Ask us anything part 3
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They feel ashamed of their bodies ... It's the only reason
I hate bright harsh lights, I always ask for minimal lights I find it sexier and more intimate
I have heard it often because they don't feel comfortable being seen without cloths on. For insecurities that they might have and you may not realize she needs reassurance on you like anyways.
Personally I like the light on. I want to see who I am with, it's about the senses and sight is one of them. Also, why go threw the trouble of choosing who you want to see, to not see them. I like being seen, or I wouldn't be visible. But that's just me, not everyone's take on it.
my brain would make me think they don't want to look at my body.
That's usually not the case.. I also think some people think a dim lighting is romantic
I really hate bright lights shining in my eyes, but I'm also in a love/hate relationship with my body. Strangely, being an SP has improved how I see myself, and I'm less self-conscious, and more lights-on.
Nothing like natural feet smell from cute women
Can I be fairly confident in thinking that a popular Indy who is around 300/hr (similar to agency price) sees less clients/day than the average agency girl?
I know some of y'all are rolling your eyes at someone thinking about an SP's body count...but I like to think that I was less likely to have been the 2nd/3rd/4th client of the day for this one I used to see.
(I'd usually book a morning session and she was almost ALWAYS available at the time I requested)
I know some of y'all are rolling your eyes at someone thinking about an SP's body count...but I like to think that I was less likely to have been the 2nd/3rd/4th client of the day for this one I used to see.
(I'd usually book a morning session and she was almost ALWAYS available at the time I requested)
I'm trying to figure out a way to answer this question patiently lol. No, you can't be confident that you won't be the 2nd or 3rd client of the day because someone is an indy. There's no way to know how high someone's volume is. It's true that a lot of providers choose to be indy because they don't want a really high volume of clients, but that's not the case for everyone.. We also can't control when clients are going to book us.
Personally, I don't like seeing more than one or two clients in a day. But once in a while, I don't have clients for a couple of days and then I get 3 legit inquiries for the same date. I'm going to see those 3 clients because I can't always predict how many bookings I'm going to have in a week.
I just think it's weird to book an escort and want to be her first client of the day at all cost unless you have hygiene concerns.. indies are probably less likely to see several clients in a row and have plenty of time to wash properly, I know if I see more than one client in a day I try to make sure I have 1 hour to clean and recuperate between the sessions.. Other than that if you want to be her only client of the day, book her for several hours!
I think everyone has different volume and rates don’t always influence that.
I personally don’t find it enjoyable to see more than 2 people in a day or even more than 3-4 people a week to be honest
I think people naturally book longer dates at a certain rate because they probably have more disposable income to begin with
Could it be a Star Trek thing? "To boldly go where no man has gone before"?I'm trying to figure out a way to answer this question patiently lol. No, you can't be confident that you won't be the 2nd or 3rd client of the day because someone is an indy. There's no way to know how high someone's volume is. It's true that a lot of providers choose to be indy because they don't want a really high volume of clients, but that's not the case for everyone.. We also can't control when clients are going to book us.
Personally, I don't like seeing more than one or two clients in a day. But once in a while, I don't have clients for a couple of days and then I get 3 legit inquiries for the same date. I'm going to see those 3 clients because I can't always predict how many bookings I'm going to have in a week.
I just think it's weird to book an escort and want to be her first client of the day at all cost unless you have hygiene concerns.. indies are probably less likely to see several clients in a row and have plenty of time to wash properly, I know if I see more than one client in a day I try to make sure I have 1 hour to clean and recuperate between the sessions.. Other than that if you want to be her only client of the day, book her for several hours!
It's not about organizing the schedule, it's more that it can be unpredictable, particularly during the slow season, and we take what we can get.
I don't know how many reviews is A LOT. I have seen review threads that are like 15 pages or more.. To me when someone has that many reviews it just reveals that their client base is very active on Merb, and from what I've noticed, that type of client has certain booking habits.. they are looking for a specific type of experience, will usually pay agency rates or lower, or they book specials & look for discounts, they book hour long sessions or half hours, etc. Reviewing habits are different from a client base to another as well and you can tell in how the reviews are written. Some clients will write a review to encourage the SP and signal that they like her and what she has to offer, but some are doing it to ''participate in review culture'' which seems to be a bigger motivator.
I don't think it necessarily means she's high volume, but if I think about my personal experience.. since my last review I've seen many new clients who did not review and sometimes over a month will pass before I get a new comment on my review thread and that doesn't mean business was slow.
"Reviewing habits are different from a client base to another as well and you can tell in how the reviews are written. Some clients will write a review to encourage the SP and signal that they like her and what she has to offer, but some are doing it to ''participate in review culture'' which seems to be a bigger motivator."
Well said. This is what I was thinking but couldnt articulate well. Youre a good writer lol
I'm a writer literally
But yeah to sum it up.. if I wanted to be super high volume, I'd curate my branding (including rates) to appeal only or mostly to ''very active and typical Merb users'' because they are, whether we like it or not, a reliable client base..
By the way everything i'm saying is super neutral, there is no judgement behind it. We all make different choices for our business and personal well being and we all know what works at the end of the day
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