Ask us anything part 3

[LC18]

Hobby

an activity that someone does for pleasure when they are not working:
Angela's hobby is restoring vintage motorcycles.

a pursuit outside one's regular occupation engaged in especially for relaxation
Writing is just a hobby of his.
Her hobbies include gardening and bird-watching


His hobbies include f***king women and reviewing them online??


Anyways…

 

[Zero_Six]

Okay here are a few questions for clients.

1- What made you decide to take the plunge and see a SP for the first time? Some friends of mine think all men have seen a SP once in their lives at least, but I'm not sure how true that is.
2- Why do you consider seeing escorts a hobby? What makes it comparable to other hobbies of yours? It's something I've always wondered since I joined the industry
3- What makes you enjoy participating in this forum aside from reading reviews?

1 - Depression mostly. I was working night-shift in my 20s. I'd go to parties with university friends on the week-end, but my social anxiety was too over-powering and I'd drink too much booze. You'd think the booze would ease the social anxiety but no, it just made me sloppy drunk and socially awkward.

Regarding the "all men have seen an SP at least once...". Obviously not ALL MEN, but I'd say many if not most have. I've had two friends that had no problems getting GFs or hook-ups yet they still saw an SP at some point. Not sure what their reasoning was. I'm guessing it was just part of the sex, drugs, and rock'n'roll lifestyle we were living at the time. Seeing an SP was just one of the things you needed to do if you wanted to truly "get" Bukowski or whatever.

2 - Definitely not a hobby for me. Calling it a hobby feels like I'm reading a bad JRPG translation.

3 - I don't read the reviews. I stick to the lounge mostly. Small forums feel more "natural". Places like twitter or reddit have so many users that you never know who you're talking to. Good chance they're a bot or a troll. I may not like or agree with some people here, but at least I know it's not some 12 year old kid just saying shit to get a reaction (even if some people occasionally come across that way)

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Not sure what their reasoning was

My reasoning was laziness and hassle free fun!

 

[Nachoy]

To SPs:
Do you like the variety of men you see?
Is there a certain type you tend to like more than others?

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Seeing an SP was just one of the things you needed to do if you wanted to truly "get" Bukowski or whatever.

I laughed

 

[Lunaseraphim]

To SPs:
Do you like the variety of men you see?
Is there a certain type you tend to like more than others?

There are certain types of clients I like better than others. I prefer clients who I have good conversations with instead of those who only focus on trying to get as much sexual satisfaction as possible. I like clients I have things in common with and people who can talk to me about things I don't know anything about. It doesn't really have anything to do with what they look like.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

My questions for SPs are ->

1. Did you know how big this industry was before getting into it?
2. Did you ever think you would get into this business before you got into it?
3. Was there someone who introduced you to it, or did you find it on your own?


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I just remembered how I got into this, actually, by total accident.

I was addicted to porn (still am, damn it, lol) and was starting to get turned on by the concept of "reality" in my sexual fantasies, and I remembered that a certain porn actress from Poland did meet ups there in Warsaw to film videos. Anyway, this got me thinking that I should look into porn actresses in Montreal and contact them so that I could have like a more desired / selected experience rather than take my chances at a bar or party.

At any rate, I somehow found Craigslist Massage Therapy (or whatever it was called) and the rest is history. Was using quarters and calling apps and all that.

I was completely clueless to how much escorting content and how many ad sites there were online. I've seen so many of them come and go since then. Same with service providers. Some of their ads and faces are embedded into my consciousness.

1- I had friends and acquaintances who were in the business. I knew how big the industry was but I had a lot of misconceptions.

2- Honestly, a lot of people told me I wasn't cut out for it and I had considered online work but I was told it wasn't lucrative anymore. I joined the industry on impulse.

3- I had help from a few people but it took me a while to find my own way of doing this and staying safe