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I ..why doesn’t Geng1987 say something already???

I would like to give him the benefit of the doubt but silence when there is some expectation that one would speak up makes it difficult to do so. It may be that he is being investigated by the Mods and has deemed it prudent not to respond pending completion of the investigation. As UB mentioned in the past when this or an STD accusation was posted the Mods investigated and shut things down/deleted posts if there was no fire to match the smoke. That doesn’t appear to have happened so it probably means an ongoing investigation.
 

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Also, I don't understand why Sp's don't take a couple of seconds at the beginning of a session and clearly but calmly state that "Any attempt at BBFS will immediately end the session, with no refund". Especially with any new clients. Even, with repeat/respected clients - if he asks for BBFS - she could simply state "Look, you have been warned. Any additional attempts at BBFS will end the session, period."
 
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In all fairness to one of your points, i believe 100% that IF a member trys to get bbfs he should absolutely be called out for everyone to know his handle. I dont feel that its classless, its exactly what should happen.
 

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I have been reading this thread and didn't feel like replying but this is something I have to reply to....

Also, I don't understand why Sp's don't take a couple of seconds at the beginning of a session and clearly but calmly state that "Any attempt at BBFS will immediately end the session, with no refund". Especially with any new clients. Even, with repeat/respected clients - if he asks for BBFS - she could simply state "Look, you have been warned. Any additional attempts at BBFS will end the session, period."

Because first of all, this should be obvious and not have to be stated (lol)

but also, there's no ''you've been warned, any additional attemps...'' no, no no no. More like ''You attempted once? now take your HIV infused ass outta here you goddamn prick and you should pay me for my STD tests for the next 6 months since my mouth touched your penis''. Just asking (even by text) is enough to be blocked in my case. I don't accept a ''okay sorry for asking let's do penetration with a condom'', because why would I suck a cock that might have STDs ? Why would I trust a client that asks me for BBFS ? There are no 2nd chances when it comes to this. Anyone asks me for BBFS or attempt it I'm just going to assume you have HIV and gono and chlam all at once and kick you out and put your ass on every blacklist and if I feel like it, maybe on my twitter too. No shame. :)
 

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Couple of things I learned along the way.
1.) You are never going to be able prove anything beyond he said/she said. If such proof did exist, it mean provider or agency was recording and accordingly it's never going to be see the light unless it is serious enough to get law enforcement involved which everybody wants to avoid (to a degree).
2.) Take all reviews with a grain of salt as reviews are inherently bias as beauty is in the eye of the beholder and chemistry with provider is YMMV.
3.) Without identification verification, it's difficult/impossible to ban those requesting BBFS. I doubt MERB members want the industry to adopt the US operating model.
4.) Agency should educate girls how to handle these situations.
5.) This thread never dies.
 

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Anyone that does not care and tries to have BBFS either has a STD or is about to catch it from a SP that offers BBFS.
 
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VSOP although there is an obvious health risk to BBFS that is an issue for those who choose to partake in the activity. I don’t think that is the primary concern for most MERBites, because any health risks are assumed by the practitioners of BBFS who are voluntarily engaging in this risky activity.

The primary concern I have heard from the community is that those asking for or otherwise seeking BBFS will frighten/upset SPs and cause them to leave the business. Most of the recent posts have focused on that issue.
 

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The primary concern I have heard from the community is that those asking for or otherwise seeking BBFS will frighten/upset SPs and cause them to leave the business. Most of the recent posts have focused on that issue.

Exactly!! Fuck I do not know why some make such a debate on the issue!!! These people asking bbfs can really fuck it up for everone!
 

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Exactly!! Fuck I do not know why some make such a debate on the issue!!! These people asking bbfs can really fuck it up for everone!

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Just a reminder to everyone that tries or even mentions BBFS to any girl will be blacklisted.

Many regulars and active members in here have been the main culprits recently.

Some even write negative reviews or backhanded comments on their thread when girls refuse their request.

We will take the time to share your number and info to all providers in Canada & USA.

XO
 

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Bravo EscortsXO, very appreciated that you took the floor to denounce these clients who have no control over this thing they have between their legs. o_O

I hope all other agencies will apply the same rules.
 

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Everyone,

EscortsXO has just posted a notice about a very serious issue, that goes back to what was the impetus for this thread when it was started a few years ago:

Hello everyone,

It seems to have become a recent phenomenon for clients to be either asking the girls, for an extra, for Bare Back, or even just trying "in the heat of the moment". I had 2 more reports from girls this week about that, and these are clients that have booked 10-15 times. I also caught another client from out of town, that has booked 4-5 times.

It is going too far and I want to take a lead on this. I will tell you all right now that it happens much more than you think and Merb clients are the vast majority of the culprits. We easily have 40% non-Merb clients for comparison.

