Ask us anything part 3
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It depends. Long time regular clients I have a good rapport with might get a playful reply. A new client who sexts me umprompted, though, is very likely to either be ignored or receive a reminder that this is a job and that I typically charge for sexting haha
From clients or not, I don't sext. I can talk specifics about sex, but I have never cared about making it sound tantalizing enough to jerk off to. I might do it on purpose to make it not jerkoff worthy. It is a waiste of time for me. I don't get off on written messages. And have no desire to get someone else off in messages. It's either in person or not at all.
I have decades of dodging sexting. And have boycotted and refused any kind of video chat app to avoid men trying to manipulate video chats either.
I reply back in the most matter of fact ways to their leading questions.
No. Either they book me, or get bored that I won't play along in a sexting manner.
Neither. I have no interest in playing alone. So I have no interest in spending time in a message to 1 person, encouraging someone else to, at my expense. Its in person or not at all.
They might like my stories, videos, pics, or things I have to say. I don't play into written fantasies. I deal in realities and tangible encounters. If you can't physically touch me, and get me off too, I have no investment in turning you on. It's just a bore to me at that point.
It isn't something I am willing to do, even to be paid for it. I just find it a waist of time and irritating. I won't even sext with Master. I'm just not designed that way.
I will respond to a few questions cause I'm bored. I usually tell clients to brush their teeth before coming, and there are cups for mouthwash in my incall bathroom. I have had clients who have really bad oral hygiene, and it's difficult to tell them. I don't want to hurt their feelings.. I'd rather just avoid the conversation altogether and give instructions like ''please shower upon arrival and rinse your mouth''
I wouldn't be mad, personally, I would probably find it amusing. But it's not the same as me using a vibrator. I also will ask someone before using one.. And I think in this situation the client should do that as well. Some ladies may not be comfortable with it.
I would prefer he brings something, personally, rather than ordering anything. Unless he's at a hotel and there is a possibility of ordering room service.. In that case it's much different. But at my incall, it's complicated to order, and deciding can take a while and make the client lose a lot of time.. I like it when a client asks me what food I want to eat as well. I notice how much you guys love commenting on how fat we're getting.. (see the Katriana Vianna thread, which left me furious because her body is amazing) Wouldn't want to receive such comments if I keep getting junk food
That is a weird question honestly. I decided to become an escort because I needed money. Before that, I was never really promiscuous.. Before being an escort I had not slept with that many guys. I don't want to have casual sex, and being an escort made me realize that often guys in the past had used me for sex, even in relationships. I'm not saying they should have compensated me, but I wish I had been treated better, and I wish they had been honest about what they wanted instead of pretending they had feelings for me and were truly interested in me.
I think that it would be delusional to think we aren't pressured to adopt GFE in terms of acronyms, it's the standard now. I don't mind kissing and personally I hate CBJ, but I often worry about my sexual health, particularly when it comes to DATY. (according to my nurse and a few sources, it's actually more risky and getting something in that area can have long term impact..) I do think GFE brings a different energy to bookings.. It's not necessarily the case, but in a lot of clients mind the ''girlfriend'' part is real. There is more tenderness and caring during session, as opposed to when I worked in massage parlors and I charged everything other than CBJ and penetration with a condom as extra. (Most of the other girls did and would be mean to us if they found out we didn't.. even offering daty as an extra was frowned upon)
Not often enough lately. In the past 6 months I only took 1 or 2 days off each week.. Sometimes I had a client or two every single day. I am going on vacation for a week in december, and another week in march. I think it will be good. It's healthy to take breaks. I don't go back ''because I feel like it'', I go back because it's my job and I need to make money. But sometimes when I've taken breaks in the past, usually a week or two, it took me a few days to get used to the idea of going back, particularly during the first 2 years because it was harder for me, I didn't have the same quality of clients I have now, and I was working from home which was very stressful.
My friends and family all know what I do.To both clients and SPs: Do you expect the STM strike to impact your hobbying or business in November?
You know, I think it's interesting how often people predict something will impact our business negatively.. For instance when the tarrifs got implemented we were all scared of losing a lot of clients, but in my case at least this did not happen. The STM strike had absolutely no impact how many bookings I got.. Maybe it's because I was in Halifax for a couple of days but I had clients every other day of the strike. I have 2 bookings tomorrow. However, I did have to spend a lot of money on Ubers, and that did lower my income a bit.
