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[OHenry]

Why is society worse after covid and getting worse everyday? How do you find meaning in a world devoid of it?

Why is society worse after Covid; because Covid lockdown forced us to look at the insanity of being work /debt slave for the World Banking system the majority of our useful lives. And from then on , most are resentful still being beholden / chained to the rat race of Western life , devoid of true passion , fulfillment and purpose .
To find meaning; forest bathing, sunrise/sunsets. Learn social dancing, especially Kizomba, for the social connection. Skin to skin intimacy , not necessarily sex , and human connection seems to be an unfortunate need however, to be happy and fulfilled, for most men. NDE experiencers have said you don’t get a “ meat suit” unless you have a Life Plan, so find your passion , something you love doing and feed the Light. Meditation or Reflection time. Depression and emptiness feeds the Dark. Check out Eckart Tole , RJ Spina, Mathias de Stephano. A lot of us are paddling in the same boat…

 

[hob12]

Why is society worse after covid and getting worse everyday? How do you find meaning in a world devoid of it?

Deep thoughts

 

[Rebaynia]

Why is society worse after covid and getting worse everyday? How do you find meaning in a world devoid of it?

I think everyone going into debt, and inflation has added to everyones problems.. also why politics is becomeing a much more relevant topic at the moment.

As for how to find meaning in it.. I'm at a loss myself on that one. Part of my issues for availability is because I am emotionally fragile, and deal with battleing depression myself at times. I was burnt out before getting back into this line of work. Which makes me more likely to pass on potential clients.

Doesn't mean I bring that energy to visits though. Often on visits I can get a glimps of the person I used to be, it's kind of like a switch when it is time to be social, but while I'm on my own it can be hard to deal with or try to have the drive to get going to do what needs to be done.

 

[Nachoy]

Do SPs prefer overnight sessions in their own bed/room ?
If SP don’t like overnights. What’s the longest daytime session they can handle with a client ?

 

[Fradi]

Why is society worse after covid and getting worse everyday? How do you find meaning in a world devoid of it?

I don’t think it is worse.
How do you find meaning very easy if you have a loving family you spend time with your children and grandchildren, nothing beats being surrounded by your loved ones.
If you have a group of friends , you get together to play golf with have lunch with go on vacations life doesn’t have to be about survival and work only.
Too many people focus on politics what is wrong with the world etc.. instead of enjoying the simple things and their family.
I guess over time when you get older you realize what is really important to you and you blot out the rest.

Yes it also helps if you happen to know an absolutely gorgeous young lady and you can spend time with her occasionally.

 

[LC18]

Do SPs prefer overnight sessions in their own bed/room ?
If SP don’t like overnights. What’s the longest daytime session they can handle with a client ?

Do SPs prefer overnight sessions in their own bed/room ?
I don’t invite clients home so no. Could be my incall or hotel, I don’t really mind.

 

[Nachoy]

Do SPs prefer overnight sessions in their own bed/room ?
I don’t invite clients home so no. Could be my incall or hotel, I don’t really mind.

I wasn’t clear. If you participate in overnight at a clients place or hotel. Do you prefer own bed or room for the overnight ?
Really wanted to know much sleep or do not disturb time you need for overnights

 

[DouMan]

I wasn’t clear. If you participate in overnight at a clients place or hotel. Do you prefer own bed or room for the overnight ?
Really wanted to know much sleep or do not disturb time you need for overnights

I gather that you are referring to when doing overnight calls, whether it be at a hotel or clients home :

1- does your date prefer having a separate room or bed ?

2- how much "do not disturb time" is requested by your date ?

 

[Rebaynia]

Do SPs prefer overnight sessions in their own bed/room ?
If SP don’t like overnights. What’s the longest daytime session they can handle with a client ?

I'm outcall only... I have a family to protect from this lifestyle.
I don't really do overnight as i don't trust anyone enough to sleep next to, it is too vulnerable a situation to me. And i sleep at night. I don't work threwout the night time.
Depending on the company 4 hours seems to be my social limit. After that, unless there is food or more mentally stimulating activities, I start to get irritable needing a break from entertaining. I am neurodivergent, and being social can be quite draining.

