lazy... of course you will! Be a man and lead! It will be fun for both of you, and if you make her feel emotions, you'll be rewarded. You have good ideas @LeDodo. Be ambitious!

Girls in this forum, if you think I'm not out to lunch, help me here...

It is about doing something you want to do yourself, and having someone else along for the expierience.

Even a civi date shouldn't be based on just trying to impress someone else, but going out to do something you would like to do and that they would enjoy too.

Rather then going to a show you heard about alone, why not take company who will enjoy it with you. It is what I would think dates are.

 

[Rebaynia]

Comes back to my comment
Of course an SP would love this. She is being paid NOT to fuck

That expresses the grand total of what you think of the ladies you see.

We are human beings, not emotionless sex dolls that just jump from 1 bed to another. There are some who provide more than just a release. But if that is all you treat them as, you will never know just how amazing the person is you just met.

Few have an actual menu to specify price per service, most of us charge for time spent with us, reguardless of if we f*ck or not. Some haveing a social rate which is directly a no f*ck price, until they reach the bedroom where a higher price takes effect.

I've had 1 gentleman who just liked having the company of a woman he respected/appreciated while he went threw his divorce. There was no sex, and our visits were akin to date night at home, several hours at a time.

When I offer domination, that can cost more as it is an extra, for my time, and many of those don't result in sex either.

I get paid extra, to strap someone down on a bed and hurt him for 1+ hrs. And not even have to get naked. And your after this guy about taking her out on a date?

 

[EastWind]

I will be the first to admit this forum isn't the right place to talk about dinner dates

Totally agree on this one.

 

[Rebaynia]

@LeDodo I'm hopeing you have another amazing date to report to get your beautiful thread back on track.

 

[Flyingby]

That expresses the grand total of what you think of the ladies you see.

We are human beings, not emotionless sex dolls that just jump from 1 bed to another. There are some who provide more than just a release. But if that is all you treat them as, you will never know just how amazing the person is you just met.

Few have an actual menu to specify price per service, most of us charge for time spent with us, reguardless of if we f*ck or not. Some haveing a social rate which is directly a no f*ck price, until they reach the bedroom where a higher price takes effect.

I've had 1 gentleman who just liked having the company of a woman he respected/appreciated while he went threw his divorce. There was no sex, and our visits were akin to date night at home, several hours at a time.

When I offer domination, that can cost more as it is an extra, for my time, and many of those don't result in sex either.

I get paid extra, to strap someone down on a bed and hurt him for 1+ hrs. And not even have to get naked. And your after this guy about taking her out on a date?

Nope
Nuh-hu
Not gonna argue with you

Nowhere did I say i see sp only as sex dolls and not human beings
Having a date with an sp is a beautifull moment. I have brought sushi to an sp. i have had sp bring me sushi. Their time was paid while I consumed it.
What I am saying is which girl would not like being paid to do other NON sexual activities. Of course any lady would like it.

Domination is a sexual activity.

This whole post from @LeDodo screams: I have fallen in love with my sp

 

[LeDodo]

@LeDodo I'm hopeing you have another amazing date to report to get your beautiful thread back on track.

Honestly I am not sure

I have the feeling that it is kind of steering of feeling of resentment and almost jealousy.

I am not here to brag or anything but I do enjoy sharing wonderful experiences. To the topic of the reviews I do not enjoy much doing it because of it being to visual. Hence my preference for "experience" sharing. I believe that in this forum lot of members read and do not participate in whatever section of it.

On one experience (The William Gray one) I don't understand why the topic of money is brought to the table and insist that it is not for everyone. In transparency I know how much it costs because I paid for it. But I am not here to show you the bill and this will be inappropriate. However I insist that this kind of dinner date (social+intimacy) is completely achievable. It's just maybe it will cost you to save on some dates to get that.

Again I didn't partake in these experiences to brag. As @EastWind mentions it's not something to do at the first date. I did it after many dates and for someone I truly appreciate and deserves such treatment. Having said that I also enjoy pure intimacy moments. The companionship provided here has quite a lattitude and this is what I was looking for when proposing it.

This is about the hobby. Well if one has the funds to pull something like this off more power to you. Yet wouldn’t want to pull something like this on the first time you meet an SP either. Most definitely on the second encounter if you enjoyed her company on the first. Such grand “dates” with an SP may lift some of her restrictions (i.e. CBJ to swallow) compared to you just see her for just sex. I have personally never done anything over four hours with an SP but know people who did and they don’t regret it. This is also getting into quasi-relationship zone. This is something a hobbyist is searching for if that is what he is seeking. LeDodo’s ideas are much better than taking an SP to Vegas then blowing all her money at the blackjack table then asking you for that money that she lost lol. This has happened a few times. Once you thought she was a 10 quickly becomes a -10 with security and police involved lol.

Well in retrospect this hobby fits and will satisfy what you are looking for. There is no right and wrong. If you have the resources and want to pull this off? Your money. your time. Your happiness.

To the point regarding the paid no sex it's a wild assumption especially not know what happened at that time.

The goal of the activity and visit, isn't just the 1 SOG. It's the beautiful wonder and expierience of sharing it with another person who will appreciate it.

The fact that you want to reduce an entire fulfilling expierience, into a grand total price and 1 SOG, is the very reason you won't accept either the number, or the value that the whole expierience provided for that value beyond the SOG.

This! That's why I like your mindset and you said it beautifully!
The industry is rich enough to provide a wide variety of services. And I don't think that anyone is entitled to say what is right or wrong. And even less that someone has so less review and in this case we are going to the territory of shilling accusations.
The industry is rich in terms of budget, services provided, kinks, number of participants, etc.

And I repeat: there is no good or wrong experience!
Those who shame what others do, or can financially achieve (as they like to focus on money), or like because it's different from what they do should just focus on themselves and the activity they partake