I am saying right now, that any future client who even brings up BBFS will be banned permanently and I will look into permission to either post their phone numbers publicly or privately to all other agencies. We have a lot of debutante type girls here, who often don't know how to handle these type of insistent requests and it is a very dangerous practice. I will not accept anyone putting these young girls in a tough position and will not tread lightly on this. Even If it is our best client who books 4-5 hours a week, there will be no tolerance. I implore all other agencies to follow the same policies. Any girl I hear have accepted this, will be fired immediately as well.

It really irks me that some of these guys are regular clients, who act like the nicest guys on the phone, and then pull this kind of stuff.

Best Regards,
James

At this point, any response to off-topic posts made a few years ago when the thread started to meander, will be deleted.

The issue raised now by EscortsXO and by Euphoria Girls back then is a serious one, and the moderation won't allow the discussion to go off-track once again.

One off-topic post deleted.

Thanks for your collaboration
 

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Just a reminder to everyone that tries or even mentions BBFS to any girl will be blacklisted.

Many regulars and active members in here have been the main culprits recently.

Some even write negative reviews or backhanded comments on their thread when girls refuse their request.

We will take the time to share your number and info to all providers in Canada & USA.

XO

Good evening @EscortsXO

This type of behaviour is just as disturbing as it is disgusting. Please extend my sympathies to those who may have suffered from this. I sincerely hope nobody was harmed.

Thank you

Tao

Edit: thank you also for reporting this matter. Its supremely important to keep people accountable when these situations happen for the sake of everyone's health and safety.
 
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"Merb clients are the vast majority of the culprits"

WTF??!?!?!?!?!?!

All these robertpals running amok.

Now you have to put a condom on just to talk to her. Thanks a lot! LOL.
 

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I have seen more and more girls advertising BBFS and Creampie services. In years gone by this would never have happened and I applaud the agencies for calling out those who want to risk themselves, the girls and other clients. This is a stupid behaviour that needs to be curtailed. STI's are a real thing, think before you EVER ASK for this ! Do you really want to put yourself at this kind of risk ?
 

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I have never used the services of this agency, and your intervention is extremely judicious and at the same time extremely pathetic.

I think you could share the name or username of the guys, with all the agencies and also with indies who have come together.

I can't understand these guys, no reasons are acceptable.

Thanks again for updating this disgusting way for these guys.
 

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I think you could share the name or username of the guys, with all the agencies and also with indies who have come together.
In the past there was another MERB BBFS thread in which John Eleganza, some time in 2008 or 2009 I think, publicly outed a senior MERB member for requesting BBFS from his ladies. According to John, the method or "technique" used was that he would fake putting on the condom all the way, and then pull an "ole!!!!!!" right before insertion. Just like the matador pulling cape away from the bull at the very last instant. John made it fairly clear that one of his ladies was totally traumatized by this action of BBFS (and I think she quit right then and there), and John was livid when he put up that post. I should note that I had never previously seen John make any type of accusation like that publicly, and he rarely posted at all outside of his own advertising thread or the review threads. Occasionally he did respond to bad reviews.

Later on, the senior MERB member John outed admitted to John's allegations on MERB (which kind of surprised me as I kind of knew the guy from parties and he is not someone I would have expected such behavior from). He sort of disappeared from MERB after that, at least under that handle. Identifying him in this post therefore serves no purpose, and this is all ancient history anyway but clearly this has gone on for a long time and in the past was handled in the fashion that is being suggested by Sene. I think that despite the admission of John's allegations that thread was later deleted by the Mods, perhaps because the Mods feared it was or would be abused to make false accusations. So I do not know what the actual policy of MERB is on the naming of BBFS aficionados by handle.

Even more ancient history is the legendary outing of another somewhat less well known and less well liked MERB member for BBFS. His handle was banned permanently by the Mods, apparently because there were direct complaints made to the Mods about him practicing BBFS by providers. This would be the infamous Robertpal, someone already mentioned previously in this thread. Robertpal had also been outed for shitting, apparently deliberately, while being serviced by a girl from Devilish. Right in the bed. Chris of Devilish absolutely excoriated Robertpal in a long thread, while announcing his banning from that agency very publicly. The Devilish ban preceded the MERB ban, as I recall. I met this Robertpal character around a year earlier at one of the MERB parties in 2005. He was a spoiled young rich kid hobbying on Daddy's money and seemingly just very immature at that time as he was like in his early 20s, if even that old. College aged. What I recall most about him is him spilling a drink on a girl at a MERB party at the HDLM. I witnessed it and it just looked like he was clumsy holding the drink, but the Devilish lady was furious to have had a drink spilled on her.

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One other thing is that if the allegations about members is true and I do not know if it is, any agency has the ability to share the information with the Mods and ask that member privileges be revoked. I assume that this is exactly why Robertpal was so very publicly outed and banned and stripped of MERB posting privileges by the Mods. Robertpal later tried the Tony-like tactic of creating new handles and returning, but he seemed substantially less adept at doing so than Tony, as the Mods would quickly catch him and ban him again. But again, I do not know if the current Mods have that same policy or not as to what Sene is suggesting.
 
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