Ask us anything part 2

[Rebaynia]

Given that with modern medicine it is very well possible to completely prevent the spread of HIV by use of the appropriate prophylactics along with Prep, is it inappropriate to ask a provider if he/she is using Prep? Also, just out of curiosity, I see a lot of providers mention that they are vaccinated for COVID but no one seems to mention whether or not they take Prep. That seems like it would be a favorable thing to mention.

I think it is your choice to ask if a provider uses prep, but the only ones i would think to ask are the ones i would assume it is important for them to be... like the ones with the disease would want to ensure the provider is safe from them if anything happened.
Because no one really wants to handle medication side effects unless they have to, and not everyone can tolerate all medications. We get tested regularly and protect ourselves the best we can. But some measures are just too much to assume just because we see people we are protected every possible way.

Do you use it? just in case you might meet someone one day, and something happen that the meds are of use. And would you want to keep taking it if it makes you feel destabilized in some way from side effects?
It is safer to assume no one is taking it and treat all visits with safty in mind.

And medication coverage is often for treatment... anything preventative often comes out of our own pockets. Prep is too expensive for the off chance. And condoms are a much more affordable method of prevention... also adds to why asking for bb services is inappropriate as well.

 

[curly]

Aren't we due for a "ask us anything part 3" thread?

 

[Joe Thighsman]

I don't believe in this argument, that one wants to pay the rate that was agreed to at the time of the booking. Because what happens if the provider lowers their rates or offers a promotion by the time you see her? Will you still insist on paying the highest rate that was agreed upon booking, or you will want to take advantage of the promotion or the current lower rate? Guys wants to pay the lowest rate, not the rate that was ongoing when booking.

So my advice would be to always pay the highest rates to stay in her good graces, and you'll stand out that way.

I respectfully disagree. The fee should be at the agreed upon rate when the arrangements were made, be it higher or lower.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

I respectfully disagree. The fee should be at the agreed upon rate when the arrangements were made, be it higher or lower.

The rate advertised when booking is good etiquette, and advantages the client. What I'm saying is that strangely when the rate is lower, or when there's a promotion at the time of the appointment, suddenly "good etiquette" is not on the card anymore since it's disadvantageous to them, they want the lowest rates. My point was that it's not the "agreed rate upon booking" that they want, but the lowest.

 

[Joe Thighsman]

The rate advertised when booking is good etiquette, and advantages the client. What I'm saying is that strangely when the rate is lower, or when there's a promotion at the time of the appointment, suddenly "good etiquette" is not on the card anymore since it's disadvantageous to them, they want the lowest rates. My point was that it's not the "agreed rate upon booking" that they want, but the lowest.

Expecting the lower rate would be wrong as well.

 

[Nachoy]

Are you into dirty talk?
if so what kind of words turn you on?
And what kind of words that was meant to be a turn on …..turn you off ?

 

[CuriousGent]

The rate advertised when booking is good etiquette, and advantages the client. What I'm saying is that strangely when the rate is lower, or when there's a promotion at the time of the appointment, suddenly "good etiquette" is not on the card anymore since it's disadvantageous to them, they want the lowest rates. My point was that it's not the "agreed rate upon booking" that they want, but the lowest.

Let's look at it strictly from a business stand point. Baring unforeseen circumstances I am assuming a SP knows when she plans on increasing rates. Depending on how far out the date is I think the deposit should cover and protect from any price increase. If the price is lower at the time of the date then at the SP discretion to keep price or offer lower rate (might want to reward a loyal customer or try to encourage repeat business)

 

[Rebaynia]

Are you into dirty talk?
if so what kind of words turn you on?
And what kind of words that was meant to be a turn on …..turn you off ?

I like hearing dirty talk. But i am not good at it myself. Apparently it may happen, but i don't realize when it counts as dirty talk, and am pretty occuart.

What turns me on is reminders of my real life situation. I am not good with playing pretend, and when someone says something off to me, it is an uncontrolled reaction to correct which can kill a mood under the wrong circumstances.
So for me it is the reminder that they are enjoying my masters slave. And the words "my ... " is better used as "your master's ..." when someone uses my, i cant help but say "i am not yours, i am my masters." That or i love hearing how master is lucky to have me as his.

And what turns me off is someone insisting on anal dirty talk, as anal is not an option in my professional life, and it puts me on edge that they may try something I am not ok with. It snapps me out of the mood to try and enjoy myself and puts me in instant defensive mode ready to jump out of their grasp if they dare try what is coming out of their mouth.