Do you tell anyone about your hobby ?
- Thread starter Ducon
- Start date
I did to 1 hobbyist friend. I never openly say it to others. But always make it a point to say I’m pro escort. A ton of people around me suspect it and won’t be surprised I do that activity but I never openly admit cause there’s litterally no reason why I would unless they do it too. What I learned is that many of those men that talk a lot badly about escorts deep down want to try it but many of them are too shy or scared to do it (believe it or not cause of bill c36). I’m not a fan of coke so you never hear me talk about it. there are a lot more clients and escorts than people like to admit way way more.
Never! I don't think society in general is ready. There are so many judgments, preconceived ideas and generalities towards escorts and hobbyists. But I always wonder who in my entourage is a client.
Never ever, and I don't see what the point would be in telling anyone.
Complete discretion. I've never been to client-Sp parties in case I meet someone I know. I never go to massage parlors, don't want to meet a receptionist, and dont go where there are several girls available to introduce myself.
My ideal date is to be locked in a hotel room; only the girl can see me. Even though I also do incalls, I always try to be discreet when approaching the building because once, when I texted the agency while I was on the street, I realized through their message that the booker could see me through the window where he was standing.
As Hob12 said, 'once it's out,' tell yourself that this will spread further than you can imagine.
Complete discretion. I've never been to client-Sp parties in case I meet someone I know. I never go to massage parlors, don't want to meet a receptionist, and dont go where there are several girls available to introduce myself.
My ideal date is to be locked in a hotel room; only the girl can see me. Even though I also do incalls, I always try to be discreet when approaching the building because once, when I texted the agency while I was on the street, I realized through their message that the booker could see me through the window where he was standing.
As Hob12 said, 'once it's out,' tell yourself that this will spread further than you can imagine.
It’s really funny though. If I had to guess I’d say 1 out of 3 men at least tried it once. It’s funny an sp told me 90% of girls in Montreal and Laval did escorting at least once in their life. I would say at least 2-5% did at least once in their lives. At least the ones below 40 of age. Those are my wild guesses could very well be wrong. Those numbers are what I think for one time visits or service. Now if you want to count long term hobbyists and SPs. Numbers would be much lower.
This is not a hobby and I hate that term for it.
I don't talk about it with normal people unless I know they already partake. I learned a while ago to not get too excited and bring it up with friends- it's still taboo and people will judge you and give you shit for it, or at the least you will make things awkward. People will not share your enthusiasm and over sexualizing normal conversations in general tends to be awkward.
I don't talk about it with normal people unless I know they already partake. I learned a while ago to not get too excited and bring it up with friends- it's still taboo and people will judge you and give you shit for it, or at the least you will make things awkward. People will not share your enthusiasm and over sexualizing normal conversations in general tends to be awkward.
That’s it there is no reason to tell many “normal” people about it. In the other hand I wouldn’t tell to a ton of people I ate a gf or a fuckfriend’s pussy. If it’s with a fellow hobbyist it makes sense. One time there was a Syrian guy at my job bragging about it also saying how he would make “porn” with his friend and competed who would fuck the most Thai SPs in a day. In my head I was like who the fuck is that moron. Me and other collegues (including some hobbyists or ex hobbyists) would even find that awkward. Some people are socially inept it’s not even funny
I only talk about the hobby with fellow hobbyists, no one else.
I don't talk about the hobby with civie friends
I don't talk about the hobby with civie friends
My late father often would ask me why i kept going to Mtl & what i did there. Finally one day i had enough of the questions & told him the truth. That one of the main reasons i travelled to Mtl so often was to bang escorts. I even told him that i was contemplating moving there & getting a job as a driver or booker for an escort agency once i retired.
He didn’t believe me.
He didn’t believe me.
there are 2 types of guys out there, those who partake in this hobby and those who dont
i have told 5 'civillians' about my hobbying over the last 20 years. I,ve ended up regretting it each time. My advice is only share with others of this community to be safe.
Do they make fun of you or they just bring it up all the time? If you don’t mind sharing
Frankly - even talking about ethical polyamory is taboo in normal society. Nevermind admitting that you would pay (or be paid) for it.
All of it is complete bollocks in my books and society needs to evolve. Two (or more) consenting adults agree to spend time with each other. Why does society have a problem with it?
The stigma feels like it belongs in the 20th century, not the 21st. I predict (and hope) we’ll be well rid of it in the next few decades.
W.
All of it is complete bollocks in my books and society needs to evolve. Two (or more) consenting adults agree to spend time with each other. Why does society have a problem with it?
The stigma feels like it belongs in the 20th century, not the 21st. I predict (and hope) we’ll be well rid of it in the next few decades.
W.
they are all very different people. For the most part they have been very discreet about it. There was an initial excitement in sharing this info with them, but after that there is no more reason to discuss it, and then they always have this <info> about you that hangs around.
Similar threads
