Ask us anything part 3

[jeffmathers]

They don't have to carry the money on them, just to have it with them in the room, in the safe or else, where we return together after dinner. Overnights are always outcall for me so extending is not hard to accommodate (if my schedule permits).

I just mean if they are asking for an overnight without advanced notice it seems weird that they'd have the money right there with them. It would be better for the client to say "For this dinner date I plan to bring an extra donation of $______. What is the level of flexibility on extending the dinner date to being an overnight?"

I imagine the only reason for having the extra cash was because they already had an interest in an overnight.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I have a few times and didn’t find it weird because we always start with dinner. This gives us time to warm up to each other.

A few times I’ve had dinner dates and the man wished I could have stayed the night…unfortunately I cannot accommodate last minute overnight requests

It makes sense if it starts with a dinner date for sure. This is just my personal preference but I feel like I need to have seen a client a couple times in order to accept a request like that. I know more experienced providers may feel differently.

I also wonder how many people just carry that much extra cash on them at a dinner date.

A lot of people request that an overnight starts with a dinner date or at least a meal. I made the mistake of not requesting that the first time and spent a whole evening and night in a tiny motel room without food.. It was my mistake because I didn't try to make sure I would be comfortable with the client in that setting, it was my first overnight. It was his first as well so I don't think he knew the etiquette..

 

[Giselle Montreal]

I just mean if they are asking for an overnight without advanced notice it seems weird that they'd have the money right there with them. It would be better for the client to say "For this dinner date I plan to bring an extra donation of $______. What is the level of flexibility on extending the dinner date to being an overnight?"

I imagine the only reason for having the extra cash was because they already had an interest in an overnight.

Lena talked about extending after or during the dinner date which is a spontaneous decision because the chemistry is so good, not something planned and shared with us. But we read a lot of clients here talking about their weekend or week in Montreal listing their line-up of 10 girls they planned to see; not that unusual that they would carry a lot of money.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Lena talked about extending after or during the dinner date which is a spontaneous decision because the chemistry is so good, not something planned and shared with us. But we read a lot of clients here talking about their weekend or week in Montreal listing their line-up of 10 girls they planned to see; not that unusual that they would carry a lot of money.

That's right. The same thing has happened to me during bookings, I've had clients ask me to extend a dinner date or long evening booking into an overnight, but I declined because I need things to be planned in advance. Some clients have a budget planned for occasions like this. Some of them book multiple providers in the same trip

 

[LC18]

I also wonder how many people just carry that much extra cash on them at a dinner date.

ATMs baby

 

[Giselle Montreal]

ATMs baby

That too, and Interac transfers for Canadians.

 

[philonius]

Lena talked about extending after or during the dinner date which is a spontaneous decision because the chemistry is so good, not something planned and shared with us.

One of only 2 overnights I've ever done was because of this. Started with a 2-hour session that was very hot and mutually enjoyable that kinda lingered as we were finishing up. IDK what it was but I felt like they were dragging themselves out the door so I just floated it as an option and they were all about it so we extended until the morning. It was so much fun and probably the most true-to-life GFE I've experienced, right down to them not knowing what they wanted to eat for dinner but shooting down all suggestions I gave lol.

 

[Rosie Sparkles]

To the SP, do you have a pet cat or dog?

If yes, what breed of cat or dog?

My dog is my child. True millennial.

 

[jeffmathers]

It makes sense if it starts with a dinner date for sure. This is just my personal preference but I feel like I need to have seen a client a couple times in order to accept a request like that. I know more experienced providers may feel differently.

A lot of people request that an overnight starts with a dinner date or at least a meal. I made the mistake of not requesting that the first time and spent a whole evening and night in a tiny motel room without food.. It was my mistake because I didn't try to make sure I would be comfortable with the client in that setting, it was my first overnight. It was his first as well so I don't think he knew the etiquette..

It sounds like some people spontaneously asked for an overnight though. I couldn't imagine asking someone for an overnight right then and there if I only booked a dinner date.

 

[jeffmathers]

Lena talked about extending after or during the dinner date which is a spontaneous decision because the chemistry is so good, not something planned and shared with us. But we read a lot of clients here talking about their weekend or week in Montreal listing their line-up of 10 girls they planned to see; not that unusual that they would carry a lot of money.

oh

 

[LeDodo]

It sounds like some people spontaneously asked for an overnight though. I couldn't imagine asking someone for an overnight right then and there if I only booked a dinner date.

Yeah when you have a sleepover you need to prepare your bag!

 

[LC18]

Yeah when you have a sleepover you need to prepare your bag!

Yes or you just have a walk of shame the next morning with your hair all over the place, last nights clothes and no panties

 

[jeffmathers]

Yes or you just have a walk of shame the next morning with your hair all over the place, last nights clothes and no panties

This is slightly irrelevant but I wish there was less shame for women. I was with a civilian woman I was dating in the downtown of an American city a few years ago and she asked me to buy condoms for us. We were waiting at an intersection on foot when she said "Put those away!" referring to the condom box I was open carrying. Two women looked at her and laughed. I felt bad for her but also I feel the two women shouldn't have laughed at her.

I'm not used to the concept of shame in that context and wish I'd known sooner that would be a bad item to open carry for her sake. Four years later I still feel bad..

 

[Mistertwice]

But if you DATY on a session does it automatically turns it into a dinner-date?

 

[MtlGuyNow]

I've paid in 50's and 100s, as well as in BTC. Would I do the latter with some new chick off LL, hell no. Only with the one girl I've repeat with so far. If I was seeing a girl and the cost is about $500 or less I wouldn't care to give a bunch of 20s. But for 900 or 1400 yeah bigger bills are just easier. I might get annoyed if a girl complains about how I'm paying if it ever happened.

Lost a bet with a competitor on Wall Street and when he finally paid up it was a 5 Gal cooler water bottle filled with Pennie’s.
You’re still an asshole Danny

 

[LC18]

This is slightly irrelevant but I wish there was less shame for women. I was with a civilian woman I was dating in the downtown of an American city a few years ago and she asked me to buy condoms for us. We were waiting at an intersection on foot when she said "Put those away!" referring to the condom box I was open carrying. Two women looked at her and laughed. I felt bad for her but also I feel the two women shouldn't have laughed at her.

I'm not used to the concept of shame in that context and wish I'd known sooner that would be a bad item to open carry for her sake. Four years later I still feel bad..

The United States in general are far more conservative. I’ve seen countless people walking from sex shops here or drug stores with various revealing items. I mean some strip clubs will have people on the streets giving flyers, no one cares here

 

[LeDodo]

The United States in general are far more conservative. I’ve seen countless people walking from sex shops here or drug stores with various revealing items. I mean some strip clubs will have people on the streets giving flyers, no one cares here

Funnily enough conservative for sexuality but no issues walking with guns in hands lol

 

[LC18]

Funnily enough conservative for sexuality but no issues walking with guns in hands lol

I think this is also coming from a place of conservatism. They’re very close to their constitution and its amendments hence why they don’t want to change anything

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I think this is also coming from a place of conservatism. They’re very close to their constitution and its amendments hence why they don’t want to change anything

For sure. It's also more conservative about women's sexuality in particular. It would make sense that a young woman would feel shy about carrying condoms visibly.

 

[Julia Sky]

It was his first as well so I don't think he knew the etiquette..

I think you're giving him too much credit here! First overnight or not, any decent human being knows that people need to eat. There's no world in which it's gentlemanly, or even ok and normal, to spend 8-16 hours with someone without so much as offering to eat at some point. This isn't escort etiquette it's just decency and common sense... Im sorry you experienced this