Ask us anything part 3

[Fradi]

I deleted my previous comment because it was partly sarcastic and I think the irony didn't come across cause I'm exhausted by these types of discussions about how expensive our rates are and how bad our service is and how transactional this "hobby" (it's not a hobby) is lol

It is pretty simple really.
I am happy seeing and being with the ladies I see.
Are they acting, for sure and they deserve an Oscar.
You can either afford it or not.
Money is made to be spent to make you happy and to afford a better life for you and the ones you love.
Everyone needs to determine their own priorities and what it is they can and cannot afford and spend accordingly.

 

[CaptRenault]

If you could find the right guy ("sugar daddy"), would you give up escorting to become a "sugar baby" with just one client?

What monthly "allowance" (salary, income, pay) would you require to give up seeing multiple clients and have sex with only one client?

 

[Lunaseraphim]

It is pretty simple really.
I am happy seeing and being with the ladies I see.
Are they acting, for sure and they deserve an Oscar.
You can either afford it or not.
Money is made to be spent to make you happy and to afford a better life for you and the ones you love.
Everyone needs to determine their own priorities and what it is they can and cannot afford and spend accordingly.

it is really that simple. comments like "sps are so mean and refuse to do x or y with me" throw me off. i said i've never refused to do anything that wasn't in my ad, because the comment above really confused me lol. are u paying for gfe? is your hygiene ok? are you treating the sp right and not just sitting there expecting service to happen without doing anything? idk man. from my perspective each SP has their own personal boundaries that need to be respected and when i read stuff like this i know something doesn't sound right.

If you could find the right guy ("sugar daddy"), would you give up escorting to become a "sugar baby" with just one client?

What monthly "allowance" (salary, income, pay) would you require to give up seeing multiple clients and have sex with only one client?

i would be open to having a sugar daddy, but i wouldn't give up escorting. depending on one person for income sounds really scary to me, and feels like a loss of autonomy. obviously if i had a weekly or monthly allowance i would be seeing a lot less clients.

 

[ChloeCoeur]

If you could find the right guy ("sugar daddy"), would you give up escorting to become a "sugar baby" with just one client?

What monthly "allowance" (salary, income, pay) would you require to give up seeing multiple clients and have sex with only one client?

Hi, recent sugar baby to SP convert here!

For me, I switched it up because I crave the variety, and the very concrete valuation of time that this side of the industry provides. In my experience (4-5 years in the bowl) it's really hard to get folks on the sugaring end of things to understand or respect this. Very few "sugar daddy"s see the arrangement as a form of sw. It's murky. I also second what @Lunaseraphim said about depending on one person or relationship for income.

That said... having repeat clients that I build a friendship and trust with? Sounds lovely.

 

[Nachoy]

Hi, recent sugar baby to SP convert here!

For me, I switched it up because I crave the variety, and the very concrete valuation of time that this side of the industry provides. In my experience (4-5 years in the bowl) it's really hard to get folks on the sugaring end of things to understand or respect this. Very few "sugar daddy"s see the arrangement as a form of sw. It's murky. I also second what @Lunaseraphim said about depending on one person or relationship for income.

That said... having repeat clients that I build a friendship and trust with? Sounds lovely.

Do you still have previous SDs you seen when you were a SB in the bowl book you now as an escort?

 

[MCTJ]

Being a SP requires many skills. "Acting" is one of them. in my opinion a good SP is not the one who is genuinely " in love" with all of her clients -that's impossible- but is the one who can act -in a believable way- that she has certain level of interest in the meeting. I don't care if its all "staged" as long as it is performed well enough that can fool me, I am willing to believe it and that makes me feel good and that's all about it for mme.

Your point of view is interesting, because it constrats with what so many clients, myself included, hope, which is the opposite: that the escort is genuine, that she's not faking it, that she really enjoys being with us. Many escorts advertise that they offer a "genuine" connection. Maybe that's possible. What you're saying is basically: "I'm paying for it and I want to be entertained". That's valid–within the boundaries of consent, importantly–and a more realistic mindset that the client who's looking for a real connection and emotions with an escort (basically a girlfriend substitute).

