Ask us anything part 3

[Lunaseraphim]

To cater to male clients successfully does it help to be more bisexual or more straight in this business?
I presume lesbian SP don’t engage with male clients.

A lot of SP actually prefer women, are full blown lesbians or are bisexual. I don't actually think it matters as long as the provider is able to satisfy her clients. Of course if you're bisexual you can have other opportunities like duos and couple bookings but a lot of people in this industry are gay for pay. (Or straight for pay)

But there's another side to it. When I mention being bisexual or liking women to certain clients they are afraid I'm not attracted to men and I have to reassure them that I am.

 

[LeDodo]

A lot of SP actually prefer women, are full blown lesbians or are bisexual. I don't actually think it matters as long as the provider is able to satisfy her clients. Of course if you're bisexual you can have other opportunities like duos and couple bookings but a lot of people in this industry are gay for pay. (If straight for pay)

But there's another side to it. When I mention being bisexual or liking women to certain clients they are afraid I'm not attracted to men and I have to reassure them that I am.

I was under the impression that a bisexual SP enjoyed more a duo lol

 

[Lunaseraphim]

I was under the impression that a bisexual SP enjoyed more a duo lol

Obviously they do lol

 

[Rebaynia]

I was under the impression that a bisexual SP enjoyed more a duo lol

I play with men all the time. It's a special kind of fun when I get to play with a woman aswell.

I will admit I have made a husband or 2 jealous not the wife at least, and with a couple often she's the one more likely to not want to repeat if she feels threatened. But the goal is everyone has fun, and him too. Often it is her first time for a 3some, and if she feels threatened or doesn't enjoy, he won't get to have more either. So it becomes a delicate juggling act, and I need him on board to make sure she enjoys, and wants more for his progressive future encounters.

When the couple is more used to having 3somes, the balance is more level and open.

I haven't had the privledge to be booked for duos yet, but from my understanding the attention is more him, than everyone, understandably, but would still be a lot of fun.

 

[Nachoy]

A lot of SP actually prefer women, are full blown lesbians or are bisexual. I don't actually think it matters as long as the provider is able to satisfy her clients. Of course if you're bisexual you can have other opportunities like duos and couple bookings but a lot of people in this industry are gay for pay. (Or straight for pay)

But there's another side to it. When I mention being bisexual or liking women to certain clients they are afraid I'm not attracted to men and I have to reassure them that I am.

Would you say that most of the women in sex work are bi than they are full lesbian or straight ?
I don’t directly ask but that is my impression
If they say in there profile, they don’t do couples or any females is that an indication the SP is straight?

 

[Rebaynia]

Would you say that most of the women in sex work are bi than they are full lesbian or straight ?
I don’t directly ask but that is my impression
If they say in there profile, they don’t do couples or any females is that an indication the SP is straight?

Can't say... each person can only speak for themselves. For all you know there could be a lesbian who has a gf, who is ok with her partner being with guys, but not other women. (Just giving a possibility.)
There are some who are pay to be bi, like there are some pay to be gay. This isn't something that can be generalized.

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Would you say that most of the women in sex work are bi than they are full lesbian or straight ?
I don’t directly ask but that is my impression
If they say in there profile, they don’t do couples or any females is that an indication the SP is straight?

I think there are many reasons why someone would not want to see couples other than being straight. I've had amazing experiences with couples, including a fantastic booking just 2 days ago, but some experiences weren't so nice. Sometimes men pressure their wives or girlfriends into having a threesome and I don't want to be part of that. I've had an experience before when a man kept commenting on how small I was compared to his wife "she used to be as thin as you and that's my preference" in her face and that was deeply uncomfortable. Things like this may be any some people won't see couples.. some SP also see it as more work.

I have no idea if more women in sex work are bi rather than lesbian or straight. Indy escorts are completely different from the workers you'll meet at a parlor or an agency. One of the reasons why I quit the parlor I was working at is because at the time I had a partner who is a woman and other girls were being really homophobic with me. Most indies I know personally are bi or what I would call "homoflexible" which means they are mostly attracted to women but they can still enjoy having sex with men.

 

[Iboa19]

Out of 10 , how many Daty?
Are good at it?

 

[Giselle Montreal]

Out of 10 , how many Daty?

9

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Out of 10 , how many Daty?
Are good at it?

Interestingly I would say most are good at it but it's subjective. I don't enjoy daty as much as some other women do even if it is a nice sensation. I prefer giving to both men and women rather than receiving

 

[romano.conto]

I have noticed that few SPs from Montreal travel to Quebec City. Yet, some of them offer their services in Ottawa. Is there a difference between the politicians at the National Assembly and provincial civil servants versus their federal counterparts? If it is the case, why?

a) In Ottawa, politicians and public servants have a more flexible "leisure" budget.

b) Time is money! 30 minutes less driving to Ottawa compared to Quebec City.

c) Those in Ottawa are more lustful than those in Quebec City.

d) Those from Quebec City do like you, they move toward us.

e) Ottawa has a hockey team, but Quebec City doesn’t. So it's all about the hockey players

 

[Giselle Montreal]

I have noticed that few SPs from Montreal travel to Quebec City. Yet, some of them offer their services in Ottawa. Is there a difference between the politicians at the National Assembly and provincial civil servants versus their federal counterparts? If it is the case, why?

