Ask us anything part 3

[Rebaynia]

Hey since it’s “ask us anything” I have some questions
Do girls like it when a man eats your ass? Does it turn you on or do you find it weird? What’s your favourite position when getting eaten out? From all fours and the man eats you from the back or laying on your back with your legs up in the air while he eats your pussy and ass from the front?

I enjoy the company of men who want me to enjoy our time together as much as them. (In some cases more than them, as some enjoy more giving than recieving.) Yes DATY/DATO also feels good for me. But not everyone likes it, so it helps to ask. As for position, I don't much care, so long as I can help get sensations along with self pleasure while they do what they are doing too, to get me to climax. Just 1 targeted location of pleasure goes numb rather than expierience pleasure in my hyperfocus. So it takes overwhelming my sensory cortex to get to climax.

Do you find it exciting/kinky doing it with married men? Does it get you more excited, indifferent or does it turn you off?

I definately like kinky, but I don't think it kinky to be with a married man, just because he is married. I feel bad for their partner, and have often expressed couple goals, or ways to help mend their relationship, to reconnect with their wife after the service. Especially for those who express guilt after their release.
Yes I still do my service, I am in a relationship myself. He enjoys sharing, so there are ways to be kinky in it. But I don't call it kink when the partner is unaware. It is only kink if the partner is aware and it excites them, otherwise I feel bad that someone is non-consentually part of the equation because of cheating. Non-consent is not kink it is just wronging/hurting someone who is unaware.

What is the your favourite way to orgasm? By penetration, by getting your pussy eaten and coming on his mouth or by hand stimulation?

Thanks in advance

It is different for everyone. For me it needs be an overwhelming of many senses for myself. If he is just focused on 1 location I will not get there. Clitoral stimulation is a must for me, it is like the enhancer for anything/everthing else to feel better, otherwise the body just doesn't respond the same. It is the catalyst, but alone isn't enough either.

Men who prevent me from lending a helping hand because of their ego, also will not reach the goal of my orgasm. Their ego doesn't see it as helping to achieve their goal, but they wont get me there entirely on their own. In that case it means he will enjoy, but I won't, and am tolerating the situation until the time is done. Fine if that is what he wants, but when they get frusterated I won't orgasm they don't want to take accountability, they prevented me from making it something I can get into and enjoy too.

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Also we are all different, not every SP is looking for the same. There are some who's goal and pleasure is soly in giving the service to their clients, his pleasure is the only one that really matters. There are also some who prefer their clients don't try to get them to climax, but that the client just enjoy the expierience they are presented with while being serviced. Most SPs are not looking for their pleasures to be satisfied by their clients.

Its all about finding someone compatible with you and what you are looking for.

 

[Skym]

To the SP,
What are some of the weirder requests you've ever been asked?

 

[ChloeCoeur]

To the SP,
What are some of the weirder requests you've ever been asked?

I've been asked to lock a client in a trunk and leave him

 

[ChloeCoeur]

Do girls like it when a man eats your ass? Does it turn you on or do you find it weird? What’s your favourite position when getting eaten out? From all fours and the man eats you from the back or laying on your back with your legs up in the air while he eats your pussy and ass from the front?

I'm sort of neutral on DATO I'd say, depending on the circumstances I like it...but I feel like it's closer to being tickled than anything else haha.
I love being eaten out while lying down, fully receiving.

Do you find it exciting/kinky doing it with married men? Does it get you more excited, indifferent or does it turn you off?

Similar to @Rebaynia said.... I feel mostly indifferent, but if anything a bit curious and empathetic around the circumstances of the relationship and if there's specific intimacy hurdles. I'm not a therapist and try not to ask too many questions but when it comes up I've enjoyed chatting about it with clients. I've coached a few men on having better intimacy with their partners. (One had never explicitly asked his wife of 20+ years what gives her pleasure!!)

What is the your favourite way to orgasm? By penetration, by getting your pussy eaten and coming on his mouth or by hand stimulation?

I do love penetration. I think my favorite though is when I'm surprised by something I wouldn't have thought could make me orgasm. As I've gotten older, and especially since getting into this work, I've continually learned new ways of touch and interaction that turn me on. It makes me feel expansive and delighted.

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

I've been asked to lock a client in a trunk and leave him

Was his name Houdini?

 

[Syncopalepisode]

Do you notice when a gentleman is dressed well - or not? If so, what do you notice and how might that impact a session?
Apologies if this has already been asked! It’s something I’ve always wondered and created a separate thread for this in the lounge but figured I try here as well.
Thank you!

 

[ChloeCoeur]

Do you notice when a gentleman is dressed well - or not? If so, what do you notice and how might that impact a session?
Apologies if this has already been asked! It’s something I’ve always wondered and created a separate thread for this in the lounge but figured I try here as well.
Thank you!

I feel like maybe this is not the answer you were looking for but... I notice how a client is dressed and about 10000+ other things (tone, movement, expression, speech, etc). Not to speak for others but I'd say that's pretty common because our safety is on the line with every encounter. I'm not usually thinking about the client's dress consciously but it might factor into my understanding of them and what I think their tastes are before I get to know them.

 

[AnthonyAnderson]

Do you notice when a gentleman is dressed well - or not? If so, what do you notice and how might that impact a session?
Apologies if this has already been asked! It’s something I’ve always wondered and created a separate thread for this in the lounge but figured I try here as well.
Thank you!

