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[LC18]

I will try to get other swer to join this thread. Please ask us all the questions related to this job you’ve always wanted. I and the swer that want to join will try to answer as honestly as possible.

You can find another version of this thread on terb with similar but also different questions.

 

[Ttimmons222]

I will try to get other swer to join this thread. Please ask us all the questions related to this job you’ve always wanted. I and the swer that want to join will try to answer as honestly as possible.

Other than the money what made you decide to be a SP?

 

[LC18]

Other than the money what made you decide to be a SP?

I like being my own boss.
I like being able to take days off whenever I want without being threatened to be fired.
I like older men.
And most importantly I like sex, a lot.

 

[Ttimmons222]

When you are seeing someone in your personal life do you ever disclose what you do ? I would think it would be easier to not have to state it outright.

 

[Obvio-0bvio]

I'm glad you asked. I've always wondered if service providers genuinely enjoy having sex with clients or if they fake orgasms. Is there mutual pleasure and satisfaction involved in these encounters?

 

[LC18]

When you are seeing someone in your personal life do you ever disclose what you do ? I would think it would be easier to not have to state it outright.

It depends on what I want from them. If I want a serious relationship then yes I will be fully honest. If I just want sex then no.

I don’t think I sleep with more people than my friends who are not swer and I use protection/get tested regularly.

 

[Don Julio]

Question. If a meeting involves dinner out and pleasure time do you prefer the dinner first or pleasure.

 

[xooxxo]

I don’t think I sleep with more people than my friends who are not swer and I use protection/get tested regularly.

You mean sleep with more people in you private life, right?

Or, I guess your friends have lots of sex..

 

[LC18]

I'm glad you asked. I've always wondered if service providers genuinely enjoy having sex with clients or if they fake orgasms. Is there mutual pleasure and satisfaction involved in these encounters?

It’s a very interesting question. I think money is what brings us together but there could be real attraction/chemistry. I did have some amazing experiences with clients.

If they hadn’t booked me, I don’t think I would have talked to them “in real life” so I’m glad this profession brought us together.

To answer your question more clearly, yes I genuinely enjoy sex with some of my clients and yes my orgasms are always real. I am not good at faking.

 

[LC18]

Question. If a meeting involves dinner out and pleasure time do you prefer the dinner first or pleasure.

In an ideal world, food would come after because I don’t perform as well when I’m full and I feel bloated. But I know most men like to dine first so I’ll oblige and I’ll eat less so that I can be a fun lover.

 

[Don Julio]

In an ideal world, food would come after because I don’t perform as well when I’m full and I feel bloated.

Agree

 

[Thor Jr]

I will try to get other swer to join this thread. Please ask us all the questions related to this job you’ve always wanted. I and the swer that want to join will try to answer as honestly as possible.

Have you or would you ever consider dating a client?

 

[blow20102010]

If a friend or a acquaintance want your services, would you accept ?

 

[Roe]

Oh good, a no stupid questions thread, because I def feel my question might be a bit stupid, but what's the ideal time frame to book and indy in advance? How far out do schedules start to fill up? I've heard booking something more than a month out might be considered a bit weird. I would figure the more notice the better but I'm brand new to all this so I don't know. :shrug:

 

[Mika xx]

Have you or would you ever consider dating a client?

It really depend! I have 2 friends who married their client and one of them is just gave birth to her second kid recently

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Oh good, a no stupid questions thread, because I def feel my question might be a bit stupid, but what's the ideal time frame to book and indy in advance? How far out do schedules start to fill up? I've heard booking something more than a month out might be considered a bit weird. I would figure the more notice the better but I'm brand new to all this so I don't know. :shrug:

It's not stupid!

It will be very different from one provider to another. It depends on their schedule and responsibilities outside of this world, if this is something they do part-time or full-time, etc. You'll have to ask to know.

I know my friend has known dates when she can meet clients, outside of these dates she's working her day job. She told me she likes it when clients prebook as soon as her dates are out. I presume it can be one or two months in advance!

Personally, I don't know why, but 90% of the time prebookings were made more than one month in advance, the client ended up cancelling. I stopped accepting those and now invite the client to write to me at a later time. Unless it's an extended rendez-vous such as a FMTY or a weekend, a few days to 2 weeks is ideal for me.

 

[Skym]

Do SPs get attracted to their clients?

 

[ciscok1d]

Are the demographics of clients changing? The typical profile of a client was generally older men, but with dating becoming more challenging and marriages declining, I would imagine more younger clients seeking SPs as well.

Anything you learned about yourself (or life, or men, or romance, sex, etc..) that you wouldn't have otherwise learned or realized before entering your profession?

 

[Mika xx]

Are the demographics of clients changing?

Yes!
i started in 2021. I thought it would be only 40+yo married guys but I’m surprised 1/3 are under 25yo. Maybe because of international students?

 

[Sylar]

Knowing what you know today, what would you have done differently when you first entered this industry? (Sorry, that this does sounds like a job interview question )