 

[LC18]

I want a $ugar daddy but I wouldn’t want to rely on one man so instead I do this and have several mini $ugar daddies

 

[ChloeCoeur]

Do you still have previous SDs you seen when you were a SB in the bowl book you now as an escort?

I just moved from the states so I'm actually not sure what will happen with those relationships. That said I really have one main SD I'm in touch with and when I see him it's been at the same arrangement we had before and I think it would be difficult to transition to an escort pay model.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

That's the thing. In my ideal world, I'd have a few regulars I see every week, for more than 1 hours. I do like meeting new gentlemen but I also enjoy building friendships with the men I see.

This doesn't necessarily translate to reality. Regulars and repeat clients come and go, sadly. I don't take it personally when a regular stops coming to see me, I don't think it reflects on my service or who I am as a person. Life happens, and things have been pretty chaotic for most..

 

[Wearethenight]

Approximately what percent of your income do you save and/or invest for long term future needs (such as buying a home, retirement, or future living expenses when you stop escorting)?

When this was my only exclusive job, I invested 40% of my income largely on school because as a former international student I paid much more than locals. The rest I spent on energy stocks, that paid of well, lost a large chunk on Bitcoin investments sadly. The other investments I have are slowly growing ( energy)

I am now shopping around for the best mortgage rate with several banks as I can put a substantial down payment down now for a condo. I am using my civilian job as a point but will use most of my savings as a SW for the down payment, just gotta find the best rate. In Jewish culture we put a high emphasis on saving and I mean high, I'm too paranoid to be without money.

 

[Nachoy]

Do you watch porn?
If so What type and when do you like to watch ?

 

[Fradi]

I am now shopping around for the best mortgage rate with several banks as I can put a substantial down payment down now for a condo. I am using my civilian job as a point but will use most of my savings as a SW for the down payment, just gotta find the best rate. In Jewish culture we put a high emphasis on saving and I mean high, I'm too paranoid to be without money.

You are being smart it is nice to see a lady with ambition and planning for her future.
I always thought the first thing to do is to get your own home be it a condo or a house. Paying rent is like opening the window each month and throwing your cash out and waving good bye. I worked my ass off and bought my first home when I was 22. My parents moved 11 times in 9 years while I was growing up and I wanted to avoid that.

 

[Rosie Sparkles]

Do you watch porn?
If so What type and when do you like to watch ?

I only watch Hentai haha because I did porn in the past and can't stop thinking about the fact that they are actors and I start thinking about what the actors are thinking, the cameras, lights... I need to go full fantasy to stop overthinking and have fun!

 

[Nachoy]

I only watch Hentai haha because I did porn in the past and can't stop thinking about the fact that they are actors and I start thinking about what the actors are thinking, the cameras, lights... I need to go full fantasy to stop overthinking and have fun!

Did you have reservations about family or friends recognizing you in porn that didn’t know you were in the business?

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Do you watch porn?
If so What type and when do you like to watch ?

I actually don't lol
I have before, but I found that it always left me feeling upset. But the porn I've enjoyed the most was amateur, specially watching couples together. There's something romantic about it, but I also feel weird watching people's intimacy LOL

 

[Cap'tain Fantastic]

Why is there an ask us anything part 2 & 3? Couldn't it all be contained in one thread?

It’s the "Hollywood" formula, you know, like sequels etc. I heard the prequel is coming soon.

 

[Fradi]

It’s the "Hollywood" formula, you know, like sequels etc. I heard the prequel is coming soon.

Just. Like Godfather 1, 2, and 3. There had to be closure after Fredo got wacked.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Just. Like Godfather 1, 2, and 3. There had to be closure after Fredo got wacked.

TRUUUUUE

 

[DouMan]

Just. Like Godfather 1, 2, and 3. There had to be closure after Fredo got wacked.

Hmm, good point. Fredo, Fradi ... possible kin-foke?

Stay posted ... Cumming soon, at an incall near you

 

[Fradi]

Hmm, good point. Fredo, Fradi ... possible kin-foke?

Stay posted ... Cumming soon, at an incall near you

Nope, closest I come is I like Italian food.