I'll answer based on my experience as a client. When showing up to a session in my work clothes (business casual) I sometimes get compliments about my "nice clothes". I assume that SPs see their fair share of clients in jeans/t-shirts/hoodies/sweatpants that a simple dress shirt/khakis/dress shoes combo is enough to stand out.

 

[Enjoying life]

I feel like maybe this is not the answer you were looking for but... I notice how a client is dressed and about 10000+ other things (tone, movement, expression, speech, etc). Not to speak for others but I'd say that's pretty common because our safety is on the line with every encounter. I'm not usually thinking about the client's dress consciously but it might factor into my understanding of them and what I think their tastes are before I get to know them.

Under armour shirt and jeans!

 

[ChloeCoeur]

Under armour shirt and jeans!

is this an invitation to guess your tastes??

 

[Nachoy]

When did realized men were willing to pay you to have sex? How did it make you feel?

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Hey since it’s “ask us anything” I have some questions
Do girls like it when a man eats your ass? Does it turn you on or do you find it weird? What’s your favourite position when getting eaten out? From all fours and the man eats you from the back or laying on your back with your legs up in the air while he eats your pussy and ass from the front?

Do you find it exciting/kinky doing it with married men? Does it get you more excited, indifferent or does it turn you off?

What is the your favourite way to orgasm? By penetration, by getting your pussy eaten and coming on his mouth or by hand stimulation?

Thanks in advance

1- I do like it personally and I have good hygiene but not everyone does
2- Laying on my back
3- No, it doesn't get me excited personally.. most of my clients aren't married and I prefer it that way, but I would never judge a client for seeing me if he is and I will give him the same service
4- That's a secret!

When did realized men were willing to pay you to have sex? How did it make you feel?

That's not how it happened for me. I had friends who were sex workers and that's how I found out about the industry. What I will say tho is that I didn't feel confident at first that men would be willing to pay me for sex and companionship, but as I moved forward in the industry I realized that it was the case. As I worked on my self confidence I attracted more clients..

 

[Nachoy]

If you have a new client and he just wasn’t really into you after meeting for the first time and cannot get sexual excited after 5-10 mins of trying , and wants to leave
Do you give a partial refund ?
Do you keep the money and ask to come back when he’s in the mood ?
Tell him it is his loss not mine.
Or something else ?

 

[Lunaseraphim]

If you have a new client and he just wasn’t really into you after meeting for the first time and cannot get sexual excited after 5-10 mins of trying , and wants to leave
Do you give a partial refund ?
Do you keep the money and ask to come back when he’s in the mood ?
Tell him it is his loss not mine.
Or something else ?

I wonder what's your reason for asking this question.. it's never happened to me but I'll answer in DM's

 

[Julia Sky]

If you have a new client and he just wasn’t really into you after meeting for the first time and cannot get sexual excited after 5-10 mins of trying , and wants to leave
Do you give a partial refund ?
Do you keep the money and ask to come back when he’s in the mood ?
Tell him it is his loss not mine.
Or something else ?

It really depends on several factors, I don't have a "one answer fits all".

 

[S.S neo]

Have you seen an increase of demands to spit on that thang since the Hawk Tuah hype last year ?

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Have you seen an increase of demands to spit on that thang since the Hawk Tuah hype last year ?

no lol

 

[Fradi]

It really depends on several factors, I don't have a "one answer fits all".

I don’t see this happening with you lol.
You are far too skilled for any normal guy not to be in the mood after 10 minutes with you.

Besides that if you have stayed 10 minutes then you have basically accepted the date and unless she was not willing to do anything she is entitled to be payed.
Every bodies time is valuable including an SP.
Guys should do their homework before they book someone.

 

[Rebaynia]

If you have a new client and he just wasn’t really into you after meeting for the first time and cannot get sexual excited after 5-10 mins of trying , and wants to leave

Hasn't happened. I am face out. You know what you are getting before I even head over, and I try to have enough comunication to be sure we are compatible before even heading over.

What you are asking here sounds like the expierience of someone who is on coke, and that is their own doing. They can and will often try for many hours, and every time they go back for a line they prevent themselves from functioning for even longer.

Do you give a partial refund ?

No I wouldn't. It still took me gas and time to get there, and am pretty sure we will get along well before even arriving. I screen for people who want the expierience of another person, not just sexual acts.

Do you keep the money and ask to come back when he’s in the mood ?

I drive to them, and the goal is the visit goes well for both of us. When the mood shifts, you make the best of it, don't just give up. It's about having fun together, and feeling good (pleasure recieved) reguardless of the ability of the member to get hard. A flacid member can still expierience pleasure, even if it isn't responding in the desired way.

Tell him it is his loss not mine.

It is the gamble of meeting someone for the first time. We can't get along with everyone. It's an unrealistic expectation to think we will get along with everyone we meet in our lives.

Or something else ?

The visits I have walked away from, the decision was made before money ever changed hands. Once the transaction took place, it is generally a no refund situation after. We make the best out of the time we have together. (If he crosses boundaries it may lead to ending the session early, but there is still no refund if he is disrespecting boundaries.)

Often if there's no chemistry, it is felt long before meeting in person, while still in the messaging stage. It is why I can't imagine having a booker. I get to be sure the people I am meeting and I, get along before we ever meet face to face.

ED is a very real thing, and it is rarely the fault of the partner, often a personal mental or health issue.

 

[Nachoy]

I have a fantasy of SP coming over to my place of work and role play being a customer and then we have sex in the office. Of course the office is private and secure.
I that a reasonable out call scenario that most SP willing to do if they already know the client?