Refering to johnarchy was just refering to some men who participated in SW in some forms, and look down on the kinds of men who call escorts. Like the man who pays for OF, and criticizes the guy who pays to have a girl arrive at his door instead. Both are paying a SP for self gratification. And I tend to think of SD/SB looking for some monogamous version of SW. They may look down on others doing the same thing but because it isn't just dedicated to 1 person we are all awful people. When really we are all just doing what works best for ourselves, and no one should feel entitled to pass judgement on anyone else. And we also need to forgive ourselves and not pass judgement on ourselves as well for doing something that we find a need. Connecting with someone of the opposite sex, and for some the same sex, is just a basic human need.
Ask us anything part 2
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Hi! First time here, I have lots of questions but I'll keep it simple.
I just booked my first ever experience with an agency, all the girls look gorgeous and I would like to be the most respectful possible wit her.
- What can I do to develop a fast chemistry?
- How can I approach and ask for something extra without being disrespectful (I'll never ask for lower rates or special favors)?
- How can I know what's included if the agency said is "FGE"?
- I'm afraid I'll finish in the first minutes for my first SP experience (not first time having sex).
Please indulge me if this questions were already asked before.
I just booked my first ever experience with an agency, all the girls look gorgeous and I would like to be the most respectful possible wit her.
- What can I do to develop a fast chemistry?
- How can I approach and ask for something extra without being disrespectful (I'll never ask for lower rates or special favors)?
- How can I know what's included if the agency said is "FGE"?
- I'm afraid I'll finish in the first minutes for my first SP experience (not first time having sex).
Please indulge me if this questions were already asked before.
You can't fake chemistry, otherwise dating would be so much easier. You either have it or you don't. It isn't a big deal.
If it's your first time, you might want to hold off on asking for extras. And that should have been discussed in the booking process.
did you mean GFE? It means girlfriend expierience, and it seems to stand for different things for different people. You'll only really know what it means to her when you are together.
It wouldn't be uncommon. You might want to just be sure with the lady how she handles the time if that happens.
Calm down. And relax. An SP is the same as any other girl. Treat her well and be respectful and you will likely be fine. Let her know your a bit nervous and unsure what to expect.
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Do you hate it when a client lasts for a long time and is fit enough to pump for most of the session?
I feel bad sometimes because I last a long time when I'm stressed out and I notice that some girls try to ''save'' themselves for their long day ahead and so I cut it short and don't book them again. Some girls don't seem to mind at all but some definitely seem to do. I only repeat with the ones I'm compatible with.
I feel bad sometimes because I last a long time when I'm stressed out and I notice that some girls try to ''save'' themselves for their long day ahead and so I cut it short and don't book them again. Some girls don't seem to mind at all but some definitely seem to do. I only repeat with the ones I'm compatible with.
I only mind when I know they’re doing it on purpose. You can usually tell when a man is about to cum, stops and then resume.
Some people naturally last longer and that’s ok. If I feel the need I will ask for a break to drink water.
That's surprising as stress usually has the opposite effect: premature ejaculation.
I'm not a provider (well, I am... I just don't get paid for it haha) but allow me to jump in just this time.
First of all, welcome to Merb and great first post, full of humility and appreciation for the invaluable source of information you just found
- What can I do to develop a fast chemistry? Smile a smile and good manners will take you a long way. And take your time with the introduction.
a smile and good manners will take you a long way. And take your time with the introduction.- How can I approach and ask for something extra? Ideally as early as possible (once you've settled and before the clothes come off) to get this out of the way. Ask politely if available.
- How can I know what's included if the agency says GFE? Double check with the agency as you are proceeding with the booking. You can always ask one more time to the provider, just before you ask if she offers any extra.
- I'm afraid I'll finish in the first minute. This is not a question. This is a fact enjoy that minute then. Recharge if you can, then ask for a second round if possible.
enjoy that minute then. Recharge if you can, then ask for a second round if possible.
Enjoy and let us know how it went?
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If the condom fell off right away after insertion, do you try to put the same condom back on or open a new wrapper ?
New one is always better
I'm trying to understand how that would happen? Are you talking about a real-life situation you experienced or you just thought about that? I'm just wondering because if a condom fell off right away, penetration might be done a bit too soon (or should not be done at all) and we should think about doing other fun things instead! Or it's simply not the right size, it's also why I always have at least two sizes on hand.
Situation happen because penetration too soon not because size of condom Lost my hardness after few strokes and she didn’t have a extra condom ready Rather than taking the time to search around condom. I wanted to continue foreplay just reapply the condom so I didn’t waste time and the firmness I already had.
That's not how this works. You don't reuse a condom. If it falls off, you need to get a new one!
What she said. Have you ever tried to put the same condom back on? It's a bitch to roll back to its original state lol anyway, just make sure you got spares... don't cheap out on protection
Say you see a lady in your hotel, you are sure she is a SW on her way to meet a client and you feel you would want to see her in the future. Is there any way to approach her to find out how to book her another time?
Pretty sure I know the answer to this but I'm hoping I'm wrong.
Pretty sure I know the answer to this but I'm hoping I'm wrong.
I wouldn't ask.
She might kick you in the balls and end up at the emergency!
Play safe! =)
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The only way to be sure she is an escort is because you recognize her from her advertising and you know who she is already! Otherwise, you can only assume.
I would not be happy to be approached like this, it would make me unsafe since I don't know who you are and what your real motives are. And if she's not an escort, that can be insulting.
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It's like my safe space.Oh Giselle... I love when you play this "Ask us anything" game... Oh la la... Mrrrrrrrrrrrr
Very delicate situation. If you do approach her, do it as if it was for a casual date. If she’s bold enough she’ll tell you that she’s an escort.
Like Giselle said, if she isn’t one and you treat her like one it could be insulting to some people.
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