Are sp's permitted to give out their # and does it happen a lot?
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I doubt they do it a lot, but I've had an SP give me her number. Another said anytytime I wanna go out and get some drinks, to let her know. I wouldn't read anything into it.
what about having sex with you outside her job?They are humans,and wonder if they meet a cute guy they might wanna hang with if they have no problem hooking up outside work.Call me crazy,but I'm sure it happens a lot more than you think.Wonder what the regulars on this forum think?I have seen a couple out of work,and quite frankly don't feel special.I'm a newbie,so I can be well off.
I just started this so called hobby,and might be nearing the end really soon.Have a tough time seperating pleasure and work.
I just started this so called hobby,and might be nearing the end really soon.Have a tough time seperating pleasure and work.
Money talks.
Hello Surferboy,
I have gotten numbers from a few ladies though I am neither great looking or rich. Sometimes a little chemistry is enough. If you hit it off and repeat with her it is likely she will feel comfortable enough eventually to give you her number. If she finds you really hot...all the more likely. But, money talks more than usual in this hobby, and when they realize they have a winner they will get very accommodating if they see they gravy train so near. Unfortunately, my finances don't measure up nearly as high as my zest for the ladies...damn.
Good luck,
Korbel
Hello Surferboy,
I have gotten numbers from a few ladies though I am neither great looking or rich. Sometimes a little chemistry is enough. If you hit it off and repeat with her it is likely she will feel comfortable enough eventually to give you her number. If she finds you really hot...all the more likely. But, money talks more than usual in this hobby, and when they realize they have a winner they will get very accommodating if they see they gravy train so near. Unfortunately, my finances don't measure up nearly as high as my zest for the ladies...damn.
Good luck,
Korbel
surferboy said:
I don't see a lot of different SPs but when I see non-independant (agency) SPs, a few of them gave me their phone numbers. I've only called one of these agency SP's at their personal phone number to arrange other SP dates when she became my preferred SP. With the other SPs that gave me their phone numbers, I didn't really have any intention of seeing them again so I never called them and threw their phone numbers away without giving it much thought. I've never asked any of these agency girls for their phone numbers. They gave it to me without me asking and for me it was less than 10% of the agency SPs that I've seen.
You must realize that it is against agency policy for most of the girls to give their private contact information to the customers in order for the customers to contact the girls directly as opposed to going through the agency. Most SP girls that I've seen via agencies follow this rule and I've never asked them for their phone numbers.
surferboy said:
I've never had an SP propose sex outside of her job although I'm sure that it happens. When I used to live in Toronto and came to Montreal on business, I did have 1 SP who offered to do things (non sexual) with me "off the clock" such as going out for dinner, movie, clubs, etc. I did not ask her. She just offered it after one of our sessions. For personal reasons, I didn't take her up on her offer but did see her again "on the clock" numerous times after she made that offer.
I've never been given a # in order to go around them using the agency in order to collect more $$$$.Contact info was given more to spend time and have sex outside work.I just wanna know if this goes on a lot.Obviously for me,I could never date an sp for obvious reasons,and to ask her to quit would be uncalled for.So basically comes down to spending time(chilling,restaurants,movies.....and of course sex) I guess I just want to know if I should feel good,and pursue spending time with these girls as they are nice,and cute.....or do they just offer this up to a lot of clients,in which I have no interest
On a more serious note,I don't want to end up developing feelings for a girl,and #1-she won't quit,and #2-she has these encounters with others........
I gotta be honest,I have a tougher time being fuk-friends with an sp than with girls I just know and have casual sex with.I almost want to treat the sp's better.I have no problem getting sex,and I love it to death.But I'm a lazy SOB.I have a few girls that I can always call,but since I've found this hobby,I actually am having more fun with the sp's.Even going out for coffee and shit with them.I guess since it's their job,I don't wanna push sex on them.Sorta like the chef who cooks all day,the last thing he wants to do outside of work is be in a kitchen......but they actually love sex,which is why they are in the business I guess
I gotta be honest,I have a tougher time being fuk-friends with an sp than with girls I just know and have casual sex with.I almost want to treat the sp's better.I have no problem getting sex,and I love it to death.But I'm a lazy SOB.I have a few girls that I can always call,but since I've found this hobby,I actually am having more fun with the sp's.Even going out for coffee and shit with them.I guess since it's their job,I don't wanna push sex on them.Sorta like the chef who cooks all day,the last thing he wants to do outside of work is be in a kitchen......but they actually love sex,which is why they are in the business I guess
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If a girl intends to go independentshe may give her number with the understanding that you don`t tell the agency.
The number would usually be for strictly business purposes.
As for freebies. Don`t expect them anymore that you expect freebies from a grocery store, car dealer or gas station.
As for getting involved? Forget it. A lousy idea for both of you.
The number would usually be for strictly business purposes.
As for freebies. Don`t expect them anymore that you expect freebies from a grocery store, car dealer or gas station.
