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Ask us anything part 3
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When the client says: "you should be paying me!" as a joke after he gave you oral and you had an orgasm, do you:
a) laugh
b) make an angry post on X
c) something else
a) laugh
b) make an angry post on X
c) something else
I think "The biggest turn-off" for many men is when they see the woman - with whom they want to be intimate with- is clearly not interested in them without any effort to hide that lack of interest.
Only rapists and men who take pills like Viagra can get the required blood-flow in this situation.
Being a SP requires many skills. "Acting" is one of them. in my opinion a good SP is not the one who is genuinely " in love" with all of her clients -that's impossible- but is the one who can act -in a believable way- that she has certain level of interest in the meeting. I don't care if its all "staged" as long as it is performed well enough that can fool me, I am willing to believe it and that makes me feel good and that's all about it for me.
this idea that "everything" is "YMMV" is well beyond hygiene and respect. These days, "GFE" means: "I only kiss you if I find you hot", "I will be warm with you only if I find you funny and entertaining", etc.(as I said it's almost like a normal date). Good for them, they have the very right to do so. I am just trying to explain why I don't book as easily as before. I no longer trust their Ads, their reviews, etc as I used to few years ago (because of terrible past experiences).
for me "YMMV" means "you are about to gamble your self-esteem,confidence,emotions,mental health and money. Think twice before sending that email"
Why book an SP if this is what you are expecting.
Why not look for a real girlfriend.
What did you think it was? of course it is a fantasy and a lot of acting, you honestly think a young woman is going to be head over heels in love with clients that are twice her age and many times out of shape also. The best you can hope for is that she thinks your kind and respectful and likes you enough to put an extra effort into her acting skills.
None of this will ever come close to being in love with a woman or her with you no matter how much $$$ is involved.
People need to face reality a bit lol.
I deleted my previous comment because it was partly sarcastic and I think the irony didn't come across cause I'm exhausted by these types of discussions about how expensive our rates are and how bad our service is and how transactional this "hobby" (it's not a hobby) is lol
It is pretty simple really.
I am happy seeing and being with the ladies I see.
Are they acting, for sure and they deserve an Oscar.
You can either afford it or not.
Money is made to be spent to make you happy and to afford a better life for you and the ones you love.
Everyone needs to determine their own priorities and what it is they can and cannot afford and spend accordingly.
If you could find the right guy ("sugar daddy"), would you give up escorting to become a "sugar baby" with just one client?
What monthly "allowance" (salary, income, pay) would you require to give up seeing multiple clients and have sex with only one client?
What monthly "allowance" (salary, income, pay) would you require to give up seeing multiple clients and have sex with only one client?
it is really that simple. comments like "sps are so mean and refuse to do x or y with me" throw me off. i said i've never refused to do anything that wasn't in my ad, because the comment above really confused me lol. are u paying for gfe? is your hygiene ok? are you treating the sp right and not just sitting there expecting service to happen without doing anything? idk man. from my perspective each SP has their own personal boundaries that need to be respected and when i read stuff like this i know something doesn't sound right.
i would be open to having a sugar daddy, but i wouldn't give up escorting. depending on one person for income sounds really scary to me, and feels like a loss of autonomy. obviously if i had a weekly or monthly allowance i would be seeing a lot less clients.
Hi, recent sugar baby to SP convert here!
For me, I switched it up because I crave the variety, and the very concrete valuation of time that this side of the industry provides. In my experience (4-5 years in the bowl) it's really hard to get folks on the sugaring end of things to understand or respect this. Very few "sugar daddy"s see the arrangement as a form of sw. It's murky. I also second what @Lunaseraphim said about depending on one person or relationship for income.
That said... having repeat clients that I build a friendship and trust with? Sounds lovely.
I think you misunderstood me , I also said that its a skill-issue above all(acting skill).
to be honest its a completely different feeling. Real relationships can create great shared memories(trips,dates,etc) this is the main attraction of relationships for me. not the intimate moments(which usually wears off after the first few months). With real girlfriend one always considers so many things,one makes compromises for the sake of the relationship,etc. you can not ask your girlfriend anything without thinking about its long term consequences and how it might affect her perception of you.
but great SPs allow you to be less concerned about the consequences and enjoy the moment.
I have had fantastic experiences with some SPs in the past(Marine seville and April Mcadams gave me my best experiences). Those "FANTASTIC" experiences were rare back then and they are rare now.that has not changed
my point is that worst case scenarios are much worse nowadays compare to few years ago.
Do you still have previous SDs you seen when you were a SB in the bowl book you now as an escort?
Your point of view is interesting, because it constrats with what so many clients, myself included, hope, which is the opposite: that the escort is genuine, that she's not faking it, that she really enjoys being with us. Many escorts advertise that they offer a "genuine" connection. Maybe that's possible. What you're saying is basically: "I'm paying for it and I want to be entertained". That's valid–within the boundaries of consent, importantly–and a more realistic mindset that the client who's looking for a real connection and emotions with an escort (basically a girlfriend substitute).
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I want a $ugar daddy but I wouldn’t want to rely on one man so instead I do this and have several mini $ugar daddies
I just moved from the states so I'm actually not sure what will happen with those relationships. That said I really have one main SD I'm in touch with and when I see him it's been at the same arrangement we had before and I think it would be difficult to transition to an escort pay model.
That's the thing. In my ideal world, I'd have a few regulars I see every week, for more than 1 hours. I do like meeting new gentlemen but I also enjoy building friendships with the men I see.
This doesn't necessarily translate to reality. Regulars and repeat clients come and go, sadly. I don't take it personally when a regular stops coming to see me, I don't think it reflects on my service or who I am as a person. Life happens, and things have been pretty chaotic for most..
This doesn't necessarily translate to reality. Regulars and repeat clients come and go, sadly. I don't take it personally when a regular stops coming to see me, I don't think it reflects on my service or who I am as a person. Life happens, and things have been pretty chaotic for most..
When this was my only exclusive job, I invested 40% of my income largely on school because as a former international student I paid much more than locals. The rest I spent on energy stocks, that paid of well, lost a large chunk on Bitcoin investments sadly. The other investments I have are slowly growing ( energy)
I am now shopping around for the best mortgage rate with several banks as I can put a substantial down payment down now for a condo. I am using my civilian job as a point but will use most of my savings as a SW for the down payment, just gotta find the best rate. In Jewish culture we put a high emphasis on saving and I mean high, I'm too paranoid to be without money.
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