I don't understand the SD, SB thing. I've had a few guys looking for a SB contact me and then say "I don't want you seeing other SD's." Like I'm advertising as an escort, what do they expect? That I am going to stop working and they will hand over thousands per month? Pay all my bills, get me out of debt, and help pay to raise my kids? While I have a bf. I don't get the mindset.
Especially when advertising as an escort, not advertising to even be a SB. And then being insulted when I say I can't dedicate myself to being their SB.
As for johnarchy, I have seen a few who seem disgusted with themselves that they reached a point of paying for sex, as if it makes them disgraceful to have stooped so low. Just because you never have had to before, doesn't mean there is something wrong with it.
Besides there are parts of the world where it seems to be common place to be with SP till you find the girl you intend to marry, to satisfy carnal needs instead of sleeping with everyone they date, and having them demand marriage because you got to bed them. (The mindset of sleep with the SP, and marry a virgin)