Only thing I can contribute to this conversation is end the relationship with your wife if you deemed your relationship a loveless one. You will only hurt your wife, and loose the respect of your kids, while going on a search for true love.
If you don't feel you could be a faithful man in a relationship, but want true love, then find yourself someone who is into polygamy. Otherwise your only doomed to hurt the one you do love.
And history tends to repeats itself. What happens when this girl stops being the new toy, and becomes the relationship? Will you then turn back to SPs? Lol.. though something tells me you might struggle to keep up so won't have anything left for an SP.
Don't confuse infatuation, lust, and a good time with love. True love is the person you desire life with more than just sex, and is built over time, not just a weekend. It is knowing the good, the bad, and the ugly, and still wanting to continue life with that person anyways.
Just because a marriage might be sexless, doesn't make it loveless. Love takes many forms over time.
If you don't feel you could be a faithful man in a relationship, but want true love, then find yourself someone who is into polygamy. Otherwise your only doomed to hurt the one you do love.
And history tends to repeats itself. What happens when this girl stops being the new toy, and becomes the relationship? Will you then turn back to SPs? Lol.. though something tells me you might struggle to keep up so won't have anything left for an SP.
Don't confuse infatuation, lust, and a good time with love. True love is the person you desire life with more than just sex, and is built over time, not just a weekend. It is knowing the good, the bad, and the ugly, and still wanting to continue life with that person anyways.
Just because a marriage might be sexless, doesn't make it loveless. Love takes many forms over time.