Yeah.. and you can't buy a girlfriend or exchange goods with somebody in exchange for dating them. Not everything can be purchased. Unless that person is in a dire financial situation and starving, which would create a power imbalance.
Even if I met somebody who was willing to bring me on expensive vacation and take me to restaurants and other luxury experiences, if I didn't have romantic feelings for them and/or didn't feel respected, I would decline the offer.
Being an escort hasn't made me more transactional in my relationships, but it made me understand my own value and what my time is worth. I don't have any energy to put into something that isn't genuine or that leaves me feeling drained.
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