Ask us anything part 3

[S.S neo]

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I’m planning a new bathroom and looking at a shower column like that one. Anyone have experiences/comments about it? Are the massage jets worth it?

No. It’s all about the look. The jets will not shoot water as you expect in your dreams. It’s the first thing to break and also the water will smell like aluminium within a year or two. Lot of investment and you will re-do your shower within 3 years and install a normal shower head. Instead of going for a column, i suggest you install the extralarge overhead spa-type showerhead.

 

[bodick7]

No. It’s all about the look. The jets will not shoot water as you expect in your dreams. It’s the first thing to break and also the water will smell like aluminium within a year or two. Lot of investment and you will re-do your shower within 3 years and install a normal shower head. Instead of going for a column, i suggest you install the extralarge overhead spa-type showerhead.

I think you can get an advice for any plumbing problem on this forum. Ha!Ha!

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

I think you can get an advice for any plumbing problem on this forum. Ha!Ha!

Especialy regarding jets efficiency!

 

[LeDodo]

Especialy regarding jets efficiency!

The missing jet at waist height is a deal breaker

 

[mtlspacial]

The missing jet at waist height is a deal breaker

I wonder what you need it for.

 

[LeDodo]

I wonder what you need it for.

Waist reduction massage?

 

[Hmmm…]

With the increasing prevalence of cameras and improving AI tech and facial recognition, is there increasing concerns regarding the loss of privacy? This is loss of both the ability to maintain separation of work personas from home personas, but also increasing ability to maliciously broadcast people? I'm wondering this for both clients and providers.

I'm seeing so many TikTokers do the whole using meta glasses to approach people shtick. Sometimes it's for a magic trick. Sometimes it's for photography or to draw someone and to get their reaction after. Sometimes it's to go to a restaurant. Sometimes it to pickup women. On the more nefarious side, I think there was a channel that got banned where a guy would wear meta glasses and go into asian massage parlors and ask for services. There's even services that will hack your glasses so there is no light or signal to show others you are recording. Also, Google recently announced their are relaunching their own, and there are rumors that Meta has added smart features such as live translation and captioning, directions, AI visual responses, etc. So there will be more reason for normal, non nefarious people to want to wear them daily.

Wired recently unveiled hidden facial recognition code on meta glasses (https://www.wired.com/story/meta-smart-glasses-face-recognition-nametag-connections/) that detects contacts on your phone. But this shouldn't be surprising as two Harvard students in 2024 showed how easy it was (

) to pull home addresses from facial recognition. Now it maybe easy to spot people wearing these smart glasses, but as the report said, it can be done with any camera hidden or not hidden. It could be done with cell phone cameras that aren't physically covered like how some performance venues tape your phone.

On the other hand, there was this story from China where Uncle Red recorded 1600 client encounters (

). It was hilarious because she advertised as a woman, but was obviously a man in woman's clothing, but most men would still go through the appointment after they found out during the meeting. He also asked for gifts or very low value gifts like half a bottle of cooking oil. Of course the serious part he was selling these recordings without the client's consent. If a provider like him did this others could also use recordings or screening material to extort others leading to fewer people being willing to say screen. This would reduce the "trust" that is inherent in this work perhaps increasing the level of cautiousness and hostility both parties could have towards each other ultimately reducing safety, comfort and pleasure.

 

[Nachoy]

When you worked in agency or MP, how often did you have entire shifts when no one came in as a client to see you ?
What did you do during those 4-6 hour shift ?

 

[Skym]

To the SPs, do you like eating avocado toast and salads?

 

[ChloeCoeur]

To the SPs, do you like eating avocado toast and salads?

Yes...... .... ....

 

[Mekoia]

To SPs, is it rude to ask for feedback on my performance?

I’m bad at reading body language and non-direct communication and I want to get better for future partners. Not looking for a report card, just basic good/could be better, although a sexy principal busting my balls would be kind of fun.

 

[Michelle Gunn]

To SPs, is it rude to ask for feedback on my performance?

I’m bad at reading body language and non-direct communication and I want to get better for future partners. Not looking for a report card, just basic good/could be better, although a sexy principal busting my balls would be kind of fun.

I don't think it's rude, but maybe ask about specific skills/performance. Also, each SP will have their own likes and dislikes, so YMMV on both sides.

 

[x5fq]

is it rude to ask for feedback on my performance?

You're free to ask.

But remember : you're asking a paid performer to evaluate the performance you paid them to participate in

If they say you're incredible, is it because you are, or because happy customers return ?
If they say you need work, is it genuine advice, or a reason to keep coming back ?

So the problem isn't getting feedback. The problem is knowing whether the feedback is honest, strategic, or simply part of the service.

Because business transactions are terrible places to look for unbiased validation. In industries built on persuasion, the line between honesty and flattery can get blurry. Not everyone is a liar, of course, but some professions reward persuasion more than honesty.

 

[Nachoy]

You're free to ask.

But remember : you're asking a paid performer to evaluate the performance you paid them to participate in

If they say you're incredible, is it because you are, or because happy customers return ?
If they say you need work, is it genuine advice, or a reason to keep coming back ?

So the problem isn't getting feedback. The problem is knowing whether the feedback is honest, strategic, or simply part of the service.

Because business transactions are terrible places to look for unbiased validation. In industries built on persuasion, the line between honesty and flattery can get blurry. Not everyone is a liar, of course, but some professions reward persuasion more than honesty.

It’s like going to a high end restaurant and paying hundreds of dollars for a meal and drinks asking the staff to rate me as a customer

 

[mtlspacial]

It’s like going to a high end restaurant and paying hundreds of dollars for a meal and drinks asking the staff to rate me as a customer

I kinda agree with you there. I wouldn't do it with a provider I'm seeing for the first time. I suppose they would refrain from criticising someone they just met.

 

[LC18]

What’s gonna happen when I tell you that you suck in bed? Are you gonna come back?

I usually don’t answer when people ask those kind of questions

 

[johnryan]

How common is seeing small dicks in the industry? I'm a grower not a shower but before I can show I'm pretty small, makes me kinda embarrassed every time especially with HE as when the flip happens I'm lil shy

 

[Nachoy]

What’s gonna happen when I tell you that you suck in bed? Are you gonna come back?

I usually don’t answer when people ask those kind of questions

How about if the client has bad breath or BO despite showering/mouth rinse. Do you at least tell him that ?

 

[LC18]

How about if the client has bad breath or BO despite showering/mouth rinse. Do you at least tell him that ?

Yes, I ask them if they use the mouthwash in the bathroom. If they says yes, I loudly say OH??

I don’t want to be too mean but I hope it gets the message across

 

[Giselle Montreal]

How common is seeing small dicks in the industry? I'm a grower not a shower but before I can show I'm pretty small, makes me kinda embarrassed every time especially with HE as when the flip happens I'm lil shy

I see most often penis that are small or extra small before an erection. I don't often see a penis that is long and/or with a full shape before getting erected. You are normal.