Ask us anything part 3

[Lunaseraphim]

Yes not too long ago a client wanted me to travel very far so I dared ask for a deposit which he refused. The day after he sent me the screenshot of his conversation with another provider in which you could see she was thanking him for the dinner date

Whoever said women were drama queens has not met an escort client

I'm rolling my eyes in the back of my head........ How is that necessary? He sounds like a huge narcissist, you dodged a bullet.

I've had clients do this type of thing with me too. lol 2 months ago I had a client mention ''soooo.. I'm thinking of bringing either you, (x provider) or (z provider) to my cabin for a weekend, how can you convince me?'' both providers charged at least 100$ more than I do. (he offered that information, I didn't ask or check) I just said ''I can't convince you''

 

[LC18]

I'm rolling my eyes in the back of my head........ How is that necessary? He sounds psycho.

I've had clients do this type of thing with me too. lol 2 months ago I had a client mention ''soooo.. I'm thinking of bringing either you, (x provider) or (z provider) to my cabin for a weekend, how can you convince me?'' both providers charged at least 100$ more than I do. (he offered that information, I didn't ask or check) I just said ''I can't convince you''

Definitely a case of “I haven’t gotten enough attention in my life so here’s my revenge”

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Definitely a case of “I haven’t gotten enough attention in my life so here’s my revenge”

Yes, exactly. He definitely thought I was going to do something to impress him, or that he was going to make me feel inadequate. I just didn't care, because I don't want to keep seeing a client like this. He never booked again. Manipulators aren't worth entertaining.

Just to make it clear in case someone doesn't understand. what bothers me isn't that he saw other providers, it's that he gossiped about multiple providers in malicious ways, then he tried to pit some of us against each other by pretending he was going to book an entire weekend at his cabin (which is probably false) and mentioned that the others have higher rates than i do to make me feel bad or manipulate me into offering something more, who knows what. I know many of my regulars and repeat clients see colleagues of mine, and i'm totally ok with it

In fact it's happened before that clients told me they were considering booking @Julia Sky and @LC18 and some others who don't advertise here, and I encouraged them to do it

 

[Enjoying life]

Yes not too long ago a client wanted me to travel very far so I dared ask for a deposit which he refused. The day after he sent me the screenshot of his conversation with another provider in which you could see she was thanking him for the dinner date

Whoever said women were drama queens has not met an escort client

Sps are the most drama free and very accommodating I find! Relationships were the hardest!

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Sps are the most drama free and very accommodating I find! Relationships were the hardest!

Us SP's are in relationships too sometimes

 

[Enjoying life]

Us SP's are in relationships too sometimes

I love that as sps try to accommodating everyone

 

[LC18]

Without knowing the full context, I dont necessarily think that this is about race. I don't do those kind of dates, but if I did, I would choose by personality & vibe, and potentially the desired fantasy if that makes sense? But as I said, I dont know the context or the person in question.

Probably in that case good for him but no need to tell me

 

[DouMan]

Probably in that case good for him but no need to tell me

This is very sad to read that certain people can be so low.
Even though it's easier to say than do, put him behind you ... that's where the assholes are.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Without knowing the full context, I dont necessarily think that this is about race. I don't do those kind of dates, but if I did, I would choose by personality & vibe, and potentially the desired fantasy if that makes sense? But as I said, I dont know the context or the person in question.

I wouldn't want to appear like a white knight (awful joke sorry lol)

But yea tbh it took me a while to figure out the right words to explain my opinion on this, but it applies to more than just racism: when someone is used to being discriminated against and mistreated because of a specific trait, it's natural to spot certain power dynamics and associate disrespectful behavior with discrimination even if derogatory language isn't used, particularly when you notice that other people get treated better. Does this make any sense?

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I get it. Perhaps there was a nefarious motive behind it, or it was simply tactless.
100% agree there was no need to make this statement but some people just say things without thinking too much. So while it was certainly disrespectful it does not necessarily have to be discriminatory.

