How do you manage clients that want to kiss but have bad breath ?
I will respond to a few questions cause I'm bored. I usually tell clients to brush their teeth before coming, and there are cups for mouthwash in my incall bathroom. I have had clients who have really bad oral hygiene, and it's difficult to tell them. I don't want to hurt their feelings.. I'd rather just avoid the conversation altogether and give instructions like ''please shower upon arrival and rinse your mouth''
Would you be mad if a client wore a butt plug to the date and only let you know when arriving? Without expecting kinky play at all of course
Do you consider it would be the same as you using a vibrator for example?
I wouldn't be mad, personally, I would probably find it amusing. But it's not the same as me using a vibrator. I also will ask someone before using one.. And I think in this situation the client should do that as well. Some ladies may not be comfortable with it.
In a two hour meeting, if a client would like to offer ordering something to eat - would you prefer they ask before the meeting, come with food (surprise pizza time!) and begin with that or offer after 1 hour?
I would prefer he brings something, personally, rather than ordering anything. Unless he's at a hotel and there is a possibility of ordering room service.. In that case it's much different. But at my incall, it's complicated to order, and deciding can take a while and make the client lose a lot of time.. I like it when a client asks me what food I want to eat as well. I notice how much you guys love commenting on how fat we're getting.. (see the Katriana Vianna thread, which left me furious because her body is amazing) Wouldn't want to receive such comments if I keep getting junk food
When was the moment you realized you wanted to be paid to have sex
And Did not desire to have sex with dudes for free anymore.
That is a weird question honestly. I decided to become an escort because I needed money. Before that, I was never really promiscuous.. Before being an escort I had not slept with that many guys. I don't want to have casual sex, and being an escort made me realize that often guys in the past had used me for sex, even in relationships. I'm not saying they should have compensated me, but I wish I had been treated better, and I wish they had been honest about what they wanted instead of pretending they had feelings for me and were truly interested in me.
Would you prefer that GFE did not exist and things had stayed the same (no kissing, BBBJ or DATY) ?
Also, I'm curious and maybe you can inform me. When did GFE appear in Montreal? Was it a gradual change or was it a sudden move?. Were SP's pressured to adopt GFE even if they didn't particularly care for it?
Thank you for taking the time to answer.
I think that it would be delusional to think we aren't pressured to adopt GFE in terms of acronyms, it's the standard now. I don't mind kissing and personally I hate CBJ, but I often worry about my sexual health, particularly when it comes to DATY. (according to my nurse and a few sources, it's actually more risky and getting something in that area can have long term impact..) I do think GFE brings a different energy to bookings.. It's not necessarily the case, but in a lot of clients mind the ''girlfriend'' part is real. There is more tenderness and caring during session, as opposed to when I worked in massage parlors and I charged everything other than CBJ and penetration with a condom as extra. (Most of the other girls did and would be mean to us if they found out we didn't.. even offering daty as an extra was frowned upon)
How often do you take a break from working as a SP?
When you do take a vacation from working how long do you take before you feel like going back?
Not often enough lately. In the past 6 months I only took 1 or 2 days off each week.. Sometimes I had a client or two every single day. I am going on vacation for a week in december, and another week in march. I think it will be good. It's healthy to take breaks. I don't go back ''because I feel like it'', I go back because it's my job and I need to make money. But sometimes when I've taken breaks in the past, usually a week or two, it took me a few days to get used to the idea of going back, particularly during the first 2 years because it was harder for me, I didn't have the same quality of clients I have now, and I was working from home which was very stressful.
SPs : Who do you tell that you are an SP? Other than the Revenue Canada? I know SPs that told their families and the their bank.
My friends and family all know what I do.To both clients and SPs: Do you expect the STM strike to impact your hobbying or business in November?
How do you expect the STM strike to affect your business?
You know, I think it's interesting how often people predict something will impact our business negatively.. For instance when the tarrifs got implemented we were all scared of losing a lot of clients, but in my case at least this did not happen. The STM strike had absolutely no impact how many bookings I got.. Maybe it's because I was in Halifax for a couple of days but I had clients every other day of the strike. I have 2 bookings tomorrow. However, I did have to spend a lot of money on Ubers, and that did lower my income a bit.
How do you manage sextexting from clients?
Do accept them and reply back ? Block them ? Ignore them. Is it okay to receive from new clients or prefer from established clients only ?
I charge for sexting. If a client I've never seen starts to get overtly sexual and suggestive with me, I probably won't see him because I learned that it was a red flag in my case. I don't want to receive sexts from established clients, either. A bit of flirting or cute messages are totally fine and can even be welcome with certain people.. But sexts are intrusive and annoying to me. They don't turn me on.
What is your ratio of incall to outcall visits?
Which do you prefer ? Why?
When I'm touring I definitely prefer incalls, it's convenient because I am staying in a hotel room and don't have to do much cleaning or preparation, and I don't have to go far. However when I'm in Montreal, I'd say I prefer outcall dates, even if I get a lot less inquiries for them. The reason is that not only is my incall in the same area as most hotels, I also have to get everything ready for the booking.. I have to clean before and after, change the sheets, take down the recycling and trash, do the laundry when I can.. I enjoy creating an atmosphere by lighting candles, using scented linen spray, putting music on, decorating a bit, etc. It's fun but it does take time and energy, and it's something that I'm not sure all clients really pay attention to.
