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Ask us anything part 3
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For clients: what is the point of reaching out to a provider for a booking if you don't know your schedule yet?
"I just wanted to know if you were available next week so I can plan to meet you once I know my schedule."
Ok, but I might not be available anymore the next time you reach out. Chances are I won't be. So, better contact us when you know you can plan!
I have had experiences where some SP’s orgasm while some don’t. I always wonder what is the typical SP’s outglook on faking. Also, assuming an orgasm is real, how does an SP handle later clients. I mean there must be a logical limit. If SP’s could orgasm with each client, I would assume by the end of the day, they would have less energy than a flea. Just asking.
It goes without saying that we are all different, and as an indy it's pretty rare that I see more than one client in a day. It's also rare for me to not have at least one orgasm, usually I have quite a few, but I don't feel drained afterwards, just relaxed.
I prefer that people contact me when they know for sure because everytime someone has asked me “what’s your next availability?” and I naively answered, they followed with a “it’s not working for me, can you do this time instead?”
Just start with your preferred time no?
Just start with your preferred time no?
So much. This is irritating. It's funny how I'm rarely available when they reach out again.
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It's often multiple days later. It's never "I'll get back to you tonight with confirmed hours". That'd be OK.
Often 3 and a half weeks later with something along the lines of "Sorry I didn't get back to you, I got busy at work and then went to Florida but I'm back now. Might be able to see you this weekend if you're free?"
Exactly or they don't get back to me at all. If the person isn't asking when I'm available or giving me specific dates I'm assuming they're not serious now. I just don't understand what is the point of doing this.
Indeed, I stop thinking about them and if they write to me again and I'm still available, good for them.
What I started doing a few years ago is offering to secure that window for them if they send me a deposit right away, that way they can take a few hours or days to confirm their plans. If they can't see me after all, I keep the deposit as it's possible I might have declined one or more invitations for the same window.
This offer was taken a few times, with some clients forfeiting their deposit as their plans changed. I don't mind since my time was compensated.
That makes sense but I get the impression they will refuse. This happens particularly with people who message me on this forum. So I set an automatic response to messages to avoid having my time wasted...
It's just an supplemental offer, it's not an obligation to get a meeting. So I have nothing to lose to ask. If they refuse, they just have to hope I'm available when they get back to me again.
Go tell that to the men that text exactly like my exemple
Almost every time this happens these guys don't reach out again.
Quick but deep question:
If I were to message you to try to reconnect after our last date many months ago, what would be a good way to do so?
If I were to message you to try to reconnect after our last date many months ago, what would be a good way to do so?
If it’s ok, I’d like to share my opinion as a client.
If there’s enough people doing it that there’s a pattern, that’s obviously is a huge hindrance when trying to optimize your business. I guess, I wouldn’t want to be lumped in with generic time wasters. I don’t think a small application fee for contacting providers is an outrageous idea; especially, if it can be applied to a date.
Personally, I have to ask a lot of questions that aren’t on most providers personal websites or in ads. Since I always play as a couple, I need to know if the provider sees couples. I can’t assume they don’t just bc rates for couples aren’t listed. Then, if they entertain couples, are they really bisexual or just going to ignore my wife. My wife’s fascination with breasts is why we date women in the first place, and because of that fascination, it’s nice to know if providers are enhanced or not. All of that could take several emails if the provider ignores the question, which happens a lot, and just focuses on booking a date. What really sucks is getting yelled at for asking. We’re only able to see someone once or twice a year. Who we choose to spend our time with is really important. Sometimes I wish we could reverse the process and post our own ad.
Well, this took me way longer to type up than I thought it would, and it’ll probably be largely ignored or someone will reply in anger, but I won’t give up on finding the one woman who understands and wants to have some adventures with us.
Thanks for your time and all that y’all do
If there’s enough people doing it that there’s a pattern, that’s obviously is a huge hindrance when trying to optimize your business. I guess, I wouldn’t want to be lumped in with generic time wasters. I don’t think a small application fee for contacting providers is an outrageous idea; especially, if it can be applied to a date.
Personally, I have to ask a lot of questions that aren’t on most providers personal websites or in ads. Since I always play as a couple, I need to know if the provider sees couples. I can’t assume they don’t just bc rates for couples aren’t listed. Then, if they entertain couples, are they really bisexual or just going to ignore my wife. My wife’s fascination with breasts is why we date women in the first place, and because of that fascination, it’s nice to know if providers are enhanced or not. All of that could take several emails if the provider ignores the question, which happens a lot, and just focuses on booking a date. What really sucks is getting yelled at for asking. We’re only able to see someone once or twice a year. Who we choose to spend our time with is really important. Sometimes I wish we could reverse the process and post our own ad.
Well, this took me way longer to type up than I thought it would, and it’ll probably be largely ignored or someone will reply in anger, but I won’t give up on finding the one woman who understands and wants to have some adventures with us.
Thanks for your time and all that y’all do
I speak only for myself, of course, but if your initial contact shows me that you've read my website and are willing to screen and/or give a deposit, then I'm happy to answer most questions. If your message reads like someone who is jerking off, or can't read or be fucked to finish words or sentences (avail?) then I may ignore questions or ignore you altogether.
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