Ask us anything part 3

[Rebaynia]

Would you give up escorting for a well paying sugar daddy?

No.
Because doing this job and with my masters knowledge and encouragement, is part of my own fantasies.

Being monogamous to a sugar daddy would be the same thing as just entering another relationship, like the lifestyle i have chosen to leave behind.

This isn't a lifestyle I wish to be saved from. It is the lifestyle I have chosen, with my partner to save me from living like others do.

It is also why i am so choosy about who i see. Because they become part of my fantasies, not just me part of theirs.

 

[Rebaynia]

When a sp asks for full name, do they expect you to give your real full legal name?
I get it when they just want a label but "full name" makes me think they want the real name.

When she asks for your full name, it is because they want your name for screening purposes. A fake name serves no purpose in that reguard.

Oh and how do you keep track of who you've seen in the past?

I never delete any of my messages. Those i haven't seen, remain numbers in my phone. Those i have seen are given nicknames i choose to give them as a reminder of how the visit went. (I am bad with names, and names meen nothing if you have a list of 40 Mohammed's, 8 David's, 10 Jason's, 20 Adam's and a long list of names you can't even pronounce.) So nicknames that refer to the time spent jog my memory instantly about if I enjoyed time with the person, and am I willing to return and see them again, as if I didn't enjoy my time with them, I refuse to return.

 

[AirBo]

I was going to use the word intimidating

I have been described with that word by SPs as their first impression

Those who met me know that I don't look intimidating by any means, but I enjoy being intimidating sexually. It's part of my dominant nature. I'm very comfortable with my body and sexuality, and that can become intimidating, but I'm hoping only in a good way, like "OK... this guy knows what he's doing, and I wonder what he has in store for me"

In short, AirBo all dressed up and AirBo having sex are 2 very different characters lol

 

[LC18]

But they still accept board handler or references which don't necessarily involve your real name.

Who is they? Many of my colleagues don’t use board handles to screen, if anything for them, you being on here would be a red flag.

Like I’ve mentioned in another thread, if you don’t like screenings it’s personal and no one will make you change your mind but just don’t bother the SPs asking for full name and info.

 

[LC18]

Would you give up escorting for a well paying sugar daddy?

He would have to be very wealthy for me not to be bored. If he can provide with dinner dates, trips and shopping spree that’s a good start but it can only get you so far. I think I would miss the excitement I get from flirting with men but I guess I could find excitement in being shown off (hopefully regularly).

Several men have asked what it would take to have me for themselves and they’re always shocked by the amount. Yes, it’s expensive to be me :/


TLDR: Unless he’s very wealthy no. I wouldn’t stop for love either, even less so.

 

[CuriousGent]

He would have to be very wealthy for me not to be bored. If he can provide with dinner dates, trips and shopping spree that’s a good start but it can only get you so far. I think I would miss the excitement I get from flirting with men but I guess I could find excitement in being shown off (hopefully regularly).

Several men have asked what it would take to have me for themselves and they’re always shocked by the amount. Yes, it’s expensive to be me :/


TLDR: Unless he’s very wealthy no. I wouldn’t stop for love either, even less so.

would you be in a relationship with a person who accepts the work you do? or is it just simpler to be single and not deal with potential relationship drama? Amongst your colleagues what percentage are in relationships?

 

[LC18]

would you be in a relationship with a person who accepts the work you do? or is it just simpler to be single and not deal with potential relationship drama? Amongst your colleagues what percentage are in relationships?

No I wouldn’t be in a relationship with someone that accepts my work.

I don’t know didn’t ask and I don’t interact with them on a deeper level.

 

[moogee]

Who is they? Many of my colleagues don’t use board handles to screen, if anything for them, you being on here would be a red flag.

Like I’ve mentioned in another thread, if you don’t like screenings it’s personal and no one will make you change your mind but just don’t bother the SPs asking for full name and info.

I didn't want to point to a specific person but here's an example:

Booking « Emma Alexandra Page

www.emmaalexandrapage.co

In my memory there are others and indeed I decided not to reach out to them because of this and Emma is the only one I still think about.

Why me being on here would be a red flag?

 

[LC18]

Why me being on here would be a red flag?

Because they don’t like merb users and the review culture.

 

[Rebaynia]

Are you willing to share some of the nicknames? (The funny ones without revealing the identity of course)

Well I've had 1 person who i called 'turtle'.. because he was uncircumsized, and when it was sleeping, it looked almost like how a soft shelled turtle looks when it is hiding in it's shell, but when it came to life. By golly! It grew, like how you can't tell the length of a turtles neck till it streatches out. This guy grew from a 1 incher to a 10 incher.

Or. I have just met 'socks'.

People from out of town have that in their nickname, like i am looking forward to soon meeting 'out of towner university math professor'. Others were like 'out of towner tall&nice' or 'out of town italian'

I wouldn't give more info on the individuals. Their privacy matters to me. But these are ways i tell people apart.

They aren't all good. I have some negative ones. 'Liar', 'rapist', or 'beta dom'... red flags next to time waisters... ect.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Because they don’t like merb users and the review culture.

There are 4 of us who don't mind and we're all here, haha!

 

[raptor]

How many times have you said to yourself (in your head) when seeing a client: ‘’I would actually pay to have sex with him!’’ Haha.

 

[Julia Sky]

How many times have you said to yourself (in your head) when seeing a client: ‘’I would actually pay to have sex with him!’’ Haha.

Not a single time. There are clients I'd fuck for free, but I would never pay to have sex with a guy haha

 

[brian44]

I’m seriously thinking about trying a FMTY and am wondering what is required. Who books the flights and hotel room? If you can add further information, it would be greatly appreciated! Thank you!

 

[LC18]

I’m seriously thinking about trying a FMTY and am wondering what is required. Who books the flights and hotel room? If you can add further information, it would be greatly appreciated! Thank you!

Whatever you do, don’t be like the guy from last week and don’t send a 3k deposit without doing your homework just because the girl is hot.

Also if sending e-transfers isn’t possible, a lot of airlines have gift cards that can be used to purchase flight tickets.

 

[AirBo]

What's the most intoxicating part of being an escort? The money? The validation? The adventure? Else?

 

[Julia Sky]

What's the most intoxicating part of being an escort? The money? The validation? The adventure? Else?

The freedom, IMO. Making my own schedule and being paid enough to have a LOT of free time.

Freedom and dinner dates/adventures are my favorite parts of doing this job.

 

[LC18]

What's the most intoxicating part of being an escort? The money? The validation? The adventure? Else?

Getting paid to live my fantasies.
Getting skinnier one dick at the time.
The thrill of meeting someone for the first time.

In that order. So I guess the money, the body and the horny(ness)

 

[LC18]

Clients
What if your favourite SP were to ask you if you wanted to be friends? Without benefits.

Would you accept and stop seeing her for sex or would you decline and keep seeing her for sex?

 

[AirBo]

Clients
What if your favourite SP were to ask you if you wanted to be friends? Without benefits.

Would you accept and stop seeing her for sex or would you decline and keep seeing her for sex?

Why would a girl only want to see me for my amazing personality?