I don’t think going on a dinner date means treating a SP better, or does it? For me it’s a whole different activity type, for which my choice of SP might differ compared to an incall date for example.

I don't think a dinner date means getting better treated necessarily, but I feel like in general, if a man takes you on a dinner date, it means he feels proud to be seen with you in public and thinks of you as someone he could have intelligent conversations with over a nice meal and a glass of wine, he sees you as mature and sophisticated and or worth spoiling. A dinner date is a way to spoil a provider, most of us get excited when we get that type of bookings because they are special occasions. It's not that difficult to understand... If I found out a client who had initially booked me for 1h incall actually took someone out who charges way more on a 4 hour dinner date, I wouldn't be feeling very good about myself. I'd be asking myself what I did wrong and why he perceives us differently.

There's no point in debating endlessly about if there was a malicious intent behind the man consciously grabbing his phone in his hand, taking a screenshot of the conversation, cropping it and then sending it to the provider who advertises dinner dates once in a while and asked him for a deposit (which he refused to provide)....

 

[MasterPat]

Why do clients feel like it’s ok to pay black girls less than white girls?

Honest question, aren't black SP rarer and by consequence more exotic? Usually, the rarer the offer on the market, the more expensive it is?

Personnally, when I had a good session with a provider and it is near a meal time, I offer the person if they want to go grab a bite. Probably not the same as a diner date, but I often get a positive answer. I find it fun to share a meal and talk with them. Get to know them a bit more.

As for telling one provider that I am willing to pay more for the service of another provider seems counter intuitive. It is like going to the dealer and saying: "I bought my car acros the street. They charged me more for it and was happy to pay it." In the long run, it might just make everyone increase their prices.

 

[bodick7]

Did the STM strike affect your business this week?

STM …et/ou SPM?

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Did the STM strike affect your business this week?

Is it the strike, of the F1, or the beautiful weather at last... But it's hard to know, every week looks different for me.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Did the STM strike affect your business this week?

Every week is different for me. Last week was crazy busy, this week has been slower. Hopefully this weekend will makeup for it, fingers crossed!

I think the F1 is way more likely to be affecting my business than the strike.. or maybe it's a mix of both.

 

[MCTJ]

Donc vous êtes MOINS occupées à cause de la F1? Câline, le Journal de Montréal disait le contraire

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Donc vous êtes MOINS occupées à cause de la F1? Câline, le Journal de Montréal disait le contraire

Les escortes indépendantes oui! C'est plus les agences, les bars de danseuses et les salons qui sont occupés

 

[Lunaseraphim]

For clients: what is the point of reaching out to a provider for a booking if you don't know your schedule yet?

 

[Giselle Montreal]

For clients: what is the point of reaching out to a provider for a booking if you don't know your schedule yet?

"I just wanted to know if you were available next week so I can plan to meet you once I know my schedule."

Ok, but I might not be available anymore the next time you reach out. Chances are I won't be. So, better contact us when you know you can plan!

 

[Merbcc12345]

I have had experiences where some SP’s orgasm while some don’t. I always wonder what is the typical SP’s outglook on faking. Also, assuming an orgasm is real, how does an SP handle later clients. I mean there must be a logical limit. If SP’s could orgasm with each client, I would assume by the end of the day, they would have less energy than a flea. Just asking.

 

[Michelle Gunn]

I have had experiences where some SP’s orgasm while some don’t. I always wonder what is the typical SP’s outglook on faking. Also, assuming an orgasm is real, how does an SP handle later clients. I mean there must be a logical limit. If SP’s could orgasm with each client, I would assume by the end of the day, they would have less energy than a flea. Just asking.

It goes without saying that we are all different, and as an indy it's pretty rare that I see more than one client in a day. It's also rare for me to not have at least one orgasm, usually I have quite a few, but I don't feel drained afterwards, just relaxed.