The words on the shirt you were wearing were the giveaway, which said, "I like cock".
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Did a SP ever say something that hurt your feelings?
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The words on the shirt you were wearing were the giveaway, which said, "I like cock".
It was the mid 2000s. I was wearing that shirt ironically. Same for the assless chaps and the leather vest.
It can be frustrated to be attacked on our appearance especially when it’s something that we’ve been struggling with for a long time. However, when someone does it, becoming bitter and mean isn’t the solution.
When they go low, we go high.
Maybe you can try that in the future.
When they go low, we go high.
Maybe you can try that in the future.
I was wrapping up a session with a well-known and regarded SP and as we were lying in each other's arms she asked me if I had ever gone with a man. I was taken aback and somewhat amused by the question.
I replied that is a very personal question to ask a man you are seeing for the first time, why are you asking me this?
She said it was because she went with a woman for the first time in her life the night before. I found this interesting, to say the least, and then she divulged to me that it was with another SP whom she named. I was astonished!
My lips are sealed as to whose name she mentioned and by the way I did not answer her question.
I replied that is a very personal question to ask a man you are seeing for the first time, why are you asking me this?
She said it was because she went with a woman for the first time in her life the night before. I found this interesting, to say the least, and then she divulged to me that it was with another SP whom she named. I was astonished!
My lips are sealed as to whose name she mentioned and by the way I did not answer her question.
Ive learned since-she was an indy, I was a rookie. Perfect storm, basically.
I know what Im doing now...hopefully she has improved her game too
So question... ??? Which is worse. An SP who says something to hurt your feelings, or an SP to walk out on you without even accepting any money from you.
I would hope someone who had this happen to them would understand their behavior is the likely cause.
But could see how someone might feel jaded from the expierience. It really does have it's own connotations.
I would hope someone who had this happen to them would understand their behavior is the likely cause.
But could see how someone might feel jaded from the expierience. It really does have it's own connotations.
A very similar situation happened to me when, I was having a post coitus chat with this SP, it was my first time seeing her. She said she had fantasized about experimenting some girl/girl action for a while but it never happened.
So she took matters in her own hands and decided to book a SP that she was very attracted to. Then she went on describing her experience, without going into crunchy details. Ok, I wasn’t hurt in my feelings but, I did find it peculiar because it was my first time with her and she knew that I knew the other girl.
Interestingly, it happened to us both. I wonder if this is some kind of small talk chatter with SPs. Lol! Maybe she was trying to get me interested in that scenario with her and another provider.
I know I have no interest in being with 2 SPs girl/girl in a threesome. I had a girlfriend when I was young that got me into a threesome with her and another girl and it was something I never desired again. I never desired it in the first place, it just happened. I also know that many men would give their left nut for that type of action, lol!
Yeah I had several trios in my real life and it’s definitely overrated. I always did it for the gf, would never book 2 SPs.
One time I asked an SP if I could visit the Greek island with her during a session and she turn around and said "Why don't you let me shove a dildo up your ass first and see how you like it."
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When you thought you were a good customer but end up being stood up repeatedly because she is not bothered to show up to appointments with you anymore... ouch.
If that's happening there most likely is a reason. It could have nothing to do with you, maybe she's going through something, not that it makes things acceptable..
Never really been insulted by an sp, but definitely degraded.
Always in relation to me finishing fast. Most providers wont even acknowledge that i finish quick but every now and then i get some comments.
I had a few providers ask if i was a virgin cause of my PE.
Some classics like “that was fast” or “you came already?” And it usually doesn't go further than that.
A memorable one was one provider telling me that she has some go to techniques to make guys cum if they last over a certain time so she doesnt get sore, and thanked me for not having to go to the trouble.
Another one which still embarrasses me, happened in a session while i was trying to prolong myself by staying still inside her without thrusting, the sp noticed i stopped moving and asked “oh did you cum already” and i replied “no but im close, im trying to delay a little” and she replied “ if you already this close after like 30 seconds, no amount of waiting is going to help you”. I was embarrassed but realized she was probably right so i started thrusting again and came a couple seconds later. She had a mischievous smile and let out a little giggle afterwards and asked if it’s been a while for me. I replied not really and that i usually finish fast. And she just kind of had this look of surprise on her face and said something along the lines of oh that must suck.
definitely left that session a bit embarrassed lol
Always in relation to me finishing fast. Most providers wont even acknowledge that i finish quick but every now and then i get some comments.
I had a few providers ask if i was a virgin cause of my PE.
Some classics like “that was fast” or “you came already?” And it usually doesn't go further than that.
A memorable one was one provider telling me that she has some go to techniques to make guys cum if they last over a certain time so she doesnt get sore, and thanked me for not having to go to the trouble.
Another one which still embarrasses me, happened in a session while i was trying to prolong myself by staying still inside her without thrusting, the sp noticed i stopped moving and asked “oh did you cum already” and i replied “no but im close, im trying to delay a little” and she replied “ if you already this close after like 30 seconds, no amount of waiting is going to help you”. I was embarrassed but realized she was probably right so i started thrusting again and came a couple seconds later. She had a mischievous smile and let out a little giggle afterwards and asked if it’s been a while for me. I replied not really and that i usually finish fast. And she just kind of had this look of surprise on her face and said something along the lines of oh that must suck.
definitely left that session a bit embarrassed lol
That's crazy, I'm sorry you experienced this.
Sorry budd, thats tough.
Have you tried edging? Its pretty effective at practicing you to hold it in.
Or take a shot of alcohol before you go? Not more than a shot or getting it hard will be the challenge.
and consider having the girl on top for most of the session and letting gravity do its think.
There are also condoms that reduce sensitivity, these are great but they do make sex a bit less enjoyable.
Weed also great to delay ejaculation but I dont recommend you start taking some just for that. People i know who do that dont want to have sex sober anymore which is another problem in itself.
I just want you to know that coming fast happens to most of us at any given point in time. A lot of it is mental and the more you think about it during sex, the faster it creeps up on you.
When it happened to me this year, I laughed and told the SP "If I didnt just give you 300$, I would feel way worse about this than I do."
There are actually therapists who specialize in helping people deal with this type of thing ... It's mentalSorry budd, thats tough.
Have you tried edging? Its pretty effective at practicing you to hold it in.
Or take a shot of alcohol before you go? Not more than a shot or getting it hard will be the challenge.
and consider having the girl on top for most of the session and letting gravity do its think.
There are also condoms that reduce sensitivity, these are great but they do make sex a bit less enjoyable.
Weed also great to delay ejaculation but I dont recommend you start taking some just for that. People i know who do that dont want to have sex sober anymore which is another problem in itself.
I just want you to know that coming fast happens to most of us at any given point in time. A lot of it is mental and the more you think about it during sex, the faster it creeps up on you.
When it happened to me this year, I laughed and told the SP "If I didnt just give you 300$, I would feel way worse about this than I do."
I was crazy enough to go see Moni Kream 2 years ago and she told me that I looked like a kid with a condescending tone , I know I look younger than my age but that comment mixed with the awful experience was really tough to process at that moment haha .
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