Heu, no. It's simply that most offered rates from Montreal providers are considered too high for most clients in Québec city.

Same reasons why providers from the US rarely tour to Montreal as there's no money to be made for someone who easily charge 1K an hour in NYC.

 

[CaptRenault]

Heu, no. It's simply that most offered rates from Montreal providers are considered too high for most clients in Québec city.

When it comes to agency girls, Quebec rates are slightly higher in QC than in Montreal.

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[Giselle Montreal]

When it comes to agency girls, Quebec rates are slightly higher in QC than in Montreal.

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Maybe there are less agencies? Independents are usually lower than Montreal, and years ago I tried to tour numerous times but never succeeded.

 

[merbiteguy]

What's your average clients' age?

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Maybe there are less agencies? Independents are usually lower than Montreal, and years ago I tried to tour numerous times but never succeeded.

Exactly..

What's your average clients' age?

This really depends on the person, every companion is going to give you a different answer. My client's age fluctuate so much and there is such a wide range that I don't think I could give you an average.. In the past 12 months I've had bookings with people between the ages of 22 and 80. I think some providers prefer catering to older gentlemen, and what that means is pretty subjective.. For a 21 year old girl a 40 year old man is an older gentleman, but for me that would be more like 55+

 

[Lunaseraphim]

Freebies.

Have you ever offered a freebie,

1) In exchange for goods and services.
2) As a thank you in appreciation.
3) In special circumstances.

I received a freebie on one occasion. I arrived at an apartment building and there were pest control trucks outside and people running around doing their job. When I got to the SP's apartment, she told me that she forgot that the pest control people were coming that day. They were banging at the door to get people to leave so they can spray each apartment. The SP gave me a quicky with all our clothes on. I unbuckled and unzipped and for 2-3 minutes of service and then she pulled down her leggings and I completed the mission. There was banging at the door and we quickly exited. As the elevator door opened there were several haz mat suited guys getting off to do their job.

I see that by freebie you mean a sexual act.. I will never, in any occasion, trade sexual acts for goods and services, offer them as a ''thank you'' or in ''special circumstances''. Never did it, never will. I understand why people would do a service exchange and I don't judge it, it just isn't for me.

I have given extra time and perks to generous and regular clients before, but it's rare. I read something this morning on X about giving a better service if you maintain boundaries, and I think ultimately it's true. If you burn yourself out by giving freebies, and if lines get blurred because you're giving too much in inappropriate situations, ultimately there is a chance that your relationship with your client will suffer.

 

[Equator360]

I think that the SP that gave me the quicky was offering me an apology for inconveniencing me. To toss out a regular client is not good business practice. I would be curious if other hobbyist would appreciate a freeby under the same circumstances and if they would return if they were inconvenienced in that manner. Would you give a freeby if you inconvenienced a regular client?

 

[Rebaynia]

Freebies.

Have you ever offered a freebie,

1) In exchange for goods and services.
2) As a thank you in appreciation.
3) In special circumstances.

I received a freebie on one occasion. I arrived at an apartment building and there were pest control trucks outside and people running around doing their job. When I got to the SP's apartment, she told me that she forgot that the pest control people were coming that day. They were banging at the door to get people to leave so they can spray each apartment. The SP gave me a quicky with all our clothes on. I unbuckled and unzipped and for 2-3 minutes of service and then she pulled down her leggings and I completed the mission. There was banging at the door and we quickly exited. As the elevator door opened there were several haz mat suited guys getting off to do their job.

No freebies

I think that the SP that gave me the quicky was offering me an apology for inconveniencing me. To toss out a regular client is not good business practice. I would be curious if other hobbyist would appreciate a freeby under the same circumstances and if they would return if they were inconvenienced in that manner. Would you give a freeby if you inconvenienced a regular client?

No freebies

Inconveniences happen. The regulars I see have enough respect not to even ask for freebies. We understand mutually sometimes shit happens, and we work around it, or reschedule. They also know if they tried pulling some kind of guilt trip I would drop them like a bad habbit, then they loose their ATF.

If I want to get F*cked for free I have my relationship, and for us, if I was doing freebies, that would count as cheating. He personally tries to alleviate my discomforts about being an SP in a relationship, by confirming when it is for work to self-support, it is not cheating.

Only freebies would be if it was some kind of party Master was planning out for his/our own entertainment and enjoyment to share his slave, with him present.

 

[Enjoying life]

Exactly..

This really depends on the person, every companion is going to give you a different answer. My client's age fluctuate so much and there is such a wide range that I don't think I could give you an average.. In the past 12 months I've had bookings with people between the ages of 22 and 80. I think some providers prefer catering to older gentlemen, and what that means is pretty subjective.. For a 21 year old girl a 40 year old man is an older gentleman, but for me that would be more like 55+

I spoke with a sp once and she told me a man in his very early 20s was very condescending towards her! I don’t know why someone would do that if you made a choice to spend time with an sp!