Are SP's Hyper-Sexual?

[Jacobisrael]

A while back don’t know if you were around there was a very smart lady/SP who called herself naughtylady in this very forum.

Out of her and she stated, “Either you are on your knees sucking cock or kissing ass. I prefer doing so sucking cock.”

Okay I get it. In just one simple sentence I get it.

Heard something similar like 5 years ago. Very true many of the girls that talk bad about SPs litterally humilate themselves to get 1 or 2 dollar more an hour. Or even worse to pass a class in school. I say it’s better if people mind their business and live their lives
My 2 cents

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I'm not. I think it's a weird idea that SP are inherently more hyper sexual.. that doesn't mean we don't like the job if we aren't.

 

[TheJames101]

I can imagine that there's nothing like being an SP who works for an agency to get over the feeling of loving sex.

 

[kstanb]

more than hyper-sexual, I think it goes more about having the capacity to "get in the mood" in a short time, with less foreplay than a civilian

when the session is 1h , you simply can't say, "hey I need another drink"

 

[Lunaseraphim]

more than hyper-sexual, I think it goes more about having the capacity to "get in the mood" in a short time, with less foreplay than a civilian

when the session is 1h , you simply can't say, "hey I need another drink"

To me there's no difference from when I was a civilian in the sense that often when I had a boyfriend or when I was dating I felt like sex was often expected of me and not always in the most ideal situation. We have ways to prepare ourselves for bookings and ways to handle the situation in a graceful way and pleasant for everyone involved. I think it's a fantasy that all of us are extremely sex crazed. I think only a small percentage of escorts actually are doing this because they particularly love sex.

However, when you've been an escort for a while, you get less inhibited about sex and it becomes easier to get turned on in a short period of time, you get more comfortable with your sexuality and you get to know your body better. Civilian women often don't get that chance. So that makes sense..

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I'd also like to add that if you're an indy you don't necessarily have sex more often than civilian women, you just have sex with a lot more people and have to adapt yourself to every individual within your personal boundaries. I've known civilian women who had a phase of hooking up with someone new every day.. sometimes I just have 2 or 3 clients in one week.

Even if you work at an agency or a MP you could just have one shift per week.