I charge for sexting. If a client I've never seen starts to get overtly sexual and suggestive with me, I probably won't see him because I learned that it was a red flag in my case. I don't want to receive sexts from established clients, either. A bit of flirting or cute messages are totally fine and can even be welcome with certain people.. But sexts are intrusive and annoying to me. They don't turn me on.
When I'm touring I definitely prefer incalls, it's convenient because I am staying in a hotel room and don't have to do much cleaning or preparation, and I don't have to go far. However when I'm in Montreal, I'd say I prefer outcall dates, even if I get a lot less inquiries for them. The reason is that not only is my incall in the same area as most hotels, I also have to get everything ready for the booking.. I have to clean before and after, change the sheets, take down the recycling and trash, do the laundry when I can.. I enjoy creating an atmosphere by lighting candles, using scented linen spray, putting music on, decorating a bit, etc. It's fun but it does take time and energy, and it's something that I'm not sure all clients really pay attention to.
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Hi,
I tried coming into Merb for the last hour and was always blocked by Cloudflare. I am not tech savvy but was Merb’s server on the fritz? Blocked by Merb? What is this? Finally got in. Just inquiring
I tried coming into Merb for the last hour and was always blocked by Cloudflare. I am not tech savvy but was Merb’s server on the fritz? Blocked by Merb? What is this? Finally got in. Just inquiring
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Cloudfare was down all morning, a lot of websites use the service.
Even X was down as well as chatgpt.
A lot of SP actually prefer women, are full blown lesbians or are bisexual. I don't actually think it matters as long as the provider is able to satisfy her clients. Of course if you're bisexual you can have other opportunities like duos and couple bookings but a lot of people in this industry are gay for pay. (Or straight for pay)
But there's another side to it. When I mention being bisexual or liking women to certain clients they are afraid I'm not attracted to men and I have to reassure them that I am.
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I was under the impression that a bisexual SP enjoyed more a duo lol
I play with men all the time. It's a special kind of fun when I get to play with a woman aswell.
I will admit I have made a husband or 2 jealous
not the wife at least, and with a couple often she's the one more likely to not want to repeat if she feels threatened. But the goal is everyone has fun, and him too. Often it is her first time for a 3some, and if she feels threatened or doesn't enjoy, he won't get to have more either. So it becomes a delicate juggling act, and I need him on board to make sure she enjoys, and wants more for his progressive future encounters.When the couple is more used to having 3somes, the balance is more level and open.
I haven't had the privledge to be booked for duos yet, but from my understanding the attention is more him, than everyone, understandably, but would still be a lot of fun.
Would you say that most of the women in sex work are bi than they are full lesbian or straight ?
I don’t directly ask but that is my impression
If they say in there profile, they don’t do couples or any females is that an indication the SP is straight?
Can't say... each person can only speak for themselves. For all you know there could be a lesbian who has a gf, who is ok with her partner being with guys, but not other women. (Just giving a possibility.)
There are some who are pay to be bi, like there are some pay to be gay. This isn't something that can be generalized.
I think there are many reasons why someone would not want to see couples other than being straight. I've had amazing experiences with couples, including a fantastic booking just 2 days ago, but some experiences weren't so nice. Sometimes men pressure their wives or girlfriends into having a threesome and I don't want to be part of that. I've had an experience before when a man kept commenting on how small I was compared to his wife "she used to be as thin as you and that's my preference" in her face and that was deeply uncomfortable. Things like this may be any some people won't see couples.. some SP also see it as more work.
I have no idea if more women in sex work are bi rather than lesbian or straight. Indy escorts are completely different from the workers you'll meet at a parlor or an agency. One of the reasons why I quit the parlor I was working at is because at the time I had a partner who is a woman and other girls were being really homophobic with me. Most indies I know personally are bi or what I would call "homoflexible" which means they are mostly attracted to women but they can still enjoy having sex with men.
Interestingly I would say most are good at it but it's subjective. I don't enjoy daty as much as some other women do even if it is a nice sensation. I prefer giving to both men and women rather than receiving
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