That's good. I was just relaying a conversation I had. In no way it should be interpreted as a generalization.
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One conversation you had. Also I highly doubt somebody would book a SP in the age range of the women you see to pimp them.
Who said I book her? LOL It was one reason I was given, of course there could be others or none at all.
Everyone has different points of views here.
Oh sorry I misunderstood and thought you meant that it was a private conversation you had with somebody you booked. When I read private conversation I assumed it was in person.
But yeah. Everyone has different points of view. I just think sometimes some specific opinions are suspicious. I have no idea who this person is and what her lived experience says tho so I can't say anything.
That was the "pun" Cap'tain!
Don't go often, but when I do, with mustard of course. Would not want to stop production and get the dirty looks...
On another subject, I mostly stay away from the Lounge for many reasons now...
I totally understand you, but me, when I see a wasp nest that deserves a good kicking, I just cant resist, despite the potential negative conséquences! Lmao
What is the etiquette if a test does turn out positive? From I understand symptoms for may take a 1 week or two to show up, then booking a clinic appointment takes time, and then the antibiotic regimen is usually a week. So do you contact every single client in the last week or two to ask them to get tested? Would that not be a detrimental Scarlett letter for your business even if that would seem normal? Have clients ever contacted SPs asking them to get tested if they themselves have tested positive?
I believe there a various versions of prep including multi-month injections that are less side effects. Yeztugo (lenacapavir) is a 6 month shot and it's pretty benign.
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I know I take the shot. I can't tell you what the etiquette is. I have no idea. I've had a client accuse me of giving him a STI before and he was wrong, I wasn't the one who gave it to him.
A lot of STI have no symptoms and they have an incubation period. That's why it's everyone's responsibility to get tested on a regular basis if they engage in risky practices. (Daty and bbbj count)
testing is so so important, i get tested every month and i also take prep just in case, we never know what can happen like a broken condom. someone told me once "you must be not clean if you test that many times" and this is where i see that many adults are not properly informed about the spread of STI's.
It's crazy that someone told you that. Sometimes my civ friends have told me they got a STI just from a random hook up even if they were not that sexually active... Or even from their partner who cheated. It can happen to anyone. That's also why I wonder why some people here are bold enough to say there is "very little chance of getting a STI with daty/bbbj"..........
We all have different ideas of what risks to take, what constitutes "very little chance" etc. Having said that I will state that most STI studies would suggest that DATY/BBBJ have a lower transmission rate than sexual intercourse for MOST STD's. In the end, each person decides.
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some people don't even know that a cold sore on the lips can be spread to the genitals because it's herpes either way, i know people who learned this the hard way..
there are two types of hsv if i'm right
Thankfully I haven't had to deal with a positive STI test.
Other health issues, but not STI, like latex sensitivity.
I'm rather very low volume. So I would contact the visits I've had since my last test to let them know just to get tested.
We practice safe encounters so the likelihood is low, but not non-existent. I might hurt my reputation, but I would prefer to let them know, than to hide my tracks, and risk the spread to colleagues, or other clients. Or risk of reinfection because the source wasn't alerted to the potential problem they are spreading.
I would hope honesty, and willingness to set reputation aside for the safty of those I see would matter more to them in the end. I'm trusting them not to give me something, like they are trusting me not to give them anything. Trust doesn't mean lack of protection, it means trusting the appropriate protection is used with others aswell as our encounters to reduce possible risks.
I agree about honesty. But what I find difficult to accept around this subject is the reluctance clients have to stick to safe services. I've had people here get really mad at me and say "well it's up to you not to offer them!!".. I guess yeah.
But clients are not passive. Neither are employers of agencies. I wish it was the norm in this industry to only give safe services. I don't think anybody is interested in the possibility of getting an STI as it could put them out of business for a while.
I think it's important to own your decisions. I know getting an STI is a risk, and in my opinion clients should also know and not blame the SP. It's easy to assume "it's not her job, she probably has bad sexual hygiene outside of this" instead of admitting that yes in fact daty and bbbj are risky practices.
In 6 years hobbying I never caught anything and I guess I’m real happy about it. Get tested every couple of months. I’ve always asked what I would do if I end up getting a positive result. Since I see only a limited number of ladies I always thought I’d let them know I caught something. Not as a mesure of blaming anyone but as opennness I guess, and I think I would be expecting the same from the ladies I see. DATY and BBBJ are very enjoyable and as you say are risky activities, so I guess acepting to partake in these activities comes with the risk of catching something.
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This if for the big titted SP & MPs natural or enhanced.
I love seeing titties bounce in mish. Does it hurt when bouncing? Can you take a pounding up until a certain speed and force before it hurts? Does it hurt less when CG or doggie?
I love seeing titties bounce in mish. Does it hurt when bouncing? Can you take a pounding up until a certain speed and force before it hurts? Does it hurt less when CG or doggie?
I'm totally calling it mish from now on
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