 

[gaby]

Hey girls how do you celebrate HALLOWEEN???

 

[Biggie Smalls]

If inclined to bring a small gift, what is suggested? Food? Wristlet? Gift cards?

 

[gaby]

...or a good bottle of wine ou champagne???....lollll

 

[LC18]

I wasn’t clear. If you participate in overnight at a clients place or hotel. Do you prefer own bed or room for the overnight ?
Really wanted to know much sleep or do not disturb time you need for overnights

Sorry. Didn’t understand it the first time. Let’s try again!

Do you prefer own bed or room for the overnight ?
What’s the point of booking me for the night if we are not going to sleep in the same bed? Unless you’re a sleep kicker or you snore enough to cause a small earthquake, sleeping in the same bed is ok to me.

Really wanted to know much sleep or do not disturb time you need for overnights
We can sleep in the same bed but do not wake me up in the middle of the night for sex unless I specifically said you could.

 

[LC18]

If inclined to bring a small gift, what is suggested? Food? Wristlet? Gift cards?

If inclined to bring a small gift, what is suggested? Food? Wristlet? Gift cards?

I am going to quote myself:

I'd like to bring a gift. Is that ok?
Gifts are never mandatory but always appreciated. I recommend that you either find her wishlist or ask the person directly. You wouldn't want to bring a bottle of wine to someone who's been sober for months or chocolate covered almonds to someone who is deadly allergic so always ask before you bring anything. Twitter can be a good place to find out what a provider might be into or might like.

 

[Biggie Smalls]

If inclined to bring a small gift, what is suggested? Food? Wristlet? Gift cards?

I am going to quote myself:

Thank you, dear. Good advice.

 

[Nachoy]

1 Do you close your eyes during sex?
If not
Where do you like to focus your eyes on during sex ?
2. Do you prefer music prior and during sex.
if you do what’s typical playlist you like?

 

[LC18]

1 Do you close your eyes during sex?
If not
Where do you like to focus your eyes on during sex ?
2. Do you prefer music prior and during sex.
if you do what’s typical playlist you like?

Do you close your eyes during sex?
Sometimes.

If not, where do you like to focus your eyes on during sex ?
His eyes, his D.

Do you prefer music prior and during sex.
I always have music on.

if you do what’s typical playlist you like?
My playlist is relaxing instrumentals. Barely noticeable but it makes a difference when your date isn’t so talkative

 

[Nachoy]

What are your views about monogamy?
Can a SP ever become truly monogamous?

 

[Rebaynia]

What are your views about monogamy?
Can a SP ever become truly monogamous?

Yes. I was an escort at 18, and quit because I wanted love more than numbers. In my mind it was an either or, I didn't see it as something I could have both. I was the one who was faithful in my monogamous relationships while they were the ones who stepped outside the relationship. And felt hurt that me having my higher drive could be faithful, while needing to refrain myself for their lower drive, for them to still look outside the relationship.

My relationship now knows and understands who I was while single & in relationships, and wants me to embrace all sides of myself. Not keep myself locked up because of the side of myself I would shut down once I would get into a monogamous relationship. Caging my appetite. Knowing that for myself I need to have that box opened because I don't fit in it. Being with other people is actually something I have more issue with than him, but he knows after my last few relationships this is what I need for healing, and to regrow the wings that have been cut off by them.

Just because a girl was an escort doesn't mean she can't be monogamous. In some cases she may be the most dedicated to being faithful, with a better understanding of the difference between love and sex.

 

[Fradi]

I may be wrong but I would think most SP when they quit and decide to find love and a relationship want it to be monogamous.
I think they have probably had more than enough of seeing many men and want someone to love them and them alone.
Personally I don’t believe in cheating and believe that if you are in love with someone they and your family and how to provide a better life for them should be your main goal.
Cheating only leads to jealousy and mistrust and a relationship without trust is doomed.
For some an open relationship may work, for me it would not, I don’t believe in sharing the one I love nor do I believe in deceiving her.