Ask us anything part 3

[Rebaynia]

I assume this has been asked somewhere in the last 153 pages but how did you come up with your provider alias/name/persona?

It's been my online persona for the last 20 years. It's a name that means nothing to anyone else anywhere.
I was a nobody online with my given name, as it is so popular, with very many accomplished people with the same name. So when I came across a name in an online game name generator, that was one of my favorite characters I created and built up, as I associated with it so well, and the name fit a side of myself I couldn't explain. The name then became me, and I said, if I was ever going to become known, that was the name I would be known by.
It is more personal to me than my government ID. It is who I identify as, beyond the basic person I am in my own private life, and it is my other-worldly side that the basic side dreamed of being, and now gets to be.
The side I kept locked away, afraid to let it run wild.

 

[LeDodo]

It's been my online persona for the last 20 years. It's a name that means nothing to anyone else anywhere.
I was a nobody online with my given name, as it is so popular, with very many accomplished people with the same name. So when I came across a name in an online game name generator, that was one of my favorite characters I created and built up, as I associated with it so well, and the name fit a side of myself I couldn't explain. The name then became me, and I said, if I was ever going to become known, that was the name I would be known by.
It is more personal to me than my government ID. It is who I identify as, beyond the basic person I am in my own private life, and it is my other-worldly side that the basic side dreamed of being, and now gets to be.
The side I kept locked away, afraid to let it run wild.

It's funny because at the period when Hotmail and MSN were a thing I had to create a handle. Since then it has followed me. People I met online or at school still call me by that name. I find it sometimes strange as now I have transitioned from a online and gaming life to a civilian life in a corporate world.

Just realized that I have been using it for almost 30 years ... Hotmail having been released in 1996 ...

 

[Zero_Six]

If you were going to quit the business at a set date, how would you choose the last client you see?
The person you've been seeing the longest? The one you get along with best? The highest-bidder? Random lottery?

 

[Rebaynia]

If you were going to quit the business at a set date, how would you choose the last client you see?
The person you've been seeing the longest? The one you get along with best? The highest-bidder? Random lottery?

I don't know if I would put effort in to pick a last. I don't even know if I would be announcing my departure. I think if I decided to close this chapter on my life, I would just close/delete it all, just to disappear one day, like I spontaneously arrived one day.

Those who have my number would still have it. But couldn't say if I would keep clients or not, it isn't something I am planning at this point in time. I am still looking to grow into myself, and see where it takes me.

 

[lapadict]

Can I make a last date suggestion? They say when you go skiing to never say or think that the next run is your last for the day. It's when you loose concentration and fall or crash. Just decide at the bottom that it was enough for that day. So maybe you might be thinking it is your last day but spontaneously end your run with the experience that feels right. Could be a regular or a 1st timer or a new kink. Just a thought.

 

[LeDodo]

Can I make a last date suggestion? They say when you go skiing to never say or think that the next run is your last for the day. It's when you loose concentration and fall or crash. Just decide at the bottom that it was enough for that day. So maybe you might be thinking it is your last day but spontaneously end your run with the experience that feels right. Could be a regular or a 1st timer or a new kink. Just a thought.

It might be hard because I assume booking are like filling in continuously so if you decide on the spot this is the last one, the following commitments would be unfairly cancelled...

 

[jeffmathers]

I've never had the experience of being dominated by a provider in the Montreal area specifically. I am thinking in a month or more I'll try to schedule my first session getting dominated by a Quebecoise provider. Any providers people would recommend?

 

[LeDodo]

I've never had the experience of being dominated by a provider in the Montreal area specifically. I am thinking in a month or more I'll try to schedule my first session getting dominated by a Quebecoise provider. Any providers people would recommend?

You can check with @Shantie_mtl for soft dom

 

[Nachoy]

is waking you up in the middle of the night to have sex a turn on or turn off for you?
Are you able to accommodate sex while still sleeping ?

 

[terrybogard88]

is waking you up in the middle of the night to have sex a turn on or turn off for you?
Are you able to accommodate sex while still sleeping ?

THAT is hot

 

[Giselle Montreal]

is waking you up in the middle of the night [...] ?
Are you able to accommodate sex while still sleeping ?

While still sleeping?

Or you really meant "when you woke up in the middle of the night"?

 

[Rebaynia]

is waking you up in the middle of the night to have sex a turn on or turn off for you?
Are you able to accommodate sex while still sleeping ?

In my relationship, he would have to worry about me doing that. Waking him from his sleep because I found sleepy wood.
And think it a turn on if I wake up with him looking for sleepy sex.

That is my relationship.

A client no. I would wake up in a panic wondering if he is trying to avoid the condom, and I likely wouldn't be able to sleep next to a client either, worried about what could happen in my vulnerability as I slept.
I stay quietly motionless as they sleep, as my brain refuses to shut off.

 

[Shantie_mtl]

You can check with @Shantie_mtl for soft dom

Thanks ! Also i have 2 friends not here who i will recommend for hardcore domination . Please reach by text. ♡

 

[terrybogard88]

In my relationship, he would have to worry about me doing that. Waking him from his sleep because I found sleepy wood.
And think it a turn on if I wake up with him looking for sleepy sex.

That is my relationship.

A client no. I would wake up in a panic wondering if he is trying to avoid the condom, and I likely wouldn't be able to sleep next to a client either, worried about what could happen in my vulnerability as I slept.
I stay quietly motionless as they sleep, as my brain refuses to shut off.

Interesting

 

[massagecentre]

Question: after experiencing Indy SPs and SPs from reputable agencies, why would someone choose from Leolist and EI? Some are bait and switch, or scams or thieves or could even have STD. I have been gone away about 15 years ago until this past August, but it is the first time I heard of catcall on Leolist. I have seen some agencies have taken in some SPs from this site, but for the others, I would spend the extra money and get the desired service from these reputable places

 

[Skym]

To the SP, what's your idea of a perfect date?

 

[terrybogard88]

Question: after experiencing Indy SPs and SPs from reputable agencies, why would someone choose from Leolist and EI? Some are bait and switch, or scams or thieves or could even have STD. I have been gone away about 15 years ago until this past August, but it is the first time I heard of catcall on Leolist. I have seen some agencies have taken in some SPs from this site, but for the others, I would spend the extra money and get the desired service from these reputable places

Few years ago a Leolist SP stole my Nintendo Switch along with a couple of items in the bathroom...but it s also on Leolist that i found one former regular SP, after she was gone missing for 5years. You can t imagine how we were happy to....catch up

All this to say that Leolist is still a player in the business with its own place. Not the preferred choice among the others. But one still

 

[Rebaynia]

Question: after experiencing Indy SPs and SPs from reputable agencies, why would someone choose from Leolist and EI? Some are bait and switch, or scams or thieves or could even have STD. I have been gone away about 15 years ago until this past August, but it is the first time I heard of catcall on Leolist. I have seen some agencies have taken in some SPs from this site, but for the others, I would spend the extra money and get the desired service from these reputable places

Because even reputable SPs you find advertising places like here, are advertising on these platforms too, because that is where all the clients are going, to find SPs.

 

[Giselle Montreal]

why would someone choose from Leolist and EI? Some are bait and switch, or scams or thieves or could even have STD.

You know that clients can have STIs too, right? And they are more likely to transmit it and have a good amount of encounters before knowing it, since most clients don't get tested every three months, but twice a year, once a year, rarely, or even never.

 

[Nachoy]

While still sleeping?

Or you really meant "when you woke up in the middle of the night"?

In the context of overnighters. Do you like to sleep and not be disturbed or does it turn you on that the dude has a hard on and asking for sex in the middle of the night