Ask us anything part 3

[LC18]

[Clients] What are your thoughts on website forms? What are your thoughts on questions by email?

I am trying to add the following questions to my booking process:

“Makeup. Yes or no?”
“Perfume. Yes or no?”

Because I’ve noticed some men like perfume but some men are married and worried

 

[Enjoying life]

It made me uncomfortable because he didn't pay her extra for PSE.. and I did feel like she was uncomfortable. She told me after the booking she thought he was rough with her. (he pulled her hair really hard to the point where I had to kinda move his had, slapped her ass really hard, i think COF or CIM too)

There are a lot of clients who think that because we offer something extra or something else we're always willing to do it and prepared. I've heard stories of providers getting "surprise anal" or "surprise CIM" with no proper compensation because they were charging these as extra..

There's a difference between GFE and PSE for a reason.. and there's a reason why providers charge more for PSE

You don’t do that! My ex asked me to pull her hair but she requested it and I did it light but you just do not do that!

 

[urquell]

[Clients] What are your thoughts on website forms? What are your thoughts on questions by email?

I am trying to add the following questions to my booking process:

“Makeup. Yes or no?”
“Perfume. Yes or no?”

Because I’ve noticed some men like perfume but some men are married and worried

I think it's an excellent idea. Not just because some men are married, but also because there's a significant amount of people that are allergic to perfume and strong scents. Also, many men say they are against makeup, but sometimes that just means obvious makeup, and a natural look, even with makeup, is fine, so possibly both levels of comfort for SP and client can be accommodated. I also think that just like men asking their SPs about their do's and don't that asking clients about their preferences before the session can only be beneficial to both parties. I honestly wish that more ladies would do what you are considering doing.

 

[Enjoying life]

I think it's an excellent idea. Not just because some men are married, but also because there's a significant amount of people that are allergic to perfume and strong scents. Also, many men say they are against makeup, but sometimes that just means obvious makeup, and a natural look, even with makeup, is fine, so possibly both levels of comfort for SP and client can be accommodated. I also think that just like men asking their SPs about their do's and don't that asking clients about their preferences before the session can only be beneficial to both parties. I honestly wish that more ladies would do what you are considering doing.

Ya! I noticed the SPS that came to me never smelled anything of perfume or lotions !

 

[urquell]

Ya! I noticed the SPS that came to me never smelled anything of perfume or lotions !

I used to sell perfume wholesale at one point in my life and it's not just about scents or no scents sometimes, or about allergies, but also about particular types of scents. Sometimes it's about being allergic and sometimes it's about a negative association with certain types of scents. Asking guys if they like scents and if there's anything in particular that puts them off is a good idea. You'd be surprised how many men have negative associations with certain types of scents because of mom or ex-girlfriends or whatever. Many men have who have nothing against perfume still hate certain types of scents, so asking if they especially like things that are clean, musky, floral, fruity, spicy, powdery or whatever may actually increase the "growlf!" factor.

 

[Enjoying life]

I used to sell perfume wholesale at one point in my life and it's not just about scents or no scents sometimes, or about allergies, but also about particular types of scents. Sometimes it's about being allergic and sometimes it's about a negative association with certain types of scents. Asking guys if they like scents and if there's anything in particular that puts them off is a good idea. You'd be surprised how many men have negative associations with certain types of scents because of mom or ex-girlfriends or whatever. Many men have who have nothing against perfume still hate certain types of scents, so asking if they especially like things that are clean, musky, floral, fruity, spicy, powdery or whatever may actually increase the "growlf!" factor.

I love a foot scent with SPS soooo hot!

 

[Enjoying life]

You don’t do that! My ex asked me to pull her hair but she requested it and I did it light but you just do not do that!

These are the most personal kind of play as most wives would never engage in so always be nice have nice conversations before! We are all human beings!

 

[LeDodo]

[Clients] What are your thoughts on website forms? What are your thoughts on questions by email?

I am trying to add the following questions to my booking process:

“Makeup. Yes or no?”
“Perfume. Yes or no?”

Because I’ve noticed some men like perfume but some men are married and worried

Website forms is fine but shouldn't be to bothersome to fill. Maybe like having checkboxes will allow less typing.

Questions by email like you ask them or they ask it?

Makeup and perfume is fine to add. But I would nuance that for the perfume or body cream I personally like without. Reason is more for the sake of feeling and kissing.

Maybe can add questions about accessories, costumes, etc.

 

[LC18]

Maybe can add questions about accessories, costumes, etc.

No

 

[jeffmathers]

I wonder who else is retiring?
Baby Li-Anna-August 31st
Adaline Rose-September 4th
Today Bambi Dawn announced retirement for October 30th

 

[Nachoy]

How often do you use vibrators?
Do cum all the time with vibrators?

 

[LC18]

How often do you use vibrators?
Do cum all the time with vibrators?

Do you ask questions just to masturbate to the answers?

 

[philonius]

Do you ask questions just to masturbate to the answers?

The pursuit of knowledge can be sexy.

 

[LeDodo]

Do you ask questions just to masturbate to the answers?

The number of sex toys could help

 

[LC18]

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The pursuit of knowledge can be sexy.

He’s been asking those questions for over a year and I don’t think it’s because he cares to improve his bedroom skills

 

[LeDodo]

He’s been asking those questions for over a year and I don’t think it’s because he cares to improve his bedroom skills

You have advices to improve bedroom skills?

 

[Rebaynia]

How often do you use vibrators?
Do cum all the time with vibrators?

Hardly ever.
I don't like vibrators personally, I find they remove sensation, don't add to it. I use them on others.
Are you looking to see what it feels like for yourself? I would be happy to peg you.

 

[MCTJ]

Are physically unattractive men overrepresented in your clientele vs the general population? In other words, if we picked 100 escort client at random and 100 men at a supermarket downtown, which group would contain the most unattractive men?

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Are physically unattractive men overrepresented in your clientele vs the general population? In other words, if we picked 100 escort client at random and 100 men at a supermarket downtown, which group would contain the most unattractive men?

I'm going to answer this one because I feel like there are many insecurities behind it, not just yours but a lot of men's. Honestly what is attractive is subjective and I think if you picked 100 men from random supermarkets and 100 escort clients you could never tell them apart.

A lot more men than you think hire escorts once in a while or try it at a phase of their lives, but most men are not on the internet reading about sex workers constantly.. attractiveness isn't what distinguishes regular clients of sex workers and other men.. what makes a difference is more psychological in my opinion.

Depending on the person the difference between "regular men" and men who hire many escorts is in terms of mental health, personal struggles & happiness, social skills, tendencies to have addictions, neurological differences and levels of empathy and anti-social behavior..

 

[MCTJ]

I think I agree with your answer. We would get starker differences in personality traits, but I'm still curious regarding physical attractiveness. Actually to know the answer we would need a panel of neutral observers to rate the subjects on a scale of 1 to 10 (this type of experiment  has been done in psychology in various contexts). My question is not without merit.

what is attractive is subjective

This is a very common misconception so dont take it personally. Attractiveness is partly subjective and partly objective (universal). In men, a symmetrical face and broad shoulders have been shown to be universally attractive.