Been there in 2 cases and are still best of friends and going strong after more than 10 years.
Ask us anything part 3
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Because ypu have a small dick?Why would a girl only want to see me for my amazing personality?
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...sorry bro for this one but the door was open so wide.
Why do you think I get so much butt action? I can't hurt anyone with "this" lol easy money
Inutile de mettre le tarif. 99,9% des clients ne prennent pas la peine de lire. Lol
Et puis ca permet à la demoiselle de choisir son tarif en fonction de différents facteurs, j'imagine (type de service, mood du jour, besoins financiers, budget du client)...
Ça m’est arrivé une fois.
La filles laissait sous-entendre que ce serait bien de se voir « dans la vrai vie ». Mais je n’y accordais pas trop d’importance car je croyais que c’était une façon de me faire sentir bien et important.
Finalement, nous nous sommes vu pour une vrai date. Nous avons même fini par être em couple pendant quelques années.
Aujourd’hui, nous ne sommes plus ensemble, mais nous sommes encore de très bons amis.
C’était une fille « out of my league » comme on dit. Je n’ai jamais compris comment nous avons pu être ensemble si longtemps lol
Because I have a friend who I’ve met because he was a client. We don’t have sex together anymore but we still talk often and hangout. I mean we’ve had sex maybe twice in our friendship. He will however give my phone number to his friends looking for escorting services which I think is cute in a way
I can't help feeling awkward about asking a lady I have been with if she minds being a reference so I can meet a new provider. It feels like I'm insulting her somehow. How do you as a provider feel when asked?
Most of us base our business on references, it's part of the game. Also, we are escorts, we know what we offer, and to many men. What's beautiful about it is that you don't have to be faithful, just like we aren't! It's also important to not exaggerate when using the name of a selected SP: ask the provider you have seen the most recently to be your reference, and a few times at most. You can always ask her first as well.
Incall
A lot of people might think it’s cold but I will not kiss you if we just met, I might hug you if I feel like you’d be comfortable with that.
If you come to me, I’ll offer to take your jacket, small talk and wait for you to put your stuff away and before inviting you in the living room. (That would be a good time to leave the money on a table) I’ll get touchy then, not before. I still have to feel your vibe and figure out if you’re gonna hurt me or not.
If I feel you’re nervous because it’s your first time doing this or it’s your first time doing me, I’ll offer a few options to calm you down.
Public meeting except hotels
Oddly enough, I will kiss you on the cheeks but only so that it’s not weird for people around us. I want it to look like friends that already know each other or maybe two people finally meeting in person after chatting on a dating site. I won’t mention money but will expect an envelope or an empty gift bag with money in it. I’ll count it when it’s appropriate.
Outcall
I will quickly get in your room in case there are people in the hallway. I might hug if I feel it’s ok. I’ll excuse myself to the bathroom to quickly freshen up. (This would be a good place to leave the money)
Friendzoning yourself on purpose? Damn... lol. It obviously depend if im allow to be a client at the same time or not. If she tell me we will just be friend and never do anything sexually ever again (cause it would be awkward for her or such), then i would likely say no because that would be just "too hard" ...pun intended and in both sense of the term. The first reason i booked her lets be honest was because of pictures or reviews...or other words, her workline. So obviously im sexually attracted to her. In the context of becoming friends it imply we seen each other multiple times, so if i book multiple times its i enjoyed the "service" so yeah purposely cutting this for myself ... I guess the only time i could think about it is if for some reasons i REALLY enjoy her PERSONALITY a lot, yet im not that attracted to her physically. Like if for exemple we share interest in stuff like movies, video games or other "nerdy stuff". But then i doubt i would book her enough time to develop that "friendship crave". Because personally im not a high volume client. I can do this just so often so i obviously make the best out of it in term of sexual needs. Especially since i never have sex in a "civilian context".
Now if she ask me to be friend but totally allow me to be a client (no freebies, but pay for sex when its what i want, but see me as a friend casually) then i supose yes. There is always the fear to develop feelings beyond whats "autorized" but i guess in my case i know my place and to not "cross the line".
There was a couple SPs over the years i got a bit "closer" than just meet for work type of meetings but never to the point of "hanging out" semi often or such.
Do you mean at the very start before shower and such or the whole session? Just curious if i understand correctly.
Sharing is caring! I don't feel any type of way about it, I'm just glad my colleagues make money and clients are having fun. I often recommend my friends as well. There is enough money for everyone and I don't believe in gatekeeping pleasure
C'est aussi malheureusement une perte de temps pour les 2 dans certain cas. Il y a bien des providers que je bookerais (ou considerais booker) a un tarif mais pas a un autre. Et j'essaye de me mettre une limite aussi a ne pas depasser. (Tel prix est trop haut, peu importe c'est qui a moins d'etre une semi celebrité genre pornstar ou instagram famous). Je trouve ca tellement akward de texter pour demander le tarif. J'essaye d'etre le moins time waster possible et quand tu texte en ayant pas une intention solide de booker, ca fait time waster.
“I will not kiss you if we just met” because the person asked how I would greet a new client.
I will kiss them after “I’ll get touchy then”
If we have never met before, I will kiss you on the cheeks and I need 5 minutes at least to size your vibe and who you are, and to acclimate to your presence. If the said new client starts to touch me, get close to me and want to french kiss in those 5 minutes (especially if he didn't give me my consideration yet), it makes me uncomfortable. I don't think a few minutes is too much to ask even though we know why you are here, we are strangers after all and I'm human and in a vulnerable position.
Ah ok !! Yeah thinking of it i never gone for kissing a provider at the greeting step either. When i arrive to an incall i say hi and such, but then i immediately ask to go to the shower because i need a bit of time after shower to feel comfortable starting. Even if i dry myself with a towell i still kinda feel "wet" and i don't like that.
If outcall we go to the bed and talk a bit, sometimes she ask to go refresh in bathroom (wich is cool) then when she come back its when it start.
It’s happened to me on a duo date. The other girl went straight for a kiss so I had to do the same. I wasn’t gonna stand there with my hands behind my back
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