Ask us anything part 3
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In downtown, hotel monville (7h) and the DoubleTree Hilton (8h).
More than a siesta time!
Hotels by far.. motels can be really far from central areas and honestly I feel like they are less discreet. I had a regular client last week that I saw at a motel near Sauve Metro and I didn't mind it because it was accessible and he always rented the biggest rooms with hot tubs. But it's obvious to everyone there what we're here for. I always saw him during the day which made it easier.. but if in the evening a ton of ppl see me being greeted by a 80 year old man in a motel hallway they know what's up.
Motels have their charm.. I did a birthday party in this motel in Longueuil that has really 80s decor and a heart shaped hot tub. It was fun.. but I often notice there's more police around them and overall chaos. Once I went to a motel very far with a duo partner and the guy ghosted us. As soon as we arrived all these cop cars showed up. This was in 2022 when I first began escorting and my friend was also new. We were terrified and ran off. I've also heard of people seeing clients and hearing ppl scream in other rooms at these types of motels ...
I like hotels because they are comfortable, no cigarette smell, usually very easy to reach as well..
This.. I've seen clients at Monville many times. It's accessible and even if the rooms are small it's classy and elegant and close to restaurants etc
Hotel. I worked too hard for too long to stay at the same cheap roadside spots I did in my 20s to save money. Everyone is more comfortable and safe and I feel it takes a little bit of edge off a session from both parties to stay somewhere nice.
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I don’t accept to visit motels anymore. They make me uncomfortable
I would still accept them under certain circumstances, but I understand why. I rarely get these requests anyways.
Yeah motel ideal near métro sauvé is chill and accessible. I also like that they have hot tubs in a lot of the rooms and mirrors lol but I've only been during the day
Yeah, me too. I don't go to Chabrol / Chablis either. The vibe is not reassuring.
Not a fan of those either. They are also very out of the way. I unfortunately accepted to have an overnight once at one of those and it was a terrible experience..
I tend to not visit those either for my safety and comfort. I’ve had bad experiences
I've had good experiences in airbnb's but I can see how it could go wrong.. I also wouldn't stay in one if I was touring and hosting
Would like to know from an SP point of view, on a first time meeting, what is the best etiquette or conversation topics to have, and suggestions of how a client should be out going and/or direct in his communication style?
Also, as an SP, do you feel encounters are better the first time or with a regular type of client meeting monthly, ie is there an advantage of being a regular client.
Also, as an SP, do you feel encounters are better the first time or with a regular type of client meeting monthly, ie is there an advantage of being a regular client.
I'd say the type of thing we don't usually want to hear is gossip against other providers, comparisons, mention of previous reviews and questions about the industry..
As a SP I often prefer seeing clients I've met before, the advantage is the connection and things feel more natural.. however it depends. Sometimes I'm really excited about meeting certain new clients. Also it's not because someone is my regular client that he's one of my favorites..
Be yourself! Cliché, I know.Thank you for the don'ts, would appreciate to also hear of the do's too
You talk about the same subject as on a first date. Maybe not "where do you live", but passions, restaurants, activities, projects, school, etc. Remember that you will not be the only one doing the conversation, so the other person will talk too, so no worries and let it flow!
Though, I am not sure what you mean when you say "suggestions of how a client should be out going and/or direct in his communication style?" ?
I think we appreciate if you talk about your interests, tell us a bit about yourself.. ask her about her taste in music, film, etc. just be yourself and act as if you were on a date but without asking questions that are too personal.. personally I like it when clients allow themselves to be outgoing, it shows they're in a good mood and have a positive attitude. But some people are shy and that's fine tooThank you for the don'ts, would appreciate to also hear of the do's too
i know you didn't ask clients, so maybe out of line, but i'm a "repeat" kind of guy so 1st date are often not as good as the following ones. So for me there's clearly an advantage in being a "regular", for that and for several other reasons.
Yeah I find that sessions tend to improve over time with many clients. I think most of us try to keep our clients.. but I often know at this point who will repeat and who won't.
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