In 6 years hobbying I never caught anything and I guess I’m real happy about it. Get tested every couple of months. I’ve always asked what I would do if I end up getting a positive result. Since I see only a limited number of ladies I always thought I’d let them know I caught something. Not as a mesure of blaming anyone but as opennness I guess, and I think I would be expecting the same from the ladies I see. DATY and BBBJ are very enjoyable and as you say are risky activities, so I guess acepting to partake in these activities comes with the risk of catching something.I agree about honesty. But what I find difficult to accept around this subject is the reluctance clients have to stick to safe services. I've had people here get really mad at me and say "well it's up to you not to offer them!!".. I guess yeah.
But clients are not passive. Neither are employers of agencies. I wish it was the norm in this industry to only give safe services. I don't think anybody is interested in the possibility of getting an STI as it could put them out of business for a while.
I think it's important to own your decisions. I know getting an STI is a risk, and in my opinion clients should also know and not blame the SP. It's easy to assume "it's not her job, she probably has bad sexual hygiene outside of this" instead of admitting that yes in fact daty and bbbj are risky practices.
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