As for getting involved? Forget it. A lousy idea for both of you.
Be careful
Hello all,
Yes, we all dream the ultimate fantasy beauty and lover might actually want to be ours. Absolutely impossible? NO! But, it is as likely as finding Osama Bin Laden celebrating Christmas with Madonna. Ohhhhh we all wish it but as one well-known owner once told me...no matter what, she just wants your money. Taking that gravy train for a ride...and "the wild life", as one SP told me, is so overwhelming. I am not saying all SPs are devious, but many men been had by these ladies when they would have sworn it was real. Maybe if she starts chasing you and being with you all of her free time for FREE it might be true. Geeeeez, I would so love to be with some of the SPs I have met. Then there is a great deal of baggage on both sides once fantasy slides into day to day reality. So enjoy...but be aware.
Good luck,
Korbel
hydragoat said:
Hello all,
Yes, we all dream the ultimate fantasy beauty and lover might actually want to be ours. Absolutely impossible? NO! But, it is as likely as finding Osama Bin Laden celebrating Christmas with Madonna. Ohhhhh we all wish it but as one well-known owner once told me...no matter what, she just wants your money. Taking that gravy train for a ride...and "the wild life", as one SP told me, is so overwhelming. I am not saying all SPs are devious, but many men been had by these ladies when they would have sworn it was real. Maybe if she starts chasing you and being with you all of her free time for FREE it might be true. Geeeeez, I would so love to be with some of the SPs I have met. Then there is a great deal of baggage on both sides once fantasy slides into day to day reality. So enjoy...but be aware.
Good luck,
Korbel
Korbel said:
This is what's been happening.I just have a tough time with the sp'ing.I can't be with a girl who works as an sp.That's just me.And it must be hard for that girl to give up good money for a relationship.Girl wants to spend the night,and be with me.Only problem is #1 I can't date an sp.And #2-I'm not sure if I'm one of many.That's why I started the thread.
I spent time with another sp a few months back,and she was very sweet,just no connection other than sexual.We had sex a handful of times,but haven't pursued anything more.I actually appreciate her very much.She met me,the sex was good,she wanted to have it outside of work......Whole thing worked out fine.She's a sweet girl
The problem is this.With any other sp I've ever seen off work,I've never had the connection as I do with this girl.Just a lot of strikes against me right off the bat.
Like if I'm going out with friends tonight,I have to picture her with other guys.......Wow,I must be nuts to even be contemplating a relationship
Like if I'm going out with friends tonight,I have to picture her with other guys.......Wow,I must be nuts to even be contemplating a relationship
Baggage
Hello Surferboy,
Yes, baggage is a crude but understood word to cover the sort of complications unique to being invloved with an SP beyond the hobby. There are many very tough angles to consider. And, even if the two parties agree to a relationship that suits both...there is always the knowledge of the past that can be put aside for a long time, but can remain a specter that always remains. No matter what the goals on either side, taking that phone number the first time can lead down a very, very hard road.
Good luck,
Korbel (I once had a girl...or should I say, she once had me)
surferboy said:The problem is this.With any other sp I've ever seen off work,I've never had the connection as I do with this girl.Just a lot of strikes against me right off the bat.
Like if I'm going out with friends tonight,I have to picture her with other guys.......Wow,I must be nuts to even be contemplating a relationship
Hello Surferboy,
Yes, baggage is a crude but understood word to cover the sort of complications unique to being invloved with an SP beyond the hobby. There are many very tough angles to consider. And, even if the two parties agree to a relationship that suits both...there is always the knowledge of the past that can be put aside for a long time, but can remain a specter that always remains. No matter what the goals on either side, taking that phone number the first time can lead down a very, very hard road.
Good luck,
Korbel (I once had a girl...or should I say, she once had me)
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thanks Korbel.
Bad thing is I met her while she was working.Kiss of death.It's a shame,because she's a young sweetheart.I hate to say it,but I can call a few sp's and get together with them and have fun,but dosen't interest me(one of the reasons I used an sp in the first place.Not interested in anything more than sexual right now.) Bad thing is,when you connect with someone,it's hard to just put feelings aside.
thanks Korbel.
Bad thing is I met her while she was working.Kiss of death.It's a shame,because she's a young sweetheart.I hate to say it,but I can call a few sp's and get together with them and have fun,but dosen't interest me(one of the reasons I used an sp in the first place.Not interested in anything more than sexual right now.) Bad thing is,when you connect with someone,it's hard to just put feelings aside.
surferboy said:The problem is this.With any other sp I've ever seen off work,I've never had the connection as I do with this girl.Just a lot of strikes against me right off the bat.
Like if I'm going out with friends tonight,I have to picture her with other guys.......Wow,I must be nuts to even be contemplating a relationship
Surferboy, the sheer volume of replies you have to your own thread about this seems to indicate you've lost your head somewhere. Find it, screw it back on, and take a dose of reality.
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